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to live a life surrounded by love and to radiate love, that's the only goal

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do yourself a favor & don’t give a shit about what people think of you

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no matter what cringey, embarassing, or horrible things you've done: forgive yourself. strive to be better, apologize to people you've hurt, grow into someone you can be proud of. but ultimately forgive yourself, because staying stuck won't get you anywhere

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I'm manifesting love not only for myself, but for every single person who has ever shown me an ounce of kindness ever

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why is it so easy for me to be kind to others but having kind thoughts towards myself is almost impossible

explain that to me. @ myself

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you might have this idea in your head of who you want to be-- someone calmer with a different hairstyle and a better posture, fuller eyebrows and a smile with less teeth, lengthy eyelashes and long fingers for playing the piano. you might have spent your entire life kind of waiting for them to find you, for a rebirth of some kind. you might have secretly hoped to die young so you can awake as anyone else.

it takes time to change that idea, and even then it's okay if you can't bring yourself to love every detail, blemish and flaw, but one thing to know about yourself is that in some hard-to-imagine way, in a hidden manner, you are exactly who you're supposed to be, and what you look like or what you wish to change about yourself won't make you less of a person or any less worthy of good things.

whether you love yourself or not, whether you want to be who you are right now or not and whether you believe yourself to be good enough or not: who you are right now is just as good as who you'd be as that person in your mind.

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endlesslyloveclub

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Let it go. Disconnect. Cancel. Let go stressful relationships. Stop following. Change it. Block.

Self care is not only good food, gifts, or travel, it’s also being less accessible to certain people and environments.