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Hmmm... How do I tell the vore community that the “NSFW” label doesn’t describe something as pornographic?

#vore is nsfw regardless of how you consume it #nsfw is a warning not to open or view something in public specifically at work #i think we can generally agree that vore is not something we want to view at work

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I saw a post talking about how scary the safe vore community because we're....hostile about our preferences and rude to anyone that doesn't share them? And we kick out people who like fearplay and fatal??

I'm genuinely wondering where that notion comes from, as a purely safe blog. I've had plenty of unsavory experiences with the fatal side but I don't make these assumptions for the whole group. Both sides can coexist without being rude, at least I think so.

this post is okay to interact w because i am genuinely curious as to where this comes from

#interesting #might agree #I think most people are misunderstanding consumingromance

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A combination of factors: - Explicitly hostile comments, such as “fatal is just getting off to murder” and so on, I don’t think repeating all them is constructive, but they exist often enough to be commonly known - The passive aggressive but constant: “will they be ok? :c” - The cognitive bias. When someone refuses something that one does, the assumption is they refuse because they have a (negative) opinion and that they might be judging one personally. With harsh judgements floating around the perceived unspoken judgment can be anything. Very neutral requests like “please don’t send me fatal asks” can sound like “I hate you for even thinking about fatal asks”, this is what makes it feel like the hostility is everywhere even if it isn’t true

- The “kicking out” feeling is probably personal experience or the occasional “fatal DNI” and consistent (but fair) “no fatal”, the simple fact is the safe side is the majority I often feel like an outsider because of my fatal leaning. The occasional vitriol I see around in the community puts me on edge... Anyone could think that of me. My peers could decide that I am a terrible person for a trivial reason. Its scary, its threatening, its personal, and all that makes it feel bigger. That is why the rare judgement sticks. That is where it comes from. When you have an unpleasant experience with the fatal-side do you feel like your moral character is being challenged? Out right or unspoken?

I saw a post talking about how scary the safe vore community because we're....hostile about our preferences and rude to anyone that doesn't share them? And we kick out people who like fearplay and fatal??

I'm genuinely wondering where that notion comes from, as a purely safe blog. I've had plenty of unsavory experiences with the fatal side but I don't make these assumptions for the whole group. Both sides can coexist without being rude, at least I think so.

this post is okay to interact w because i am genuinely curious as to where this comes from

#vore discorse #putting this in my sideblog I don't want it on my main or art

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This post is gaining some attention and this blog is getting follows for it. But I should mention that this post/blog was a test run and my art is posted on @chyme-rend now

The world is a haze, like it can be blinked away. You’re tired and warm so you might just let it slip.

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The world is a haze, like it can be blinked away. You’re tired and warm so you might just let it slip.

#internal shot #dragon vore #safe vore