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LETS GOOOO BABY!!!!

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Statement from Mike McMahan and Alex Kurtzman about Lower Decks' cancellation.

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There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.

This is because everything in my life requires work:

maintaining friendships

keeping up with my hygiene

managing bills

making money

remembering my basic needs

sleeping regularly

outputting creatively

All requires some aspect of work for me.

And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.

If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.

If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.

You're not dysfunctional.

You're not incapable.

You're doing your best.

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Pros of hyperfixiation:

Happy!

Art ideas

Life is good

Cons of hyperfixiation:

I am going to blow up

All my art is of the same guy

If I don't think about this 24/7 I get violent

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Can't overemphasize how useful it is to own multiples of important things.

Deodorant? One in the bathroom and one in my closet, because those are the places I'm most likely to be naked and remember I need it. Lotion? One in the bathroom and one next to my bed, also because those are the places I remember it. I keep an air freshener in the bathroom and another one next to the place where I air out my sweaty work clothes.

I have one inhaler in my backpack, one in my car, and one in my leg bag. Hair clips, headbands, and hair ties? Some on the wall hooks in my room, others looped around the car gearshift. Teriyaki sauce? A bottle in the kitchen fridge, and packets in my room in case I forget the bottle.

Yeah it's redundant, but I promise that the two-pack of deodorant "costs" less to me than spending a day sticky and damp. It isn't wasteful if the system makes you use the thing. Even the bowl on my desk for pocket stuff (knife phone wallet keys) has a spare car key in case I misplace the original.

People who expect me to remember stuff are wrong. I do what keeps me clean and fed and happy.

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Lucy + pulling Tim in for a hug

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The Star Trek: DS9 Wrap Party, April 1999

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MORE MORE MORE! Here you go!!!

Previous post can be found here

this one of 'Rodney' and 'Jeaine' is particularly good because the actors are actually siblings, in case you didn't know!!

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6.18 | Forsaken

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Nobody:

Absolutely no one:

Not a single soul:

Colin “Sturdy” Bridgerton in a carriage:

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It only feels this raw right now Lost in the labyrinth of my mind

"Labyrinth" by Taylor Swift

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Always making sure to help his wife and check on her well being

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The balance of this relationship is so HEART EYES