can we just PLEASE universally agree to NEVER comment on these few things:
music sb’s listening to. unless the comment is “OMG I LOVE THAT SONG,” just don’t. why do you care, anyway? if you don’t like it, you’re not the one listening to it, I mean the world would be plain ass boring if everyone liked exactly the same stuff. at least you get some diversity in your life. maybe you’ll eventually hear something you like, who knows?? and music is actually a very intimate topic! many people treat it like a form of therapy, so you really don’t have to make them feel like shit about it.
the way someone sleeps. like WHAT. IS. THE. POINT. sure, if someone’s snoring, just WAKE THEM THE HELL UP, maybe they just need to change position or blow their nose. either way, there’s no use telling everyone you know about how they kept you up all night and you couldn’t sleep, what were they supposed to do if you didn’t tell them? people usually are not aware when in deep sleep. and taking photos of sleeping person is a giant no-no, why, why would you do that? so you could post it somewhere and humiliate your friend? that’s crazy. many people are actually very self-conscious about the way they sleep, to the point they don’t want to be seen sleeping by anybody. come on, people sleep with open mouth. they drool. yes, sometimes they snore or talk. they lie in different (sometimes weird) position, but why should you care? you don’t know how you look like when you sleep. just let the people rest — that’s what sleeping is for, not for looking like in a beauty contest
scars or any other unusual skin marks. you never know where somebody got their mark from and how they feel about them. some people just forget about them and go on about their day UNTIL someone points them out. only then do they get insecure and try to cover them. and some people are just insecure about their scars/marks and you do not make them feel better by laughing at them or saying how visible they are. listen, as we learned from prince Zuko and his honor, scars are a very delicate subject — if you don’t know the whole story, it’s honestly better to keep quiet. and NO, saying “omg you have so many beauty marks!” is not a compliment and giving advice for miracle treatments when no one asked is not help.
someone’s physical condition. exercises that for you are a piece of cake, for sb else may be a struggle. and that’s fine, too. you didn’t start from the top either. you never know, someone may just be getting back to training after an illness. someone just starts to exercise because they want to be healthier. YES, some people also want to get in shape before summer! and all of that is okay. unless it’s a real competition, it’s not a competition. everyone has their own reasons they exercise and everyone has their own way and types of training they find most effective. “ARE YOU TIRED ALREADY, FOR ME IT’S JUST A WARM-UP!” well, guess what, NOBODY CARES, JANET.“STRETCHING INSTEAD OF HEAVY WEIGHTS? YOU CALL THAT A TRAINING?” shut the fuck up. just let the people be.
i like the concept of soulmates—not a “you’re destined to meet me, and love me” kind of soulmate, but a “i’d pick you, every time.” kind of soulmate. a “no matter what happens, and what has happened, i want to go through it with you.” kind of soulmate. a “i love you by choice, and you’re a blessing, and i’m going to continue thinking about you this way not because i have to but because i want to.” kind of soulmate. a “you help me rest easy when everything is difficult” kind of soulmate. a “in every possible outcome, i want you there, to share it with me.” kind of soulmate.
fucking hate it when the stuff everybody says "actually works" does actually work.
hate exercising and realizing i've let go of a lot of anxiety and anger because i've overturned my fight-or-flight response.
hate eating right and eating enough and eating 3 times a day and realizing i'm less anxious and i have more energy
hate journaling in my stupid notebook with my stupid bic ballpoint and realizing that i've actually started healing about something once i'm able to externalize it
hate forgiving myself hate complimenting myself more often hate treating myself with kindness hate taking a gratitude inventory hate having patience hate talking to myself gently
hate turning my little face up to the sun and taking deep breaths and looking at nature and grounding myself and realizing that i feel less burdened and more hopeful, more actually-here, that i am able to see the good sides of myself more clearly, that i am able to see not only how far i have to grow - but also how much growth i have already done & how much of my life i truly fill with light and laughter and love
horrible horrible horrible. hate it but i'm gonna do it tho
the role of the person in the passenger seat is not only navigator but secretary as well. you have to type up the drivers messages to random ladies on facebook about cbd cream & google whether that billy joel song was the theme song for that show or not
He's not a bender but he is an integral part of team Avatar. His strategy, his fighting skills and his courage time and time again show throughout the show as well as his sense of humor and sweet personality.
What an incredible example of someone ordinary like me and you being extraordinary. He is such an inspiration.
I just love him so much 🥰 My favorite character in Avatar, Sokka.
hold on a fucking second. delaware is a state?? i thought it was a river? or is the river more important than the state? why don't i know this? (i should mention i don't like in america, i'm just confused)
there is delaware (state) and delaware (river)
both are equally strange
the state is a tiny little cryptid thing
the rive is a monster that spans new york, pennsylvania, new jersey and delaware. also washington crossed it once and that was like kinda a big deal i guess. like crossing the rubicon in rome.
the state tries to me more important with its “im the first state!!!” bs (seriously its even on the fucking license plates) but we all know. its the river.
This was a quick drawing that somehow ended being Suki. Tried my hand at some coloring. I kinda like both versions.
ID: A drawing of Suki from Avatar: The Last Airbender in modern clothing. The first one is a sketch in black and white, the second one is colored with primarily green tones. Suki is half sitting and leaning on one hand, while holding a golden fan in the other.