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shit like this is why i believe in kink shaming. even though they believe her to be dead no body has been found so i pray Yingying Zhang is still alive.

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soooo do all the women who have fought tooth and nail against the notion of women being inferior to men mean nothing to her compared to men who want to be women or...?

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I genuinely have no words. Trans activists showing their misogynoir runs deep. Trans activism isn't prevalent in black spaces but I hope this causes more black women to wake up

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Jesus, I still get so annoyed by the “trans women have periods!” statement because honest to god, cramps and headaches are not menstruation. I don’t have cramps, I don’t have any headaches or moodswings, and my digestion isn’t terribly more impacted by my menstruation than when I drink too much coffee. But I menstruate. My uterus sheds its lining and I bleed. That’s all there is to it. The discomfort a woman experiences during her menstruation varies by the individual herself. I know women who can’t function on their periods without taking several doses of ibuprofen. But it’s not the pain that defines menstruation, it’s the shedding of the uterine lining. When I suffered from an eating disorder, I went several months without menstruating. And no-one would have told me “oh, you’re still having a period! You just aren’t bleeding!” because the absence of your period is a common female experience. Whether through pregnancy or an underlying condition, menstruation still is the shedding of the uterine lining and when the uterine lining isn’t shedding, you’re not menstruating.

No one is saying that in order to be a biological female, you “have to menstruate”. Pregnant women don’t menstruate. Menopausal women don’t menstruate. Women with PCOS might not menstruate. Breastfeeding women might not menstruate. Women with a too low body weight might not menstruate. Women who go through hormone replacement therapy might not menstruate. But menstruation is an exclusively female experience and just because you’re pissy one week of the month, doesn’t mean you’re experiencing it! Stop being so godawfully misogynistic and fetishizing our biological reality.

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SO weird how that guy in Australia was able to tell that his victims were female while he was attacking them. He didn't even ask about their gender identity! How on earth did he know they were women???

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Why don't women who commit crimes suddenly identify as men afterwards? Why don't transmen fight to get sent to male prisons? 🤔

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“Passing” as a concept is bs but this is especially true for non-binary. You’re asking everyone else to pretend that we can’t tell what sex you are and to be up to date on gender trends so we can accurately guess how you want us to perceive you. Like is [some hypothetical male] wearing an ugly dress and lipstick in a trying to be a woman way or a trying to be non-binary way. We know we’re supposed to pretend he’s not a man but we also have to guess if we’re supposed to tell if he’s just badly dressing up as a woman or is deliberately being some other third thing.

Many trans identifying females only perform androgyny in ways that cater to the male gaze. Sure they’ll have a stylish short haircut and wear flannels but they almost always remove their body hair and continue to wear makeup in a “lighter” style. Unlike mean hairy butch dykes, who they would never look like (gross) they “reject gender” without meaningfully challenging gendered roles. They seek to position themselves as “not women” while safely obeying the most sacred rules of presenting as a woman. By adopting new pronouns or a new label they can justify fulfilling the tomboy, girl next door, effortless beauty male fantasy. A woman who rejects the patriarchal beauty standards without rejecting her identity as a woman is infinitely more transgressive than a woman who takes no meaningful actions and invents a new label to reframe her conformity as deviance. It’s just lazy.

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Saw this on Pinterest. I don't know the credits (+ the post did not have on OP), if you do please tell me!

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One person was banned almost immediately.

The other person was not banned until they made another post revealing that they were posting videos of their partner.

One person was harassed and bullied and told that they were lying.

One person was given advice, told about how they could improve their situation.

This is why kink is not safe. There is more compassion and kindness for someone who admits to wanting to kick their partner in the face than there is for someone who has received that treatment.

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Referring to JK Rowling, of course. Interesting how these unhinged cultists never conjure up similar, overly detailed rape and torture scenarios about conservative men whose opposition to trans ideology stems from homophobic and misogynistic views (like Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro, or Jordan Peterson).

Interesting how these rape and torture scenarios are reserved exclusively for the one woman whose opposition to trans ideology stems from radical feminist and gender abolitionist views.

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It’s really funny to me how sex, out of all the social categories, is the least ambiguous yet is treated like it is the most by TRAs. Have you ever seen a TRA explain why transracial is wrong but transgender is ok? They always yap about how gender is a social construct… as if race isn’t? They’re like well racial differences are real and it can be determined with genetics. Like. So close! That is eugenics ❤️

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Western responses to the Korean radical feminist movement:

TL:DR - criticising men is evil and refusing them our bodies and labour is evil

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I do find it funny that lesbians are perceived as man-hating but gay men are not perceived as woman-hating, and in fact are often illogically shielded from accusations of misogyny simply by being gay

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When people are saying that rape is worse for male victims than for female victims, I feel like the quiet part is "because women are used to it."

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the most reasonable moid on reddit

(for context, a man was hitting a ladys car while she was in it, she starts slapping him saying "don't touch my car" and he knocks her out. comments are filled with "equal rights equal fights" morons)

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— Excerpt. "Price of Honor" by Jan Goodwin.