guiltyidealist

guiltyidealist

The Cypric Intellectual

What up, I'm Elliott, I'm 19, and I never fuckin' learned how to read. They/them Do not violate my consent. Maybe read my "About" page if you decide to follow me? QPP of an enboy named Sam

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guiltyidealist·2 hours agoText

justalittlefeller:

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don’t touch people that don’t want to be touched!!! people might not want to be touched due to abuse, people might not want to be touched due to sensory issues, and some people just don’t like it. i don’t care how weird or ‘sad’ it is that you can’t touch them, just don’t fucking do it. their comfort is more important than you poking them or hugging them.

not even if its your friend! not even if its your own child! not even if its your partner! just respect people!!!!!!

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guiltyidealist·3 hours agoText

obsessed-with-art123:

guiltyidealist:

What’re y'alls’ queue tags?

I don’t have one, but I LOVE seeing what people choose to have their queue tag be. I love when it’s a play on words, a reference to something, some random word, anything. It’s so interesting

I don’t have a queue, y'all get my posts immedimately lmao

I would be the same except that I sometimes go on post binges and don’t want to periodically flood peoples’ dashes. guhjbk

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guiltyidealist·3 hours agoText

awkward-blunt-miserableatbest:

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tilthat:

TIL about the Bouba-Kiki effect, which is a universal, inherent and nonarbitrary bias found in most adults to ascribe visual shapes to speech sounds.

via reddit.com

This is a very interesting phenomenon! Basically, people of different cultures who speak different languages were presented these shapes:

And asked to name them either “bouba” or “kiki”. Almost unanimously, people named the one with sharp edges kiki and the one with round edges bouba! It’s a very interesting insight into how languages are formed.

Bouba is shaped like friend

Kiki is sharp noise so Kiki gets sharp shape. Bouba is round and smooth sounding so Bouba is the round friend.

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guiltyidealist·3 hours agoText

What’re y'alls’ queue tags?

I don’t have one, but I LOVE seeing what people choose to have their queue tag be. I love when it’s a play on words, a reference to something, some random word, anything. It’s so interesting

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guiltyidealist·6 hours agoAnswer

hi do you have any tips on how to comfort a friend after something traumatic happens?

hi! yes, i do ♡;

֊ be there. listen to them. sometimes all they need is a person and some things are better unsaid. if they get the feeling that you’re there for them, they’ll feel more comfortable opening up to you when they’re ready.

֊ don’t invalidate their feelings (e.g. tell them not to overreact or say it’s in their heads or they’re too sensitive). avoid telling them what you would do. try to be understanding and open to how they experience their trauma and its repercussions.

֊ distract them. lots of people express that they feel better and more comforted when their friends don’t pressure them into talking about what happened. instead, bring the focus from a negative to a positive. make them laugh with lame jokes and comedy movies. just sit next to them and help them feel at ease by not having to think about it all the time.

֊ ask them. most people tend to feel guilty about just bringing up their feelings. and the worst possible way to perpetuate that is by walking on eggshells around them and avoiding the topic altogether. ask them what they need, how they’re feeling (and if they say fine, ask once more completely serious to be sure), tell them it’s okay if they don’t know yet and that you’re still there for them. and if you ask how they are / what they need, do so without insinuating anything.

֊ listen to them. you don’t have to know all the right words, you’re their friend, not their therapist. they just need someone ready to listen when they’re ready to talk. just being there is key.

֊ a hug. put your arms around them. hold them tight. sometimes that’s really all someone needs to feel better.

֊ kind words. i believe in you; you’re doing great; you’re enough; you can do it; you’re a good person; i’m proud of you; you’re not alone. especially for someone who doesn’t hear this a lot, or doesn’t expect it or needs that affirmation, this will give them the extra boost they need.

these amazing tips were provided to me a few weeks ago via this instagram post by gemma styles & i’m glad you asked so i can pass this onto you. you’re an awesome friend.

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guiltyidealist·8 hours agoText

traumasurvivors:

Consensual sex can still be upsetting or even traumatic. It is valid if you feel upset or traumatized even if the person you were with did nothing wrong. It’s okay to admit that. Consensual sex isn’t always great. It’s also okay if you didn’t notice it was upsetting until after it was over.

I want you to know that you’re valid. Your feelings are valid. And it’s okay to feel upset.

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guiltyidealist·8 hours agoText

chibifox2002:

steven-jambud-universe:

bihighandgivinghighfives:

2-depressed-4-u:

littleundertaletrash:

dannyphantomphandom:

hailthebread:

alegotic-fandoms:

the-mighty-birdy:

somerandomdork:

byronicbrit:

little-homestuck:

weirdscrub:

pop-punk-nerd:

mojo-chojo:

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tamarussia:

bridmpreg:

inglaterraa:

i’ve finally found my drawing style

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i drew a picture of your oc

i hope you dont mind that i put some of my headcanons in it

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fucking how

WHAT THE HAP IS FUCKENING

excuse me, but can i join the fandom?

i saw that his right arm is slightly short compared to the left one so i added my headcanon for it

IT GOT BETTER

Hey i’m new to the fandom but i love that headcanon so i added onto it by fixing them up! 

how

Plot twist: They built it themselves

hOW

Still my favorite post

this is great

This post never fails to make me smile, but it always makes me think. I know it started as a playful joke but look how people reacted! They joined on and added fanart. They were kind and respectful.


Now imagine this is someone (likely a kid) thats just starting to explore art! Imagine if we all reacted like this to their “ cringey ” ocs and wonky anatomy doodles!!! Do you know how happy and inspired they would be? I just wish more people built up young artists because if we keep criticizing them and telling them their art isnt good enough you know what thats going to do? Make them not want to create, be ashamed of what they do, and feel bad about liking things.


I would rather take 15-20 mins out of my life to sketch somebodys oc then take 2 seconds and post a hurtful comment


To all the young artists out there: KEEP DOING IT, FLOOD EVERY PLATFORM WITH YOUR FAVORITE OCS,DRAW YOU AND YOUR FAVORITE CHARACTERS, DRAW WHAT YOU WANT TO DRAW, WE ONLY HAVE SO MUCH TIME ON THIS EARTH I DONT WANT YOU TO WASTE IT ON WORRYING ABOUT NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH


this is so pure oml

THERES A FUNKING FANDOM-

This is too cute

HELPO YES I HAVE JOINED THE FANDOM

Man I love tumblr

This is so pure

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guiltyidealist·9 hours agoText

traumasurvivors:

snorlax-and-co:

Friendly reminder that you cannot put a deadline on recovery. You can harm someone’s mental health more by pushing that idea on them, no matter how good your intentions are.

This post is so important.

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guiltyidealist·10 hours agoPhoto

raavenb2619:

[ID: A two panel meme. In the first panel, a man gestures towards a pedestal, saying “This is where I’d put my gender neutral formal attire”. In the second panel, he says “If I had any”. End ID]

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guiltyidealist·13 hours agoPhoto

rainn:

Giving consent for one activity, one time, does not mean giving consent for more or future sexual contact.

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