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[crickiss]

black selfshippers, your f/os would not tokenize you.

🎀 your romantic f/os do not use your blackness as a gotcha or as a shield against criticism from others.

🎀 you are not the token black friend for your platonic f/os. they love you for you and not just to diversify their circle.

🎀 your familial f/os care so much about you and love you for who you are, not as some act of goodwill.

🎀 all of your f/os love you for you, not just your blackness and what they can use it for to their advantage.

🎀 they do not keep you around just because they think the way you talk or act or look is funny, and they make sure to let you know that fact.

{pro/com/darkship dni.}

#impurrtant

[crickiss]

the doctor says i got an attention deficit so y'all gotta gimme more

#CARRION

[crickiss]

White people in this community, you need to start listening to POC selfshippers more. It's very telling when you try to make positivity posts that were made for us about yourself in the tags or comments, when it's not about you. Please remember that so many things in this world are accommodating specifically towards white people and not us as POC, we are often not included or accounted for or even considered in many situations. While this may sound silly in the context of selfshipping, for many of us this is also done for fun, as an escape, or even as a coping mechanism just as much as some of you guys may consider it to be as well. And it hurts when something made to make us feel included is once again overstepped on by white people, just like we deal with so often in our real lives. Please try to consider that this space also is for us POC, and think really hard if you may be overstepping and be mindful of what you say. So many of you make excuses for your ignorant actions and need to learn accountability instead.

(White people can rb but don't comment.)

#impurrtant

[crickiss]

for the f/o you added to your list recently, for those who only started selfshipping recently or just in general!! imagine looking forward to spending the spring/summer with your f/o!!

spending the holidays together, the weather being nicer for outside activities, everything not being so gloomy anymore and full of life and getting to experience all of that with your f/o!!

picnics in fields, tucking flowers behind your ear .. your f/o def looks forward to these things the most among other things!! they just love getting to experience the different seasons together with you and just having you in their life in general just as much as you do <33

#urk . #lovey dovey

[crickiss]

late drawing for Valentine's Day! I was just able to finish it, I was busy but in the end I was able to draw a drawing of my husband and I, look how cute we look. Ahh, I've wanted to draw Ulqui with that costume for a long time, it's so cute ♥️♥️♥️

It was our first Valentine's Day together, last year we were just falling in love with each other hehe

#OH MY GOODNESS‚ THIS LOOKS EXTRAORDINARILY BEAUTIFUL❣ ur art rules!! Such a splendid couple you two! ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡ #others stuffs

[crickiss]

⋆☀︎ Imagine your normally stoic f/o staring at you with a blush on their face, just admiring in you in all your beauty. Then hearts appear next to their head and they quickly have to hide them like a goofy cartoon character.

(Proshippers DNI)

#SILLY /POS #lovey dovey

[crickiss]

#sweet nothings

[crickiss]

🥟 hi! i am squishie (or squishy, as an alternative form of spelling my name)! u can also call me abbey or meringue!

🥟 i am a bipoc selfshipper (asian-american). i am also an adult! my gender is a masc nonbinary genderfluid! my sexualities are achillean/gay (men preferred) and demisexual! i use any pronoun but primarily, i use they/he!

🥟 my ultimate f/o (aka soulmate) is dragon king from the monkey king 2023! i am absolutely uncomfortable sharing him! plz dni and hardblock me!!

🥟 but i am currently focusing on master shifu from kfp! he is my second main f/o! like dragon king, i am also uncomfortable sharing him! other shifu selfshippers and shifuxmeiling shippers, plz dni!!

🥟 other than shifu, my other romantic kfp f/o is junjie from the kfp legends of awesomeness tv series (uncomfy w/ sharing)! in addition, my platonic f/o from that franchise is po!

🥟 as u can see tho, my #1 main fandom is the monkey king 2023 but i am hyperfixing over kfp rn as u can see!

🥟 yes, i am an introvert but i would like more mooties! especially if we share any of the same fandoms!

🥟 before that, read my dni before proceeding! it is the red text in my pinned post!

🥟 to top it all off, proship/comship dni ever!!

#!!!! #boost #following from @bonyato!! its so nice to meet you‚ i hope youre welcomed warmly by other shippers within the community 🫰🏼^^

[crickiss]

big fan of seeing a character and going from ‘oh he’s kind of a freak, interesting’ to ‘i need him expeditiously’ in the span of like five minutes

#GHRAAAAAHJHHHH

[crickiss]

this is so dumb but its real

#hollering Behe tjhis rules

[crickiss]

fucked up in the club reading the suicide methods wikipedia page

#miriam #suicide ment

[crickiss]

Promo me?

My name is Salem I'm 21 I just moved blogs YAY I love Fighting game men and. Anime Julius Caesar.

#HOORAAAYYYYY SALEM'S BACK 🙌🏼‼️💥 #boost

[crickiss]

“you’re being mean to him” i’m in love with him unfortunately. hope this helps

[crickiss]

kinda in love with the author of this chicken recipe and her love of garlic. karina if you’re single call me

#croixcore

[crickiss]

Anyone else get mad anxiety liking/reblogging fanart and stuff from people who don't have F/Os and are just generally in the fandom? Like I'm so scared to weird anybody out lol.

#PREV TAGS SAME 🤝‼️❗ #SWAG STRATEGY..

[crickiss]

Just in case anyone else needed this:

Your F/O still loves you even if you're depressed or suffering with chronic illness. They still love you even if you can't get out of bed some days. They understand if you don't have the mental or physical energy to take care of yourself. They don't think you're any less of a person for not having perfect hygiene, if you struggle with that. They love you no matter what, and they always will. Don't be so harsh on yourself. Things will get better. Even if things don't get better as fast as you want, your F/O will stay by your side through it.

Take care of yourselves, guys. 🧡

#impurrtant

[crickiss]

— Jay Vespertine; not from a book but from an actual conversation.

#urk #sweet nothings