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I just wish you never meant this much to me. Just so I don’t have to think of what you do, or what you feel, or who you’re with, or what you think about. I just wish you never meant so much just so I don’t keep wasting my time caring.

𝐏.𝐆.𝐆

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It hurts. For a lot of reasons. But I guess it hurts the most because I get to watch the person I adore be adored by someone else.

 𝐏.𝐆.𝐆

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Wonder where I went wrong with you.

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Can you tell me why you meant so fucking much to me again?

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It's sad that I'm never the person that you'd want.

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keep the people who make you feel like home.

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i wanna stop breaking, but i dont wanna forget about him

if he is “pain”, then he isn’t “love”. learn to recognize when pain isn’t love and love isn’t just pain. 

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He broke up with me. He said he don‘t have time. It‘s hurt so much and i am afraid that the pain will never stop. Sorry my english is bad.

i believe that the best advice to moving on is to tell them that it’s gonna hurt and that you’re not gonna be fine for a while, and that most of their days they’ll thinking of where they went wrong and what could have been. i believe that you should never tell a person who is going through a break up that it’s gonna be okay, because the reality is that, for a while, it’s not gonna be fucking okay.

so hurt now, and for a while it is gonna hurt, but you’ll be surprised that one day, your eyes aren’t filled with tears anymore as a memory comes up. one day, you’d never find yourself looking at how he’s doing anymore. one day, you’re gonna heal. one day, no matter how many days it would take, just know that one day, you’re gonna heal. take time to grieve the person you lost, who once meant everything and now you feel as if nothing’s left. take time, and one day, you’re gonna see how much of yourself has healed from this. 

and i promise you this.

the pain will stop. just like the storm goes away.

𝐏.𝐆.𝐆 ⁽ˡᵐᵃᵒ ᵒᵏ ⁿᵒʷ ⁱ ᶠᵉᵉˡ ˡⁱᵏᵉ ᵗʰⁱˢ ᵃᵈᵛⁱᶜᵉ ⁱˢ ˢʰⁱᵗ⁾

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So there’s this girl that I’ve been liking a lot lately. We met over sm and we’ve talked pretty much every day for a lil over 3 months. It’s gotten to the point where not talking to her for a Day makes me feel like I’ve forgotten to do something I live in Oregon and she lives in minnesota. I wanna come visit her but she always gives me mixed answers saying she wants to but is scared. I like her a lot like it’s one of those rare types of feelings u don’t find every day. What should I do?

i understand that she may just be scared or nervous to meet someone who she only converses with through messages and stuff. i guess all you can do is to reassure her, make her comfortable with the idea and never force her to do it if she really isn’t ready to yet. the best thing you can do is to wait, wait for her to be okay with it. i’m guessing she isn’t having doubts with you, it’s just the process of you two meeting for the first time and all that. that really is nerve-racking. i hope you two find happiness in each other forever. it’s so sweet that you describe what you feel for her that way. keep her. x

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I'm friends with a guy for about 2 years now and I've liked him for quite awhile as well. I care about him a lot and told him I do. He gives me this feeling where he doesn't care about me one bit. I never really wanted anything more than just a friend even though I like him but all I ever wanted was to just feel like he cares.. he has a best friend that's a girl and I know he cares about her a lot. I'm struggling with not knowing what to do and I'm starting to get really depressed...

i know how much it sucks to want someone in a way that you don’t necessarily want to be in a relationship with them or anything like that, it’s just that you want them to see how you feel and to acknowledge those feelings, and for them to just care. believe me, i know that.

if he doesn’t show that he cares about you in anyway, then i think it’s best to step back and heal from that. i think that’s an unhealthy situation to put yourself in, (watch me being a hypocrite lmao) chasing for someone who doesn’t see your worth is never worth giving your everything to. i know it’s hard to let him go, to just throw away what you feel, but i believe you have to love yourself more and realize that you’re the one hurting. let him go, despite feeling like nobody else in the world could amount to him, let him go.

believe that there’s someone else there for you, someone who’d never let you hurt like this, someone who’d never let you think if he cares about you or not. let him go, wait for that someone, and everything will be okay.

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theres this guy that ive been on and off with for the past two years we just started talking again and everyone is telling me that hes just using me but it doesnt feel like that when were together but he's hurt me so bad and i dont want to get hurt again but also i've never felt the way i feel with him with anyone else i love him i really do but i dont know if he loves me back he says he does but idk i dont want to lose him but i know this is probably a bad idea , what should i do

i believe that love makes do the craziest shit for the person we love, even if that means hurting ourselves. i’m not someone who can tell you what to do about this, since i don’t know him and i don’t how much love you hold inside for him. but remember this, sometimes, love isn’t what we think we is. sometimes, we tell ourselves that it’s love because you’d rather believe that it is instead of being brought the truth that the person you love is hurting you. sometimes, you’d rather lie to yourself and tell yourself that they love you, than to stop the pain and not have anyone at all. sometimes, we manipulate the meaning of “love” to make ourselves believe that the person we love isn’t the one who hurts us the most. because that isn’t what love is, isn’t it? 

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[for-him-diaries]

hi, i've been gone

hello, i know i haven't been as active as i used to be. i've just been so busy that inspiration never really hit me and urged me to write. i hope you all understand!! but i'll be answering asks from my inbox if anyone is even interested.

i'll try my best to be more active!! stay kind to everyone, thank you all so much for everything x

 𝐏.𝐆.𝐆

#bitch ive been gone #ill try to be more active #ok thats all

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I miss you. I miss you so much. . . but in times like these, I can't do anything but remind myself that you're not missing me.

 𝐏.𝐆.𝐆

ⁱ ᵐⁱˢˢ ʸᵒᵘ

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We're all just heartbroken souls who want to love and be loved again. It could take endless hours and countless days until you may find your way back, but I promise that the day will come where you will love and be loved once again.

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          have patience, my love.

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You know the worst thing? It’s when every time she picks up the phone I know it’s you waiting on the other line.

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I envy the people who choose to believe in love. As if a person never came into their life and showed how good it was to adore a soul, and to want them badly enough to make it seem that nothing in the world would go wrong again as long as they’re right with you. I envy those who choose to believe as if no one has ever broken their heart at all.

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For now, all the sad love songs are all about you.

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dare to sing along.

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