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gaydecember · 7 years
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So that happened
Wow, it’s been almost a year since I’ve Tumblr’d. I’m still around. I’m still single and love it. I simply made tough people choices and easy life choices that better aligned with my core. Be surprise that it had zero to do with politics. It’s been a LONG road. I’m still on that road, but it was the right decision. I love this path.
I looked back thru my own archive and I need a cold shower! Damn fine men, but my attraction has also evolved a bit more. I still love a big guy, but I also love average sized guys now. That’s different. I still can’t get into skinny guys. If you’re a skinny guy, plenty of guys like you so ... you can ignore what I just said if you choose to do so. I just very much like meat ... in a non-cannibal, non-zombie, but touchy, feely, love and affection way.
It was great to catch up with the Tumblr’s of @mikeandbob​ and @lrbwiny​. They’re so awesome for sharing their lives! It looks like @ebrabbit​ went quiet. Hope all is okay there.
If you have a rockin’ Tumblr that I love and I didn’t mention you, it’s because it’s been a year since I’ve checked this. You’re important, still maybe try harder and then you’ll forever be ingrained into my grey matter like those guys I mentioned (Hint: it’s because they openly share themselves ... which is something I still very much struggle with. Yes, I should take my own advice on trying harder to openly share. Don’t count on it; keep reading).
Things are going to change around here ... as in, I’ll probably rarely use Tumblr. I might check in a bit more often. No worries either way. I’m on a career path right now and I’m a bit insane for choosing it. Apparently, I love a challenge.
And then there’s this next part which will best explain why you’re reading this post ...
About a week ago, I realized one extremely important thing. If I don't do anything about finding a partner-maybe-husband, I'll never find him. It’s something I completely stopped doing, because I was / am content without it. However, a good farmer plans ahead, so I best start planting some seeds. Then I realized how much I hated modern “dating”. I may be younger-ish-getting-ever-closer-to-middle-age, but I’m an old soul. So I decided that if I do this, I’m doing it my way and on my own terms. Again I love a challenge, because the challenge is necessary to achieve something greater.
I’m not a fan of modern dating methods or the behaviors they create. Considering what I admire in a guy, using those methods will be counterproductive for him and me. I’m also not a fan of counterproductive behavior.
So, I’m still around, but my online hack, social goal is only “to find us.” It’s going to be a slower process, but far more satisfying. It’s an investment in a really fun future with the right guy. I’m patient. I’ll find him. He’ll find me. Until then, living life.
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gaydecember · 7 years
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Date younger?
That awkward moment when you realize, "I could be the older half of an intergenerational relationship." Very interesting, very different thought ... extremely different, a bit jarring. I’m getting older. It’s possible. Until then ... gimme older men!
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Holy cow, talk about from left field. Awesome and Congratulations!
It’s been a while!
Well here we are, Valentines Day… One year exactly that we became a couple and three weeks away from our wedding. I can’t believe it. Each day is happier then the day before. I love you booboo bear! Happy Valentines Day! And Happy Anniversary!
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Love is Strange movie
Decided to watch this last night with zero expectation. I don't watch a movie just because it's a gay story. It helped that it is about older men :-) It's a slow pace, subtle, leaves scenes out and I liked that specific to this story. It's so much smarter than I first thought. Some scenes stuck with me, that's 100% greater than most big name movies do anymore. Like Grace & Frankie, it actually represents the type of relationship I want. It's not about being gay, leading with gay or everything is gay. It's just about finding a compatible partner and enjoying our lives together, and sometimes apart, as best as possible.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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This is a great pic! These guys are awesome.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Yes, please.
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Woof!!
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Hey guys I love your blog it's very sweet and heartwarming. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 45, great to see more and more happy couples with age differences
Absolutely! That’s what this blog is all about! Sending you our love and kind wishes.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Face, eyes, hair, hands … clearly, I'm into this very good looking man (2nd post of him in a week). Very ideal. Now let me slowly take your clothes off, help you relax from head to toe.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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This is everything! I don't even know why and I don't care. Wrap him up, I'll take him to go.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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In the past, I would’t be into a guy like this. Thanks to a guy very much like this, just shorter (which is hot too), my -only into big guys- attraction is in the past.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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His eyes, something about his eyes, I can't resist.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Guy on the right is TheBowTieGuy and I'll always reblog anything about him. His story about he and his partner is life changing info. If you love your man & yourself, don't wait; be prepared.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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If you haven't seen this entire video, it's great. There's little sexier than a guy who can let loose and have some fun!
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gaydecember · 8 years
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I wish he'd point his real mangun at me. I'd make it shoot. Didn't know him before Harry Potter. Now, I can't stop hardcore mancrushing.
What is it about UK men being the hottest of all men to me?! Don't know, don't care, I'll take one for life please.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Shorter guys, yes please
Football linemen, tall and thick, are my ultimate fantasy. I lived that fantasy with a 50 year old buddy over 2 years. Now, I'm really getting into shorter men more. I'm average height. Thinking back and about my current buddy, shorter guys have been so much hotter and far more sex chemistry (only exception being my football buddy). Interesting stuff. My attraction shift continues ... but I still wouldn't turn down a lineman.
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gaydecember · 8 years
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This is a cropped pic, still the original photo is pretty awesome IMO.
That cropped shoulder you see is this hot mans’ partner (maybe husband now?). They’re an intergenerational interracial couple … say that 5 times fast. I don’t know them. I’ve seen more of their pictures online.
One day I will be like them, in a picture like this, standing beside a sexy hot older guy … and someone can crop me out of our photo. Ha!
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gaydecember · 8 years
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Love it! Wish to have the good stuff you guys have one day down the road. My mom is bat shit crazy religious, so it's not happening on my side.
P.S. How did I miss this post in my feed?! Need to unfollow some mass posting tumblrs.
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Merry Christmas! What a world we live in, I took this photo of a photo displayed at Matt’s parents home in north central Wisconsin.
Acceptance. I’m lucky to be a part of his family!
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