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Today is the last day of my lease with my husband. He has completely moved on and found his happiness elsewhere this soon, which makes me believe he has been having an affair for months now. I’m doing good by not contacting him, but I constantly wonder what he’s doing and who he is with. He has become a stranger to me. I feel sad and lost a lot of times, but I find myself looking forward to the future other times. I pray every single day and feel God working to get my life in order. Of course, I’m doing what I need to do on my end all while keeping faith in Him. I cannot let this separation/divorce kill me. I will move on, I will find internal peace, I will flourish. I trust and believe that.

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This chapter of my life has definitely humbled me to say the least. I admit, I wasn’t the BEST wife in the world as I have some flaws that I could work on. But I can’t keep blaming myself and focusing on the things “I did wrong”. I have to pick myself up and learn from my mistakes. He wasn’t the most perfect husband either, but I adored him and was willing to work through the headaches because I loved him so much.

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So, I figured I’d make a blog and document my feelings as I go through the nastiest separation/divorce. My husband and I are high school sweethearts who have been together for 13 years and married for 3 years. On June 20, 2020 he told me he wanted to split up because he “lost interest, and wants to find his true happiness” I, of course, am devastated and still finding ways to move on and find internal peace...this is where I’ll begin my terrifying journey as I go through this. Feel free to send words of encouragement or anything that will brighten my days ahead..

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