I might be soft but every time I see these people like some of my answers and personal posts, I always have a minute when I wish and hope they're happy and life is treating them well.
YOU GUYS ARE SO EMBARRASSING! y’all care about his personal life more than his actual music! stop commenting on whether or not he’s dating her or it’s pr it’s his fucking life!!!!! maybe THEY themselves don’t know about it have you ever thought of that??? let them kiss each other if they want life’s short it’s made for mistakes or happy ever afters! but don’t go around using his potential relationship is a reason to “unstan” at least have a valid reason??? stop acting like a petty 12 year old
I can’t stop laughing 🤣 we, as stans, are allowed to unstan for whatever reason we see fit. Don’t tell us we should care about his music and not his personal life, when he’s fucking flaunting the PR shit everywhere. We are allowed to not love eveything he does. We are allowed to have opinions. I’m not harming anybody by saying I don’t want to Stan him anymore. If I don’t feel comfortable supporting someone who preaches honesty and then doesn’t practice it, who lies to his fans and then gets pissed when someone asks a question about something he’s being difficult about, I will. We’re embarrassing for deciding to move on and not be up his arse about the PR stunt? No. What’s embarrassing is shawnmila shippers attacking and threatening other fans for not believing their bullshit. What’s embarrassing, is people like you telling us that we’re being pathetic for voicing our opinions and taking a step back from Shawn and the fandom. What’s fucking embarrassing is Shawn pulling this bullshit and expecting us to buy it and still support him. What’s embarrassing is that Shawn is a massive role model to millions of people, (so many of which are young fans,) and he’s talking about being honest and then going back on his word, for the entire world to see. We care about his music, but not when him and his team are pulling bullshit clownery to get streams. Shawns always said he wants to be known for his music, but here he is, in a PR relationship, kissing his apparent best friend that he considers as a sister, to get more streams on their collab and her upcoming album. Please, do not come into my ask box and tell me I’m embarrassing for not wanting to be apart of this shit show. If I’ve lost my inspiration to write for Shawn and the will to Stan him, then so fucking what. You do not have the right to tell me I’m being a petty 12 year old for stepping back from something that frustrates me and causes anxiety when I see blogs argue and shade thrown over the situation. Grow up.
Im trying very hard not to be annoyed with shawnmila.... like, they can do what they want, but I cant help but feel like its fanservice and a way to get press. Plus, if it is genuine, she literally just broke up with her bf and moved right on over to shawn. Idk. Its hard not to cringe whenever i see them bejng lovey and i have to remember theyre celebs and it doesnt effect my life but i dont much respect them for it i guess idk. Just already sick of seeing all the paps photos and staged pics
i was planning on not commenting but this entire situation has pissed me off so much. not just shawn’s side but the entire response. i havent been able to scroll down for three seconds without someone bringing it up and its hard to be on here. people have even left because of it (karla,,, if youre reading this.. get me out!!)
but here’s my personal opinion:
i do not care if they are dating or not. literally couldn’t give a single fuck. however. it looks too much like pr to not be. and its done in the most messy way possible. you’re going to spend years breathing down my neck about how you guys are just friends and now in just three days, you’re together?? huh?? getting a photographer to come to a private party (which is usually illegal ayyy) and have them perfectly photograph a supposed kiss? hm. and then rolling your eyes when people are curious? shawn. my baby you know i love you. but please, what did you think was going to happen? it looks so messy when he’s preaching about honestly and transparently and then getting mad at an innocently curious question (im surprised he didnt get more.. bc he must know how much uproar he’s caused). and then a day later he’s holding her hand and twirling her around in la. it’s literally making us look dumb. what do you want us to think? because we all think you’re together, so please dont make us feel dumb when you’re literally leading us to that conclusion.
i hope he’s happy. i hope for his sake they’re together. but i dont think they genuinely are. which sucks because this whole thing is just bringing more bad publicity than good.
and one more thing. if you’re mad at people and making posts about how people are idiots and invading his privacy. please stop. as a fan, what else am i supposed to do when seeing a dating pic, ignore it? because thats literally hilarious. we all want him to be happy, that’s not an issue. but this is legit a forum for people to talk about things and research together, and if you’re getting salty over it - then maybe tumblr isnt for you.