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“Be confused, it’s where you begin to learn new things. Be broken, it’s where you begin to heal. Be frustrated, it’s where you start to make more authentic decisions. Be sad, because if we are brave enough we can hear our heart’s wisdom through it. Be whatever you are right now. No more hiding. You are worthy, always.”

— S.C. Lourie

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Speaker: “You can’t make a silk purse out of a sow’s ear”

Me: What???

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Sad I have to write this out, but abuse and trauma have zero benefits to anyone’s life. You can learn anything the kind way. You can become anyone the kind way. There is no reason whatsoever to traumatize you. Everything can be done without abuse.

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“Someday you’re gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving. You’ll see that you were in mourning and your heart was broken, but your life was changing.”

— Elizabeth Gilbert

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we would be so lost without garlic

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cant tell if i need a hug or to get hit by a car

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“you’re so polite!” thanks, I am afraid of you.

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If you don’t think every girl with wildly curly hair is the most beautiful girl you’ve ever seen then you’re invalid

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what if things go well? that’s a possibility.

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let me just make one thing clear

i have no clue what’s going on, ever, in any moment, at any point in time. who knows what’s going on? not me. not ever

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I may be an absolute disaster of an adult but when someone younger than me asks for advice I turn into a Wise Professor

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The best types of people are the ones who tell you they’re listening, when the rest of the group seems to have stopped paying attention.

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20% is better than 0%.

Brushing your teeth at least once every day is better than none at all.

A few hours of sleep is better than none.

A few minutes outside for fresh air is better than none.

Writing a few paragraphs of the essay today is better than procrastinating till later.

Doing something is better than nothing (of course there is exception for some cases).

Do things at a pace which makes you comfortable whilst allowing you to make progress.

You can do this!

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Who else experiences this?

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Make it a habit, shutting down conversations that hate on other people.

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Something to remember.

Books - http://debbietung.com/books

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If there are trees you aren’t alone