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On Sundays, She Picked Flowers is up on Goodreads so you should like, idk, put it on your to-read lists or something! Show me support!

#I want to read this so bad 🥺👀 #fluoresensitive #reference

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Ik its a dead meme but i had to make it

#WHFBFBFBFH JOHNNY LOOK WHFBFBH #Spock #Kirk #Star Trek #art

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@mayexplode

i’m not gonna teach your boyfriend how to dance with you

#They should have been cryptic together 😔😔 #jennifer's body #needifer #jennifer check #needy lesnicki

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via blumpkinspicedlatte

#SHUT UP WHFBFBFBFB #our professor brought up some art by Da Vinci and asked if we knew who made it and I wanted to say Da Vinky SO bad #va vinky

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Just two casual outfit/bermuda shorts girlfriends supporting each other, because they think this outfit looks good on every girl

#Fashion queens.. fashion gfs #wlw #sapphics #gal pals

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Apparently Mary Elizabeth Winstead in Birds of Prey wielding a crossbow isn’t sexy according to a man ??

it’s almost as if men are used to seeing women in film through a male gaze where they are sexualized and objectified for male pleasure and approval.??

huh anyway MEN are weak and ladies enjoy Mary Elizabeth Winstead looking hot and powerful as Huntress

like THAT ^^^^^^^^^ is sexy men need to grow up

#Birds of Prey was truly a redemption arc #birds of prey

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Coming out on social media has been an absolute nightmare but yeah I'm genderqueer use he / they with me ty

Twitter ⚔

IG ⚔

#I absolutely LOVE this outfit it’s such a look 👀 #elf #Halloween

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Stop saying terfs started "queer is a slur" please for the love of god i am begging you. Reclaiming it for yourself is fine but it is still literally a slur and all you're doing is diluting the definition of terf to mean "any person who has holds the 'bad' opinion in lgbt discourse".

#I feel like most people who say queer isn’t a slur have never been like . in a regularly oppressive setting whfbfbfbfbh #q slur

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#I love among us whfbfbbfg #among us

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I drew one of my favorites wlw - mlm solidarity photos

#we love soldarity lads #lgbt #art

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trans rights 🌸✨

#ooh this is absolutely lovely #trans #deer #art

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pride dresses

#QUEENS I absolutely LOVE them #lgbt #art #wlw #sapphics #gal pals

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The reading comprehension and overall common sense on this website is piss poor.

#HONESTLY LMFAO #tumblr

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You’re really just keep making a fool of yourself here by misunderstanding things and then trying to act smug about it huh lmfao. Where did I say anything about libido there? It’s clearly referring to how there’s gay people (like me) who are ace and interested in people of the same gender just like there’s cishet people only interested in other genders who are also ace. As in there are gay people who are disinterested in sex given their lack of a desire to pursue it regardless of their libido just like the same can apply to cishet people.

I wouldn’t have minded explaining this to you and been willing to accept it as no more than a harmless misunderstanding if you weren’t looking like a fool by trying to be snarky about jumping to conclusions. You get what you dish it out so don’t go acting mad when you’re not coddled for it and end up looking bad for as much. Cishets can experience a lack of sexual attraction for people of the opposite sex and that doesn’t automatically make them LGBT. There are both gay and cishet aces. The communities can overlap but aren’t inherently the same. You should realize your tendency to rely on accusations and insults with a lack of counters doesn’t make for a very worthwhile discussion and lessens the chance of your claims coming across as convincing. Having an attitude will result in receiving an attitude since people who can’t discuss things with civility tend to not deserve a platform to be coddled on.

If you realized you’re not ready for this extensive discussion then that’s fine and it’s valid to just drop it if you’re not ready to converse civilly but don’t expect me or others to accept an argument that you haven’t backed up through anything more than demeaning accusations. Believe it or not I have a say on this as a gender-fluid asexual lesbian and I frankly feel like you’re misunderstanding the majority of the claims being offered to you given how you’re not offering comments to most of them and primarily bringing up new arguments you expect me to cover without addressing any of my statements disputing your claims.

You obviously came in here with an intent to argue rather than communicate in regard to communities that we’re both apart of. This comes across as absolutely foolish to me and this mindset will absolutely make people less prone to considering your stances. Despite this, I’ve given you several chances to have a conversation to offer new insights that might allow us to consider things differently rather than a repetitive monologue that lacks in bringing anything new to the table. If you aren’t ready to put an effort into doing otherwise then don’t expect me to make an effort without calling attention to as much when you continuously avoid addressing it. I replied to your initial ask informatively and you chose to reply demeaningly and you’re continuing to do so. I’m reciprocating your tone so if you want it to be more civil then consider being civil to have civility returned.

I’m not writing a whole new reply just because your reading comprehension skills backfire on you when you’re being demeaning and not acknowledging how weirdly invasive you were in trying that libido bullshit with me in a way that was frankly creepy. Instead, I’m just gonna repeat the stuff you selectively chose to not address.

