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why do you need your man to give you rules just curious

Hello, sorry I am just now replying. I wanted to give your question some thought, instead of just saying, “That’s how we like it”. 🤷‍♀️ Because honestly, I could go on and on about the reasons why. I’ll do my best to keep it shorrr– uhh not long. lol

*fingers crossed*

Okay…I don’t need my man to give me rules per se. However, I do need my man to give me guidance and boundaries. With every fiber of my being, I trust his leadership, his morals, his decisions and genuine love. His very spirit, makes me want to be my best me.

I have always been a bit of a headstrong wild-eyed filly. But with him holding the reins, he gives me enough to run, to explore, to try. Yet not so much that I take off like a shot, all haphazardly, and willy nilly, with no real direction or purpose. I count on him, lean on him, depend on him, with full trust and confidence that he will never intentionally lead me astray. Have there been (and still sometimes are) mistakes, misunderstandings, failures? Hell yes! During those situations, together we stop, discuss, then back up and punt. In all of our years together, he has continually proven that he is worthy of my submission, my love, my dedication. Ultimately earning the control in our marriage, our bedroom, our life. Do I have a choice? You’re God damned right I do! And I have chosen his dominance.

Hell, I probably could have just answered with the last sentence above. That really is simply what it comes down to.

So, this answer is… short-ish at best. Oops. Thanks for your thought provoking question! It has been a welcome reminder to myself and him…why. (yes, he will read and approve this before I post) If you were asking because you need to bounce things off someone, advice or whatever… please feel free to message me off anon *21+ yrs old only* and I will keep our conversation private. Promise.

😙,

Bella

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black fallow deer seen in the Barycz Valley - Landscape Park in Poland

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Sharpenings.

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