hereliesmybrokenheart

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How many times can the same thing break your heart?

[hereliesmybrokenheart]

“Just remember. With you, I tried my best.”

— Did everything I could. // Late night thoughts #101

[hereliesmybrokenheart]

“When you are alone with your thoughts, would you be brave enough to admit that it hurt you too? That you also played a hand in me leaving?”

— Did it hurt? // Late night thoughts #102

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I don’t know how many times I have chosen you instead of me. And after choosing you for so long, I’d realized that it should have been me.

From now on, it will always be me. (via hereliesmybrokenheart)

[hereliesmybrokenheart]

“I tried to break down that wall, but all that broke was my own heart.”

— k.b. // stray kids - sorry, i love you

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When you are alone with your thoughts, would you be brave enough to admit that it hurt you too? That you also played a hand in me leaving?

Did it hurt? // Late night thoughts #102

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it is not an evil thing to look at yourself with kindness. your life was never meant to be a punishment

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“A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.”

— William G.T. Shedd

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Just remember. With you, I tried my best.

Did everything I could. // Late night thoughts #101

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[hereliesmybrokenheart]

[hereliesmybrokenheart]

Here is some real advice on how to move on if you still “love” someone:

(e.g emotional attachment during/after failed courting period, boyfriend/girlfriend scenario, separation/divorce etc..)

1. Cut off contact.

Many people hang onto the idea of friendship with an ex as a way to keep the possibility of the relationship alive because the idea of completely letting go seems to overwhelming.

2. Let go of the fantasy.

Most people don’t want back the relationship they actually had. What they mourn for is the relationship they thought they could have had if things had just been different. But the truth is, the relationship didn’t exist.

3. Make peace with the past.

Forgiveness isn’t about letting the person off the hook for his or her bad behaviour; it is about your emotional freedom and peace.

4. Know it’s OK to still love them and that it will take time to heal.

Part of maturity is recognising that love by itself isn’t always enough to make a relationship work.

5. Love yourself more.

Believing that you deserve to be in a halal loving relationship with someone who shares your values and treats you well requires that you view yourself in a positive light.

6. Repent if involved in unlawful relationship outwith wedlock.

Simply make tawbah and ask for repentance. Try to be as sincere as possible, promise not to do it again and try to change your ways.

There is not any slave of Allah (God) who commits a sin, then he/she perfects his/her ablution and stands to pray two Rak'ahs of prayer, then seeks Allah's (God’s) forgiveness, except that Allah (God) will forgive him/her.

-Qasim Rafique

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“Being the one everybody turns to. Being the one who has nobody to turn to.”

— k.b. // nobody to turn to

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““Someday, I promise, you’ll understand”, he said. She turned back to him, tears in her eyes. “Maybe someday I won’t care”, and slammed the door.”

— k.b. // outlander (netflix)

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Your children aren’t meant to be therapists for your bad marriage. Your children aren’t meant to be the adults in the house if your partner isn’t home. Your children aren’t supposed to parent their younger siblings. Your children aren’t supposed to fix your financial woes. Putting these demands on children from a very early age is actually a form of abuse.

[hereliesmybrokenheart]

I won’t glorify or romanticize heartbreak. For me, it was a kind of death and I was forced to keep living.

~ Warsan Shire

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To the person reading this, I hope tonight treats you gently, and that tomorrow looks brighter