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the way taylor YELLS “i said i love you” in the background vocals for say don’t go and the lyrics “but you say nothing back” and then there’s just a moment of silence before the song picks up again

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Sometimes as a woman it’s important for you to wake up late and be alone in the house on a cloudy cold day with your feelings.

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Accept that you still feel upset about how you were treated, and allow that feeling to pass through you. You don't have to pretend it's not there. You don't have to pretend to forgive the other person if you don't feel so. You can still feel hurt even if years have passed. It's valid, especially if you swept your feelings under the rug back in the days. Find your way to accept the pain, grieve, and let it be in the past where it belongs. Free yourself from these chains. From your fears. From what has been. Life changes. It brings you lessons, but also rewards (and often both are in the form of very different people). Be open to the latter now.

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Selena Gomez: My Mind & Me.

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Blythe Baird, from If My Body Could Speak; “Concerns from a hot-boxed jeep”

[Text ID: “How do I stop / carrying everything / that had ever / happened to me?”]

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Learn to speak your mind or you'll end up spending your whole life being frustrated that no one around you fully understands you.

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Many relationships would be a lot healthier if we romanticized honest, open and direct communication instead of idealizing the idea of a partner who's intuitively in tune with your every need. You don't need someone who can read your mind, you just need someone who's willing to listen when you speak.

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MABEL MORA in ONLY MURDERS IN THE BUILDING SEASON 2, EPISODE 1

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"Stuck in empty love is sucks. First, you feel nothing at all to your lover, but as the time goes you feel like you're attached, feeling loved. Second, after feeling attached, you're trying your best to keep your lover to always be with you, falling harder. Third, when you're falling harder and loving harder, they stop. They stop loving you. They stop filling you up like what they do in the first place. They are just feeling comfortable and want to keep you as their partner to communicate, when all you need is their existence in the first place. You're lost. You don't know what to do when they are stopping. You're mad. You don't know what to do when you are trying to be their lover, but they don't appreciate you very well. You're sad. You don't know what to do when their existence is with you, but you feel lonely.

You don't know what to do until you lost yourself. You lost everything, you're searching for yourself as love and filling it up with their love. But, as time goes, those love doesn't fill full. They keep empty. And you, still lost yourself."

#poetry #excerpt from a book i'll never write #excerpt from a story i'll never write #poem #spilled ink #love poems #sad #sad thoughts #except from a book i'll never write #excerpts from my life #empty #lost girl

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We live in an age where we feel guilt whenever we have to cut someone off but the reality is that some relationships do need to die, some people do need to be unfollowed and defriended. We aren’t meant to be this tethered to the people in our past. The Internet mandates that we don’t burn bridges and keep everyone around like relics but those expectations are unrealistic and unhealthy. Simply put, we don’t need to know what everyone else is up to. We’re allowed to be choosy about who we surround ourselves with online and in real life, even if it might hurt people’s feelings.

— Ryan O’Connell, You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Everybody

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"sometimes when you talk your problem to people, it doesn't help you to saving yourself. all you want to do is gone and being forgotten."

#poetry #excerpt from a book i'll never write #excerpt from a story i'll never write #poem #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #excerpts from my life #quote #life quotes #spilled words #depressing thoughts #tw depressing stuff #tw survivor's guilt

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"if die it's something that worth to myself. then, I will do it."

#poetry #excerpt from a book i'll never write #excerpt from a story i'll never write #poem #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #excerpts from my life #depressing thoughts #tw depressing stuff

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I think I’m getting better and then everything gets bad again. 

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hey, I'm trying, really.. trying. but, the demons inside me still want me to be a failure.

#poetry #excerpt from a book i'll never write #excerpt from a story i'll never write #poem #spilled ink #spilled thoughts #excerpts from my life #quote #life quotes #spilled words #depressing thoughts

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yoongi x butter (hotter version) ft namjin 

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