“As someone who has actually been called queer, dyke, and other terms in deragatory settings... seeing other people call themselves queer just when they’re referring to stigmatization but not oppression is a lot. Not saying you’re not queer since your trans so like yes that’s valid, but queer is not a slur to claim for people who just so happen to deviate from social norms in relationships since that’s not the same as homophobic or transphobic rhetoric.

If gay people can be asexual or polyamorous then so can straight people.

I’ve found a lot of aces just communicate with aces within the LGBT community so there’s a lack of understanding when it comes to how there’s absolutely aces that exist outside of that community— including homophobic and transphobic ones that absolutely don’t belong in the community by default.

There are cishet people who identify as cishet since they’re only attracted to people of the opposite gender yet they aren’t interested in sex. LGBT people and cishet people can be ace and claiming someone has to identify with being LGBT when they’re cishet is disconcerting. You talk about me invalidating you’re identity but I feel like you’ve only talked to aces who were LGBT and none that identify with being cishet and aren’t interested in being LGBT, and invalidating their identities isn’t progressive.

I’ve met multiple aces who identify as cishet and don’t identify with being LGBT. I’ve also met multiple ace men who were extremely homophobic to gay men and vice versa for women. They absolutely don’t belong in the community just because they don’t want to have sex.”

I’m considering blocking you for awhile so you’ll potentially have time to actually read over what I said since you seem to feel an impulse to immediately reply with your own repetitive opinion without considering how my statements counter the claims supporting that opinion.

This could allow you to come up with counter-claims and actually bring something new to the table that isn’t baseless accusations, new claims that don’t address any counters, and just reworded phrases that have already been debunked; offering new perspectives through mutual counters makes for a much more productive conversation compared to just pushing an opinion with an intent to argue that gets you nowhere.

You’re giving me foundations for my argument, and I’ve given you the doubt by considering how it might be insightful to hear you offer things I hadn’t considered so we can better understand each other’s stances as people who are both in the LGBT community and ace community— particularly when I used to believe being ace meant automatically being LGBT like you did.

It could also allow you to cool down and consider acting more civilly rather than relying on going on the defense to sound demeaning in attempts to make your argument sound more sturdy than it actually is.

If I did block you, perhaps I could tag you afterward in a reblog of this reply to let you know the post was available for replies from you again.

Although I’ve also considered blocking you permanently given the confrontational attitude you’ve taken on that I’m not required to put up with— particularly when I initially made an effort to be civil and have a conversation as well as introduce new insights while also addressing your perspectives, yet you still haven’t acknowledged the majority of the debunked claims I made. I don’t have to put an effort into addressing comments that lack an effort and I don’t have to allow unwarranted bait on my post when it doesn’t offer any insights worth considering due to that. You came to me and chose to engage in this discussion which I welcomed by answering your question, but I am not required to entertain your desire to argue when what I welcomed was a conversation. I’ve made this clear throughout my replies and it’s not my fault you’ve failed to acknowledge as much so far. Do not expect welcoming behavior when you do not make an effort to give as much.

You’re more than welcome to indicate whether or not you want to have an actual conversation or if you just want to drop this on your blog if I do end up blocking you since you wouldn’t have a chance to personally tell me as much. I might consider checking it if I do but given what’s occurred I might not have any desire to check up on your blog in regard to this since I’m really not required to keep giving chances to allow you to do as much here. It’s perfectly fine if you’ve realized you’re not ready to have a discussion this extensive right now.

I’m assuming you’ve potentially read as much given how you’ve been active on your account since your last reblog.

Okay, your bio says not inclusionist. Please elaborate on that.

I’m saying this as an asexual lesbian just to clarify; there can be cishet aces just like there can be gay and/or trans aces is the gist of it so being ace in that sense doesn’t inherently make someone LGBT by default. Additionally, being in a polyamorous relationship doesn’t automatically make someone a part of the LGBT community if they don’t experience same-sex attraction or identify with a different gender than the one they were assigned.

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We need to dismantle the systems in place that allow white people to get away with offering black people sub-par services based on the excuse that our bodies are more difficult to work with. Black hair is not more difficult than white hair, it simply requires a different skill set. Tattooing vibrant tattoos on black skin isn’t more difficult than tattooing white skin, it simply requires a different skill set. Photographing black people isn’t more difficult than photographing white people, it simply requires an understanding of photography. Doing makeup on black skin isn’t more difficult than doing makeup on white skin, it simply requires different products. Working with black people is not more difficult than working with white people you’ve all just been taught that it’s not valuable and therefore not worth learning how.

#racism #services

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happy valentines day! 

#Ooh the costume designs are top notch I love it 👀 #kh #kingdom hearts

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girls

#I feel like I’ve already reblogged this but you know what? Kh stuff is worthy of being reblogged more than once and this is GOOD #kingdom hearts #kh