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In the end, if children bother you for sensory reasons and that's why you don't want them to be in the same public spaces as you, there are disabled adults who can and would cause the same sensory issues for you. Adults who are loud, who vocally stim, who have poor boundaries, poor hygiene, who cry in public, etc etc etc. And they're already socially ostracized for all of this.

So actually yeah, it's the bare minimum you can do for the group with the least human rights on the planet to figure out how to accept children as part of your public community without hating them for it, even if you are child-free yourself.

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I'm so glad that y'all are so into Monkey Man and the badass hijra priestess army, but friendly reminder that hijra are NOT trans women. Hijra are their own distinct gender; trans women are women. India has both :)

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"are you amab or afab" umm i like to go outside with my friends

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Depends on your doc, but my doc would be fine with that! He said my transition is fully in my hands. I can basically do whatever I want.

I wish non binary hrt was easier to understand. The perfect situation for me would be on t 3 months and off t 3 months

with Finasteride to prevent me from getting anymore facial/ body hair, but I get to keep all the other good stuff, like the energy and sex drive and protection against muscle fatigue and pain. But even with informed consent you still have to pick I think. On or off

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the gifs i find on this website... you guys are art curators

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He’s not even from Rivia… she doesn’t even go here 😒

PLEASE zoom for details tumblr isn’t being very nice to the quality:)

Also! This was originally Geralt x Jaskiet x Yenn but I didn’t wanna draw a lute but TRUST! Also I realize I could’ve just drawn like a bird or something to represent jask but too late now

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I’m feeling like some of y’all forget the term transneutral exists. If I have to see another posts acting like transfem and transmasc are the only groups of trans people ever I’m going to explode.

And if for whatever reason you want to talk specifically about amab nonbinary ppl/afab nonbinary ppl the terms MtX and FtX are right there.

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Does anyone have links to that really awful right-wing comic artist on Twitter? I've got people on Threads trying to tell me "nobody could possibly be that hateful, all these images are AI". If I could actually link them to one of his comics, I could prove my point.

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listen, i'm not one for confrontation, but a few of my friends and i have been receiving really mean-spirited, entitled messages for creating the fandom art we want to create at the pace we want to create it and i'm honestly so sick of it. so, a couple of reminders:

fandom is meant to be fun for everyone, so don't be a dick. it's just that easy.

fandom creators, especially writers, are often creating art for free. they are sharing it with you, not creating it for you. they're under no obligation to update to your time schedule, only create within the sphere of things you personally like, or only create for your fandom.

if you feel there's not enough of what you like in fandom, go out and make it! it's the easiest way to get fandom stuff that caters directly to your tastes. it's far more effective than harassing creators for creating what they want to create.

honestly, some people make fandom so exhausting and it really doesn't have to be.

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body paintings by Karen Turner

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Something that made hygiene-related things easier to do was to say "fuck it" to the concept of doing the thing at the Right time. My teeth do not understand that it is currently 02:00 or 15:00 and they're getting brushed. The skin on my face doesn't hold up a timepiece and say, "why haven't you washed me, twelve hours have elapsed and you haven't bothered to wash me!".

As someone who has had very intense experiences with my ability to do things at the Right time, throwing out those rules has been a game-changer. I used to shame myself because I didn't do something at the Right Time, so I just didn't do it, which would make me feel even worse. That's not a healthy way to go about anything. Accommodate for yourself. Throw out those rules.

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It makes me happy when they listen

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Isn’t it just so funny that the only reason why we have Garashir is because the DS9 writers couldn’t pin down Bashir’s character and started to panic so they got Andrew Robinson on the show just to slap four hours of makeup on him and say “go be a spy” and Andrew Robinson was like “??? HOW” and they were like “and ACTION!” and so Andrew Robinson looked at Alexander Siddig and put his whole palm on his shoulder and bing bang boom Garashir was born

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they who watch over the woodlands