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BLESS THIS MESS
morg he/him 18+! NSFW ! 22 Y/O chronically ill man. survivor. I love cats and bears and gardening and art. get some sleep. eat a vegetable. slap your own ass.
cock-dealer · an hour ago
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trans dilf society
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cock-dealer · an hour ago
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“No one would force you to walk if you were paralyzed” yes they did yes they have yes they do. the fuck planet are you on where disabled people aren’t forced to do physically dangerous and painful things so you can clap like trained seals at us
peak ableist is yammering at length about how physical disabilities are always taken more seriously than mental ones regardless of your lack of life experience being physically disabled and your lack of physically disabled friends and also the fact you don’t listen to any of us
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cock-dealer · an hour ago
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peak ableist is yammering at length about how physical disabilities are always taken more seriously than mental ones regardless of your lack of life experience being physically disabled and your lack of physically disabled friends and also the fact you don’t listen to any of us
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cock-dealer · 2 hours ago
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trans dilf society
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cock-dealer · 5 hours ago
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Sorry if this isn’t a good time, I just have a sincere question. Maybe this is just my experience but have you noticed the general gay community becoming more transphobic or at the very least more hostile towards FtM guys who are into other men? Even one of my irl friends seems to have fallen for the whole “im not into ftms because I’m gay” line, or yknow just conflating trans men for women in general. I’ve also noticed one or two guys at my local lgbt group who purposely call themselves “homosexual not gay” and define cis/trans pairings as heterosexual or bisexual by default. I hope this is just a me thing because otherwise this feels like a bad omen especially with the rising popularity of LGB groups.
This isn’t something new nor is it specific to gay men. Transphobia has just become more common in general and it’s easier to become a transphobe if you’ve never met a trans person offline. I’ve met dozens of cis gay men who’ve gotten on with trans men. It’s something I hear about at the bar I go to pretty often. their first exposure to trans men is this setting where we’re all adults. we are acquaintances even friends tbh. If those guys I hang out with had been younger and more naïve and online, they would have dramatically different attitudes towards trans people. Transphobia isn’t exactly mainstream but it’s easy to become radicalized against trans folks when you don’t have any trans friends or acquaintances and you’re gullible on social media.
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cock-dealer · 6 hours ago
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God I love being a trans guy who dresses like shit. I wear the ugliest basketball shorts known to man and everyone wants to kill me for making them witness such a travesty. If they made those “will trade sister for video games” shirts in adult sizes you know I’d be rocking that shit constantly. Ugly ass haircut? Hell yeah I did it for myself two nights ago. I’ve got the socks and slides on because I can’t be bothered to put on proper shoes. This is how my middle school self wanted to dress and I’m doing it for him now because he deserves it.
I support you king
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cock-dealer · 9 hours ago
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now THIS is what I call targeted advertising
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cock-dealer · 9 hours ago
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Sorry to disappoint you. Sincerely, a trans fat :(
You could never disappoint me dear 🖤 (puts paper crown on you)
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cock-dealer · 21 hours ago
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“everyone thinks we’re boyfriends because we’re such good pals” is for being in high school. “everyone thinks we’re married because he’s my emergency contact” is real gay adult shit
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cock-dealer · 22 hours ago
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“you might be disabled one day, so you should care about ableism!!” so fuck me and all the cripples that already exist . I see that point of that post but cmon
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cock-dealer · 23 hours ago
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why are tiger ears so fucking cute oh my g-d just little round boops
I love tigers so fucking much
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thank you for reminding me
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cock-dealer · 23 hours ago
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genuinely astonished at how astronomically shitty random people on the internet are being to you about. your conditions. that you live with. daily. that are yours. it legitimately blows my mind how blatantly ableist these people are being??? Maybe it's a combination of neurodivergency and growing up with a chronically ill parent but the stuff you get in your inbox is some of the most STAGGERINGLY cruel, arrogant, and entitled bullshit I've ever seen. why is it not basic human decency to just not comment if you're just going to be shitty about someone not fitting the Perfect Curable Disability Mold that Responds To The Correct Treatment.....
Combine not knowing anything about being chronically ill and wanting to sound the most correct and the smartest in the room, and you get shit like that. and these kids can’t even begin to fathom what it’s like living in my body. They think they’ve figured it all out and they “worked hard” to earn their health, and therefore they are better than us miserable incurables.
In reality, you can make all the “correct” decisions and still end up disabled. If the universe is a just place, that anon will realize that as they get older, no amount of yoga and deep breathing and mindfulness will stop their bones and organs and skin from breaking down with age. One day, they will be rudely awoken to the reality that people get sick for no reason and it’s NOT anyone’s fault.
the whole “health is a personal responsibility and if you’re disabled, you failed” attitude is such bullshit and I can’t roll my eyes any harder
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cock-dealer · a day ago
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the problem is professionals recommend things that do not help and when you're like "that did not help and in fact made me feel worse can you please recommend something else" they're like "maybe you're not doing it hard enough. idk"
I had a very blunt conversation with the group facilitating therapist about how “grounding” techniques only give me more stress and pain because you are asking me to draw attention to my body, which hurts constantly. And she didn’t have a response that satisfies me. She told me to focus on my hearing instead. I have an auditory processing disorder. There was no other suggestion given
So maybe mindfulness works for some people but it sure as fuck doesn’t work for me. I prefer CBT and the practice of it because I’ve actually benefitted from it, something I can’t say about mindfulness.
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cock-dealer · a day ago
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you: mindfulness doesn't work at all because there's absolutely nothing helpful or healing about being even more aware of the constant pain I'm in
some dumbass who clearly knows fuck all about chronic pain: Wow I can't believe you'd deny [useless] treatment like this, don't you want your incurable conditions to get better???
ableists have lost the plot. How does someone draw a line between me not benefiting from mindfulness and my chronic health conditions. There’s no fucking relationship!!! I could be mentally 100% sound and there would STILL be metal in my spine and I would STILL have colitis and endometriosis
There’s sufficient evidence that mindfulness is not as helpful for people who have severe trauma or physical pain either. Point and laugh at that anon with me
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cock-dealer · a day ago
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abled people are you ok?? please tell me this is a joke
my favourite thing is that you complain about literally everything about yourself and your life but whenever a professional is like “this may help you even just a little bit” you’re all UM AKSHUALLY. like ok just continue suffering as much as you can then lol
Is this because I said I didn’t like mindfulness? LOL
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cock-dealer · a day ago
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my favourite thing is that you complain about literally everything about yourself and your life but whenever a professional is like “this may help you even just a little bit” you’re all UM AKSHUALLY. like ok just continue suffering as much as you can then lol
Is this because I said I didn’t like mindfulness? LOL
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cock-dealer · a day ago
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how to explain to “mindfulness” therapists and support group facilitators that I don’t actually want to be more aware of my bone and organ pain and I don’t actually want to focus on the sensations in my body and I’d rather do literally anything else
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