dr-phil-is-bae

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female character: likes women

98% of tumblr: she’s lesbian she’s is so gay she is definitely a lesbian

one (1) post: she also could be a bi or pan that would be cool too!

some stupid fuck: bad post op why do you hate lesbians

#my life in any fandom in a nut shell

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WTF is wrong with people

I am so FUCKING SICK AND TIRED of people thinking that it’s the right idea to MESSAGE MY CLIENTS AND TELL THEM I AM A PEDOPHILE (this involves my main account)

1) this is my fucking life on the line when you message these lies to people

2) what right do you have to do this, you may hate me but seriously WTF

3) actually learn what pedophile means and in the instanse you are talking about then the guy I was dating should have been a pedophile with your logic since I was younger

4) if it is a legal realtionship then fucking get off my dick you child

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Past I guess your blog name is right, your a everyday racist

PSA

Avoid white men.

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a gay man: i wanna fuck a dude

half of yall: nooooo!!! uwu no icky… u both want to hold hands and only sweet lovely cutey kisses bc ur such a soft sweet prince… ur a soft cute round boy… so soft… such a soft uwu boy… no ickiness here only soft boys…

the other half of yall: O.M.G. MY GUILTY PLEASURE!!! I LOVE THE YAOIS!!! OM YALL ARE SINNING SO BAD…. (FANS SELF) THATS SO HAWT

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Anti: I don't like straight ships because they're not equal and the women aren't on the same ground as the men.

Me: That's fine I understand but in canon the ship isn't like that and just because a ship is same sex doesn't mean it's not toxic.

Anti: STFU let me have my lesbians you homophobic * everything but a child of God *. You're also a pedophile and disgusting because * insert ship* has an age gap of 1-10 years.

Me: You don't know what pedophilia is do you. * Gives laundry list of reasons why what they're doing isn't making the situation better. * You can't just harass someone and bully them into suicide.

Anti: They shipped *insert ship* and it's abusive/incestual/racist/whatever their twist of pedophilia is. This fandom is supposed to be a safe space for children/abuse survivors/lgbt+/poc/Everyone.

Me: You just made the fandom toxic and not a safe space when you did what you did. I understand that you don't like * insert ship* because of incest/pedophilia/etc. But it's not as popular or dominating so you could've ignored it or blocked the tag you actively searched for something to bully/harass people on.

Anti: * spouts lies about my character and doesn't get the message* They're racist/pedophile/abusive/homophobic/sexist because xyz.

Me: Fuck you I'm going to Ao3 I'm done with your bullshit.

Ao3 Anti: *harasses someone and tried to do what people do on Tumblr*

Ao3: Not on my watch this is a safe space *bans Anti*

Me: I'm safe

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Fucking hell Canada your going into the shitter and I am going to have to be front row for this

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Being in a controversial part of fandom like

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Friendly Reminder:

You don’t need to justify the things you like. You don’t need to bleed out your past trauma for strangers. You do not need to disclose anything you aren’t comfortable with sharing.

It is really easy to feel bad when you have people yelling at you, screaming that you are wrong, but know that they are angry. Not at you, but at themselves. They aren’t there to make you better and they don’t really care what you’re doing. If they did, they’d be talking to you like a person, not sending you death threats or calling you names.

Try not to ingest the poison they spit. Don’t make yourself sick for them.

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I don’t care if you’re 14, or 17. If you’re a minor harassing other people over a ship, you’re a bully and need to take responsibility for your actions. You aren’t allowed to play the minor card, you accept that people don’t appreciate being treated like crap and will respond sometimes as negatively as you put your hate out there. Stop being jerks to people because you don’t like something. Find something to be positive about instead of bullying people over ships.

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hey reminder @ overwatch fandom, if you ship shimadacest i genuinely hope you die

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As someone who has been in an interracial relationship (would do it again in a heartbeat) I fail to see how r76 is “racist” in ANY capacity, unless you’re the one who is being the racist.

#good post op

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why is it so hard for r76 shippers to understand that those “upsetting jokes made about the ship and the shippers” are literally hurting no one.

can you really compare one day of jokes about a ship that no one is telling you to stop liking, to the whole year in which fans of colour have had to endure the racist bullshit that some of the r76 fandom has come up with? the racist stereotypes? the abusive gabriel to a mistreated jack? the rape fics? the big scary brown man trope some of yall seem to love so much? and that’s just some of it!

that shit hurts, seeing it normalized in a spaces that is supposed to be a fun place for A YEAR is painful. you can’t fucking compare jokes about a ship to something that people literally believe to be true about us Scary Coloreds.

it costs literally $0 to have some critical thinking. so get to it.

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wait are people hating on r76?? or?? tell me the drama

I GOT YOUso it all started when Doomfist came out people started to ship him with Reaper (even tho Reaper hates his boss doomfist) so the people that started to ship reapdoom or reapfist (they dont have a name) started saying how Reaper76 is dead and its toxic and saying how jack shouldnt be with Reaper because of his skin aka calling Jack out for being white and saying how it was abusive (without knowing that Doomfist and reaper would be even more abusive like widow and reaper almost) so now the reaper76 tag is filled with nothing but hate so is the Jack Morrison tag and tumblr is just on fire at the moment with a bunch of ship hate people that ship Reapdoom are yelling at R76 shippers and R76 shippers are just confused and also yelling back its just a big mess to the point where people are getting hate for shipping it from Anon’s etc I honestly cant wait for the doomfist hype to go away because tumblr is a mess right now.

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Coming online on Tumblr during doomreaper/reapfist/akandriel origins and the r76/reapfist discourse like

#lol this is me RN #so much fucking discourse #like I love a good drama moment #but da fuck ppl

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Anti starter pack checklist (feel free to add)

✅ “you’re disgusting if you like this” ✅ “sweetie :)” ✅ under 21 ✅ doesn’t know how to use blacklist ✅ “this is wrong and obviously im smarter than u so i have to tell u why ur wrong, ugh” ✅ “i dont care that youre a survivor” ✅ “relive your traumatic experience by telling everyone online or you arent valid” ✅ “kill yourself” ✅ “get hit by a truck” ✅ everyone is a racist ✅ everyone is a pedophile ✅ fiction = reality ✅ :) ✅ ;)

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There are blogs now on Tumblr that promote reporting and sometimes calling the FBI on artists who draw "problematic" things. I'm an artist that draws stuff like mcreyes and I have had an anon threaten me if I don't delete my blog they'll tell the reporting blog and get me arrested.. has this happening to other people.. im scared

tumblr has extremely unhealthy behavior and ridiculous social skills when it comes to dealing with things. the things artists and writers have to deal with on daily basis is sickening. i don’t know where this mindset of everyone here being superior to those who are enjoying something they don’t came from, but im getting real exhausted from it. there’s a new site in development that, if it gets funded enough, will be the best possible place for fandoms, content creators and harassment prevention, but until then, try to keep calm and dont get threthened by those people, if it gets too serious, let me know and i will back you up, but in general, you won’t get in real trouble for doodling two fictional brothers together, so please don’t be scared. x