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A customer contacted our team with questions, and then finished their email with: "I am daunted by the complexities and unknowns." I haven't been able to stop thinking about it since.

#reblog #often

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If you're fifteen or older an still sleep with a stuffed animal please reblog this.

#reblog #my minecraft creeper is my baby

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#reblog #she is in need of a bath

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Do you ever see something like this:

and think, "This'll be a fun little thing to read while I wait."

And then you read it and you're fundamentally changed as a person and you're left staring off into the middle distance as you contemplate life and love and connection and what it all means?

#reblog #yeah and its 3 am too

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artists, this is ur reminder to start drawing references or redesign your original characters before artfight in july this year

#reblog #artfight #maybe Ill do it this year #who knows

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#reblog #I have both on but in game music is lowered

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idk if Tumblr will keep the boops going after today, but through the power of discord emoji, you can boop your friends in a server. or idk, paste them in someone's askbox.

#reblog #this is great #april fools #boop

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Laios from Dungeon Meshi, but slightly fuzzier

#reblog #I dont know much about this #but I admit hes pretty like thise

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IM WEEPING AGAHAHAHAHAGAHA

#reblog #I STG SHOW US SOMETHING BETHESDA #I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR SO LONG #LETS FUCKING GOOOOO

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Unrelated: I have also been injected with praying mantis DNA

#reblog #portal #this is kinda funny

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Kulve taroth is such a beautiful monster

#reblog #monster hunter #kulve taroth #she's so gorgeous!!! #great job on the horns

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THE WORLD IS YOUR CANVAS

SO TAKE UP YOUR BRUSH

AND PAINT

THE WORLD ...

#reblog #dunno what either game is truly about but this looks awesome!!!

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Reblog to open a rail line from your blog to the person you reblogged this from

#reblog #cmon boys lets all hop on the tumblr rail line

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#reblog #I was not expecting that

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demisexuality can be so hard to explain because it’s misconstrued as you just wanting to trust the other person before you have sex with them. and I get why the misconception happens. But demisexuality differs in that there isn’t sexual attraction at all before that bond forms.

I think what people have difficulty with is the idea that there are people out there who aren’t experiencing sexual attraction at all until a certain point, if ever, because we’re taught that sex, libido, and sexual attraction are all the same, both in and out of queer spaces.

And when you’re learning about asexuality and demisexuality, you may learn that people have romantic and aesthetic attraction separately from sexual attraction, and that sexual and romantic attraction aren’t necessarily intertwined, and that may challenge your worldview on sex.

But “I trust you enough to have sex with you” isn’t the same as “I’m not sexually attracted to anyone but you, and the reason I’m sexually attracted to you now after we’ve established this close bond is literally because of the bond of trust we’ve been able to form”.

It’s easy to see how those can get conflated. On the surface, if you’re unfamiliar with asexuality, they may sound the same. But it’s important to acknowledge the difference between “no sex until I trust you” and “no sexual attraction unless I trust you and maybe not even then”.

Demisexuality is housed under the asexuality spectrum. It’s part of the gray area between being allosexual and asexual. It’s part of why the definition for asexuality includes “little to no sexual attraction”. It’s a mostly asexual experience with an asterisk.

While being demisexual may have impacts on a persons sexual activity, even demisexuals have a varied relationship to the act of participating in sex. Libido and sexual attraction are not always intertwined either, which can make telling the difference tricky.

I think of sexual attraction as libido that has a compass. Since I rarely ever experience sexual attraction, but do have libido, it’s noticeable for me when that libido actually has a direction to go, rather than being a floating, nebulous, independent thing.

Remember, not everyone is demisexual. There’s a difference between waiting to have sex and not having sexual attraction at all until a certain point. This also inherently ties demisexuality to romantic attraction and relationships, and not all demisexuals are alloromantic.

But if you read what demisexuality is and think “everyone is like that” or “that’s just being a woman”, you either 1) are demisexual 2) don’t understand what it is or 3) both. And it’s okay to not know. Just as long as you’re willing to try to learn.

#reblog #asexuality #demisexual

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this is about what my natural hair color is and i never know what to call it bc ive seen people call this color both blonde & brown so. pls reblog im curious as to what the common consensus is

#reblog #I would call this dirty blonde #but if I have to choose its blonde #the way light hits it seems like it leans blonde

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