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desultory-suggestions · 24 minutes ago
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"Fat" is not a bad word.
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desultory-suggestions · 5 hours ago
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autumnal asks
lantern - how did you meet your best friend? What were your first impressions of each other?
frost - if you could give some advice to your younger self, what would you say?
maple - is there a hobby / skill that you’ve always wanted to try but never did?
harvest - what fictional character do you most identify with? Why?
fireside - if you had your dream wardrobe, what would it look like?
cider - a food that you disliked as a child but now enjoy?
amber - share an unpopular opinion that you may have.
fog - how well do you think you’d do in a zombie apocalypse scenario?
jack-o-lantern - if you could look like any celebrity, who would you choose?
spice - have you ever encountered a house that you believed to be haunted?
orchard - share one thing that you’d like to happen this autumn.
crow - which school subject do you wish you had an aptitude for?
bonfire - describe your dream house.
cinnamon - if you had to live in a time period different than the present, which would you choose and where?
cobweb - (if you’ve graduated) do you miss high school?
cranberry - what’s one physical feature that you get complimented on?
maize - share the weirdest encounter you’ve had with a stranger on the street.
quilt - how do you take your tea (or coffee)?
pumpkin - do you think that humans are inherently good or bad?
moonlit - are you a neat or messy person? Is your room / house orderly?
flannel - have you ever gone on a bad date? 
cocoa - if you could have any type of hair, what colour and cut would you have?
ghost - is there someone that you miss having in your life?
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desultory-suggestions · 5 hours ago
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desultory-suggestions · 5 hours ago
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Let’s make a few more!
You are such a kind soul
When you share your interests it makes my day
I feel safe around you
You are a great leader
You are so fun to be around
You have a great sense of humor
You have grown so much
I am proud to be your friend
Non-Appearance Related Compliments 
You light up the room
You have the best laugh
You inspire me
I love how passionate you are
You make the world better just by being in it
You make me feel comfortable being myself
You make this world so much more beautiful just by being in it.
You’re an amazing friend and you always support me
I love hearing from you! 
Your mind is so powerful!
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desultory-suggestions · 6 hours ago
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When someone says “it’s within walking distance” how far is that for you and are you from the city or are the suburbs
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desultory-suggestions · 8 hours ago
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Queer women of color are beautiful, strong, and powerful.
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desultory-suggestions · 9 hours ago
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Queer Native Americans and indigenous people are beautiful and deserving of affection and respect. Queer BIPOC make the LGBTQ+ community better by being in it.
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desultory-suggestions · 11 hours ago
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Note to self: Stay Body Positive
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desultory-suggestions · 13 hours ago
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The kind of love everyone needs
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desultory-suggestions · 15 hours ago
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happy stimming
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desultory-suggestions · 15 hours ago
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tea isn’t just a drink it’s a handwarmer it’s an experience it’s a love language it’s a friend it’s
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desultory-suggestions · 15 hours ago
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Fruit Ice Bars
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desultory-suggestions · 15 hours ago
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being at peace looks so good on you
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desultory-suggestions · 17 hours ago
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nobody is irrelevant. nobody is invisible. your neighbors know your name and see you set off to school or work or the backyard everyday, sometimes with a spring in your step and sometimes with hunched over shoulders. there was this one time some stranger pointed you out to their friends and said “that’s the haircut I want” or “I have that shirt, too” or “they go to my school”. someone has admired the way you carry yourself or gave a presentation or even the way you’re so polite when you first meet a person. you’ve made comments or jokes that have stuck in minds of overhearers and eavesdroppers. when old classmates of yours think back to kindergarten or fourth grade or sophomore year they remember you and have an opinion of you. you’ve made recommendations of songs and restaurants and even cookie brands and actually introduced people to their all-time favorites. the cashier at the grocery store knows exactly what laundry detergent your household uses, or even if you don’t do your laundry at all.
you can never be irrelevant. there’s pieces of you everywhere, in a dozen lives, in a hundred dreams, in a million memories. maybe it’s true that you don’t have any friends, and you have a sucky relationship with your family or no family at all and no-one ever checks up on you, and you’re really very lonely, but that doesn’t determine your worth. you do. and so do the billions of small attributions you’ve already made to the world, both long-term and short-term. so thank you.
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desultory-suggestions · 18 hours ago
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you aren't lost, you're learning who you are. you're still here & growing & changing. stagnation is a feeling, not a state of being. don't let it drag you to the ground.
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desultory-suggestions · 20 hours ago
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I want to create happy realities for myself.
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desultory-suggestions · 22 hours ago
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it is not an evil thing to look at yourself with kindness. your life was never meant to be a punishment
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