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Please help Kenan and his family flee Gaza

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Best Pali orgs to donate to at this time? Am thinking PCRF.

don't donate to orgs right now, donate to people. gazans need huge funds to evacuate to egypt, get treatment, buy food and other necessities. it is the most urgent and the best way your money can have the most impact.

here is fundsforgaza linktree full of verified gofundmes you can choose from

here is the operation olive branch spreadsheet full of gofundmes organized by different factors such as families, age, number of children, medical conditions as well as how close they are to meeting their goal etc

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Uniform Duality

#love these colors

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cw incest, stalking, breach of privacy, SA

Please help me. i found out my brother (who lives in the same house has me) Has been accessing my private information, including my bank account and my google photos, which contain several compromising photos of me. He has also created a secret folder in my accoubt which Cannot be accessed through any devices owned by me. My Own Shit. And I have proof of him accessing, altering, deleting, and obfuscating information and data. The internet connection here is not reliable for me. I CANNOT LIVE HERE. I AM AFRAID. And i am keeping quiet in order to avoid a major blowout in this house but I have been on the brink of suicide and he is aware of the effects these actions have on me. I am desperate to get far, far, far away from here. I am so tired of feeling unsafe.

vm/paypal.me/: tominova

I am so profoundly alone and just. despondent. I can't keep taking this

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Perisex allies: stop this shit

CW: intersexism

Came across this infographic during some google image searching and I'm still kind of a state of despair about it because it's not just offensively wrong about what intersex is, it was used to teach university students about queer issues:

Alt text: LGBTQIA+ are defined one by one. Intersex is defined erroneously as "These are people who were born with genital organs of both sexes (male and female). It is a genetic condition."

It's one thing for your rando perisex person to be getting this wrong on social media. It's another thing entirely when it's professionals getting this wrong in an educational setting. 😩 And that this infographic appears in a peer-reviewed publication. 😩

It's even worse to know the students that were taught with this infographic were medical students, who will be the ones traumatizing intersex people for decades to come 😩

It's so wrong in so many different ways:

Intersex is not limited to people with genital differences. Most intersex people have intersex variations that are not apparent at birth, with puberty being the most common time of life for variations to present. Many people find out in adulthood having no outward physical differences.

Of the intersex people with genital differences, they do not have two sets of genitals. Most genital differences are still recognizably female or male (e.g. spadias), and those who have ambiguous genitals have one set.

Intersex is not "male parts + female parts" or even "intermediate male/female parts", it is an umbrella term for anybody whose primary/secondary sex characteristics don't line up with what is expected for male and female bodies. Some intersex variations make women look more feminine, or make men look more masculine.

Defining intersex by genital differences doesn't just exclude most intersex people, it also sets the tone that we are defined by our genitals. To be publicly intersex is to have non-stop DMs about your genitals. This sort of framing sets up openly intersex people for invasive questions and harassment, and it keeps large numbers of intersex people from coming out.

Many intersex variations do not have a known genetic basis. Many intersex variations are caused by exposure to certain hormonal levels in the womb. Certain medications when taken during pregnancy can trigger intersex variations.

While bodily variation is necessary for being intersex, the social experience of stigma, discrimination, isolation, hyper-medicalization, and hyper-sexualization are all just as much a part of being intersex.

📣 Perisex allies: this is shit you can stop. When you see other perisex people parrot this sort of misinformation, correct them. Direct them to look up resources written by actually intersex people.

Here are some starter resources to give:

Intersex explained by Hans Lindahl

Media and style guide by IHRA

FAQ by intersex-support

A recent post I did compiling information for trans people who want to be better intersex allies

#reference

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yes yes i know this should not be surprising coming from the band that wrote hold the line

just learned the vocalist of tony danza tapdance extravaganza became a cop like immediately after they disbanded

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just learned the vocalist of tony danza tapdance extravaganza became a cop like immediately after they disbanded

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im also sorry for also not listening to obscura by gorguts or none so vile by cryptopsy until age 29 anyway this (vsnares) is autism music

so id like to apologize to aaron funk and also god and my mother and everything else of that ilk for not listening to a whole venetian snares album in full until age 29

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so id like to apologize to aaron funk and also god and my mother and everything else of that ilk for not listening to a whole venetian snares album in full until age 29

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Latest reblog reminds me of how much it pisses me the fuck off how every queer person alive has to adapt to the usamerican style of queerness lest we get shunned by the community for being too different. I bring this up a lot but bro that time I got death threats for having ele/dele in my bio bc "by using neopronouns I was making a mockery of REAL trans people" when those are literally just my pronouns in my native language, and when I said that I got hit w the "well you're on the internet so speak english" I HATE GRINGOS I HATE GRINGOS I HATE GRINGOS

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Some Mr. Frond for your feed.

Managed to squeeze in a few drawings during the work meeting today.

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piracy as a morally questionable thing is a very alien concept to me but so is piracy as a morally righteous thing like. Living in south america in a country with constant economic crisis has made me aware that there is fundamentally no moral in the act of downloading a videogame to your pc or a pdf of a book, because in here most things i actually pay for arent original either. Most books i have are copies or secondhand, so no matter if i pay for them or not the creators arent getting any money either way. I cant afford to go to the movies or actually buy videogames so for those things the question isnt if i pay for them or not, the question is if i get to interact with them at all. Its very weird seeing people talk about piracy as a thing that you choose to do or not and that choice having moral weight instead of just a fact of life that almost everyone has to do if they want to access information or entertainment

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also literally impossible to enforce consistently anyway because nothing is apolitical no matter how badly you want it to be

full offense but "no politics" policies in any kind of online space are always a chickenshit move, every time, literally no exceptions

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full offense but "no politics" policies in any kind of online space are always a chickenshit move, every time, literally no exceptions

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Absolutely magnificent creature.

(source: Sears catalog, Fall/Winter 1918.)