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demisexual problem #15

finding a good lgbtqia+ account, but then discovering that they’re aphobic

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demisexual problem #14

hearing the words “that’s not a real thing!” 49389274 times a day

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demisexual problem #13

simultaneously wishing you could just be allo and absolutely hating it when you do experience attraction

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demisexual problem #12

never seeing your flag in pride posts, even though lesbians and gays usually get 2 each

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demisexual problem #11

me: i’m demi, so i’m only attracted to people once i form an emotional connection :)

aphobe: tHAt’S juSt NoRmAL!!1!1!

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demisexual problem #10

only liking slow-burn romances because it’s the only kind you can relate to

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demisexual problem #9

never understanding what people mean when they say “love at first sight”

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demisexual problem #8

not really feeling welcome in asexual spaces because you feel attraction sometimes

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demisexual problem #7

knowing literally nobody irl who’s also demi

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demisexual problem #6

person: are you gay?

me: no.

them: straight?

me: definitely not.

them: so you’re bi?

me: nope.

them: oh! you’re asexual!

me: *sighs* close enough.

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demisexual problem #5

only understanding someone was hitting on you hours/days/years later

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demisexual problem #4

only ever being attracted to your friends, but not wanting to date them because you don’t want to ruin the friendship :(

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demisexual problem #3

*feels attraction* oh no, what if i’m really allo?

*doesn’t feel attraction for a while* oh no, what if i’m really ace?

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about this account!

submitting posts

please make submissions through ASKS ONLY! these will be copied and pasted into posts, and you will of course be given proper credit. feel free to submit any everyday problem or struggle that fellow demis can relate to.

dni

- racist/sexist/homophobic/etc.

- exclusionist/truscum/anti-anything lgbtqia+

- pro-map

- terfs

- abuse apologists

- anyone who’s gonna be rude or start fights

me!

my name is kylie (you can also call me k), and i use she/they pronouns. i’m pan, demisexual, non-binary/demigirl, and queer. i have adhd, anxiety, depression, and multiple eating disorders, so please be patient with me. i’m not really a part of any fandoms right now, but my interests include animal crossing, harry potter, graphic novels, geology, drawing, and designing mood boards.

i hope my fellow demisexuals can have fun and maybe share a laugh or two on this blog!

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demisexual problem #2

not queer enough for the queers.

not straight enough for the straights.

not even ace enough for the aspecs.

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demisexual problem #1

that feeling of horror when you first start falling for your friend

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