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Reminder: It's alright if you're a "picky" eater. It's alright if you only eat a few specific foods. It's alright if you don't try new foods. It's alright. You should never feel bad about sensory issues. I love you /p

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Your partner should be a safe space, not another battle.

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cursed with "do you still like me?" "are you mad at me?" "did i do something wrong?" disorder

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there is no unlived life or alternative reality where everything went right…. there is only here and now what are you going to do with it

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If a worker who isn't the owner says ANYTHING similar to "I'm not really supposed to do this but-" and then does something that helps you, under no circumstances inform the business, including through reviews. You tell them that the worker was polite, professional, the very model of customer service and why you like to go there. You do not breathe a word of the rulebreaking.

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fuck a situationship i want you to throb bc of how much you love me

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You have to start noticing things. The direction of the rays of sunshine, how it touches and warms your skin; the sway of a leaf in a mild breeze; the simple beauty of the flowers; the strong smell of your morning coffee; the wind in your hair and on your face; the liveliness of the city; the calm of your soul. You have to start noticing this and start living for it.

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why don't you do arts and crafts for 5 hours and then you'll calm down

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“If they miss you, they’ll call. If they want you, they’ll say it. If they care, they’ll show it. And if not, they aren’t worth your time.”

— Lessons Learned in Life

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Public speaking is actually really easy if you don't respect a single soul in that room. I've had an incredibly easy time delivering speeches when I hated everybody I saw and they all thought I did amazing because my disdain was read as confidence. I don't have any tips for you I'm just telling you a fact

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reassurance hits different when it’s not asked for

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Yeah i have a dark past (being 13). Just an absolutely horrible backstory (being 13). It would keep you up at night if i told you about it (i was 13 one time)

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If hurting me does not hurt you, you don’t love me. You’re using me.

k.b // by jerry flowers jr

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I’m moving my works to @disgraceful-writings, they will be deleted from this blog and moved over eventually! Please give it a follow if you want to see my writing

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ATTENTION ALL FOLLOWERS: IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT

please tell your pets hello from me

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normalize not forcing people to choose you. If someone thinks they can get better elsewhere – let them try. Respectfully.

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not being able to seperate the art from the artist is a you problem