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dabidski · 3 days
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dabidski · 9 days
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One of my favorite songs from New Girl. This played at the end of the "Wedding Eve" episode. This episode hits me hard because of the part where Jess asked Cece about marriage.
Jess: How do you know if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone? Cece: You just know. Cece: I don't know. I can't put it into words. Jess: Try! There are a lot of words out there, just pick some of them. Cece: Everything inside of me just said, yes. Cece: I just looked at him. Cece: You know, I just had this feeling that I was home. Jess: That is very beautiful... Jess: And very, very vague and not helpful at all.
I wonder how that feels like just knowing you found the person for you.
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dabidski · 10 days
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I went to Ho Chi Minh for a weekend with Elbi. She was on a worktrip there so I just tagged along and got to use her company paid hotel stay. I rented a scooter to roam around the city. It was fucking hot outside, but I managed to walk to the motor rental place. My feet has a dark brown tan line around my birks because of this. Driving the scooter was an exhirating experience. This was my first time riding one so it was pretty scary at first, but it was easy once you get the hang of it. Driving on an open road is the best, but when you reach heavy traffic it's just hell. There's no concept of personal space when you travel via 2 wheeled vehicles in Vietnam. We travelled thru heavy traffic for 40 minutes and it felt like torture to me. I was gripping the handle bars so tightly that my hands were cramping after the drive. But it was all worth it for the experience! We got to try legit pho in Ben Thanh Street Food market. It was good but it's not something I'd be craving for. I actually didn't get to try much Vietnamese food on this trip since we didn't get to go around much because Elbi had work. I did, however, get to try a Mexican restaurant called La Fiesta! It was pretty good, they served complimentary nachos with some dip I didn't know. The quesadillas were good as well. It was International Women's day when I arrived. So I had to find flowers to give Elbi since it was customary for guys to give flowers to girls on this day. I ended up going to a very cute flower shop called "30 Bunches, a floral tea story". The place was very nice and I think it was a coffee and flower shop combined. I was glad the manager knows how to speak english so I was able to buy something nice.
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dabidski · 10 days
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SDD stayed over again for the weekend. We watched "Mabuhay is a Lie" and Dune (fell asleep tho). We cooked creamy chicken parmesan pasta for dinner. It was good but I think it was too creamy. I liked the farfalle pasta tho. The next day, I cooked a cheesy tuna omelette for breakfast and it almost looked like an omelette. Then we went to Podium for a spa day. These visits are nice and I really like how caring SDD is. Being with her feels like home. I hope to get to know her more.
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dabidski · 17 days
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Perfectly describes how I felt last month.
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dabidski · 18 days
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“They say love and affection are two different things” You told me last night. Sometimes I think so too Winter comes again and your heart has gone away If I look back I see That I could always feel you by my side
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dabidski · 23 days
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I went out on a lunch date with Ssy. Picked her up at her place and we went to Tablo for lunch. The food was delicious! I've tried it before but it's so much better with good company. Ssy seems like a genuinely nice and loving person. I think our date went well, but it didn't feel as smooth as the other ones. That might be my fault as I'm getting a bit fatigued with all the socializing. My social battery needs some time to recharge. Anyway, I'm glad I got to meet all these nice women. It's making me realize how blind I was to all the red flags I encountered before.
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dabidski · 25 days
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I’ve been to two dates with S. The first date was a beach trip in Laiya. The second one is a camping trip in Antipolo. Not sure if these dates are a bit too much adventure for a person I barely know but so far they’ve been really fun.
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Brought my dogs to both of those trips and they really enjoyed nature and her company.
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Chestnut seems to be overly fond of S. I hope she doesn’t get too attached yet. It’s still too early for any kind of commitment. I’m taking it slow this time, I’ve learned my lesson. I don’t have to fall in love with the first person who gives me some attention but I really do like it. It feels good being cared for.
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dabidski · 28 days
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I really missed having people over for dinner and drinks.
Dinner wasn’t perfect but she enjoyed it. Burnt the butter for the sauce a bit when I melted it because I was too lazy to dice the butter up.
Drinks were good. I discovered Lolea Sangria only recently. It’s pretty good, maybe the only wine that I like. Had Don Papa Masskara rum on the rocks as well. This was in my cupboard for more than 4 years? It’s my first time trying it and I loved it. Lastly, we had Absolut vodka mixed with lemonade. Can’t go wrong with that I guess.
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dabidski · 1 month
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Lessons I learned the hard way
Do not ignore the red flags. Learn to step back and assess your situation then ask yourself, is this all worth it?
Don't rush into things. Living together so early on was a huge mistake. I compromised so much because of that. I wasn't able to build the habits I wanted for myself. Take it slow, enjoy your time together and learn new things about each other.
Communicate your needs and try to build a safe space for communication. This is probably my biggest failure in my previous relationship. I wasn't vocal about what I needed. I couldn't tell her what needed from her. I think this was also a sign that I wasn't with the right person. I was afraid of opening up and talking to her. It didn't feel safe. I felt like I wouldn't be heard and that it would just make things worse.
Find someone who supports you. And of course it should go the other way around as well, find someone worthy of your support. It should always be give and take. You can't just keep giving, you'll eventually run out of love for yourself. If she just takes and takes and doesn't even give you any support back, it doesn't feel like a relationship at all.
Family and friends are important. If she doesn't care enough about your family and friends, she's not worth your time. This isn't about being introverted and not knowing how to socialize. This is about the effort she puts into it. It's just harder for an introvert to talk to other people but it's not impossible. It just takes more effort. I'm an introvert and I was able to socialize with your family and friends. How come you couldn't do the same for me?
Value yourself. Know your worth. If she can't see the value you bring into her life and if she can't appreciate you, just leave. It's not worth to make it work when she can't even handle the bare minimum. Learn to cut your losses. It's not worth investing anymore time on someone who can't appreciate your worth. It's okay to leave and be single again, don't be afraid. As long as you love yourself and know your worth, there's someone out there who will value you.
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dabidski · 1 month
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An apology would’ve been nice but I know her inflated ego is stopping her. Regardless, I harbor no ill will towards her. This pain shall pass and in the end we’ll be strangers again.
If you’re reading this, I would’ve loved to see the best version of you. Unfortunately, you chose to give me your worst. Thank you for passing by.
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dabidski · 1 month
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dabidski · 1 month
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Remember when you said “Ikaw na yung gusto ko eh” like it was a forever kind of thing?
Believing you was one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
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dabidski · 1 month
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dabidski · 1 month
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"Find someone you can love like crazy, and who'll love you the same way back... Because the truth is, honey, there's no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love, well, you haven't lived a life at all."
Anthony Hopkins as William Parrish - Meet Joe Black (1998)
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dabidski · 1 month
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"I ask you to pass through life at my side—to be my second self, and best earthly companion."
― Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre
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