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I think one reason 13rw makes me so mad is that hannah baker was never shown reaching out to the school until the very end.
because legit a good portion of bullying problems would be solved if you brought it up to administration in the first place. I will confidently say that a majority of public schools take bullying incredibly seriously. So, to just…. not reach out every time a bullying incident happens is so infuriatingly unrealistic.
and even if they wanted to show her reaching out with only limited success, it’s also incredibly, infuriatingly unrealistic that she, for having a decently open relationship with her parents, never ever once mentioned that she was having trouble in school.
For as irritating as my parents are, and for the amount of times I’ve had issues that I didn’t want to tell them about, I always, ALWAYS told them about issues i had with other kids. I WISH my parents were more like Hannah Baker’s parents, but they weren’t, and I STILL went to them when kids were being shitty.
and so for her to just not tell her parents anything. at all, even at the beginning with Justin or ESPECIALLY the stalker, makes me so fucking mad every time. every fucking time.
Because if they had at least had her attempt to reach out sooner, and then shown us that it failed, or that it made her feel a type of way, then MAYBE her suicide MIGHT be realistic.
But they didn’t. And I will maintain until the ends of the earth that 13 Reasons Why is guilty of romanticizing suicide.
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Francis: Speaking with Mary, one of
Y/N’s problems is that she is too insecure to approach anyone. So you must approach her. Ask her to dance. Go on, don’t just leave her standing there, go and get your love.
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Mary: You have my permission, you know.
She said, watching along with him as you ran with the children in the palace gardens.
Bash: Pardon?
Mary: To court Y/N. I see the way you look at her. She would be delighted if you asked.
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shoutout to everyone making progress that no one recognized because you never let anyone see your darkest moments. i see you and i am so, so proud of every little step you’re making in the right direction.
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Return of the King. How much has he changed? So much that he’s eating beans.
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Nach all dem, was wir vor nicht einmal vierundzwanzig Stunden gemeinsam erlebt hatten, glaubte ich, wir seien ein wenig mehr als lose Bekannte.
Tote Mädchen lügen nicht (via erstickt-im-schmerz)
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Things they don't tell you about being a first time wheelchair user in highschool
Literally everyone will ask if you broke your leg(s). Everyone. Even people you don’t know. Theyll ask a lot and think you’re extremely fragile.
bruises show up within the first day of rolling around, and they can really suck
people will try to grab your chair if they think you’re struggling and it can be hard not to snap at them for it
static electricity is a huge issue. You will probably either continuously shock your leg when you’re rolling around or do what I did today and zap someone so hard as you pass that both of you nearly keel over
people will call you out as a faker if you do anything even remotely fun ever on your wheelchair. Wheelies? Obviously your legs are fine lol not like you have to go down fucking curbs /s
puddles are the worst and if there’s a curb with a puddle all around and you have some ability to walk its a better idea to just stand up and navigate the chair than to fall backwards into said puddle
weird looks from people are inevitable, especially from people who don’t like you
bus drivers will often push your chair and give you advise you don’t want to hear, even if you tell them nicely you can push yourself. Its really hard not to get mad at them for it
no wheelies in school. Though if you do it in the elevator when no one else is with you you can’t really get caught.
speaking of wheelies, always be ready to throw at least one arm behind you in case you fall. They say tuck your chin in but its easier and more reliable to throw your hands back and keep your neck up so you don’t hit the floor. Sore arms are way easier to put up with than head injuries
don’t even bother to try and roll back up curbs. You will either be there for an hour or fall backwards. I managed to do both.
90% of classrooms that aren’t special ed are not very wheelchair accessible.
people will automatically assume you’re faking something if you’re not considered dumb enough in their standards to fit in with disabled students (aka high class ableism at its finest)
people are going to give you weird looks if you don’t suddenly start sitting with the other disabled kids
standard backpacks usually dangle way too much to keep on you easily, so try to pack light
built in storage on wheelchairs cannot sufficiently carry books
don’t try to hold an umbrella. Period. Especially not with your teeth. It doesn’t work.
don’t try to give the bus driver your ticket while you’re stuck on the ramp. And speaking of, its easy to start falling down the bus ramp so be careful, and when in doubt throw on the breaks
and finally if you’re like me pray to god you don’t go nonverbal when someone is trying to push you and you don’t want them to because it is hard to get them to stop if you can’t speak
able-bodied people can and should 1000% reblog this, some of these things I’ve seen on tips about using a wheelchair but a lot of these weren’t things I’ve seen
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