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homeskillett · 3 years
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Wise words :) #EthicalMemes
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homeskillett · 3 years
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ask yourself genuine questions when you are struggling
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homeskillett · 3 years
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what does supporting someone look like?
not just voicing support, or telling someone they can count on you, but really doing it
to me, it looks like asking questions, responding to text, making invitations and holding space
i want to know what more i can do, and what you do
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homeskillett · 3 years
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i’m sick of people just pushing, and never slowing down and asking.
my family wants me to send in a video naming something for each letter in THANKSGIVING that i’m thankful for.
i haven’t sent it in yet, and i honestly don’t want to because i feel pretty shitty and it wouldn’t be genuine, i was planning to just let the day come and go.
my sister just keeps asking me to do it, and getting upset that i won’t without asking why- trying to turn family members against me and just forcing me to do what she wants.
and it’s a nice thing i get it, but she hasn’t once asked me if there is a reason i’m not doing it
if the point of the project, and the holiday is to connect and gather what is the point of forcing people to fake something they don’t feel
like no i’m not super grateful for the family that i’m not allowed to come out to, or the aunt that body shames my instagram, or the siblings who always assume the worst of me - let me not participate if i don’t want to, i’m a grown ass woman
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homeskillett · 3 years
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if someone comes out to you and you respond :
“i don’t care” or “that doesn’t change anything”
you may think that is reassuring, and it is because at least you are not hateful .... but that person is sharing something vulnerable with you, and might want to talk about it
try to help them feel seen and understood not just tolerated
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homeskillett · 3 years
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i guess i have no choice but to kick life’s ass
i’ve been letting her toss me around for too long.
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homeskillett · 3 years
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anyone out there?
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homeskillett · 3 years
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why is this IT
not in an unhealthy “i want to be unalive” moment
more in a...
i am so important and doing the damn thing that there is a bounty on my head
the power, the mystery
also assasinations are always the coolest parts of history
this is the only kinda of “hit on” i’m interested in
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homeskillett · 3 years
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podcasts i fw :
Revisionist History
that’s the whole list, i need to find more cool podcasts pls :)
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homeskillett · 3 years
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online school has me forgetting i have assignments due since i never see my profs
this fucking ruins the panic of meeting a deadline that i usually use as a substitute for genuine academic motivation
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homeskillett · 3 years
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i’m so used to all the visual social media outlets (ig, snap, tik tok) which are so performative, with so many unspoken rules
(don’t post too much, but stay active, keep your story short, post when you’re doing something cool, not when you’re stressed and lonely etc )
here i don’t have to show my face, limit my character count or be subjected to the gaze of my friends and family everytime i share something
freeing asf
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homeskillett · 3 years
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since nothing matters, the only thing that matters is how you live and experience the world
you don’t exist for others, you just exist
this world and the way you experience it is about you, and you’re allowed to do what’s important to you or what you want with kindness and care and courage. you’re not alive to replicate somebody else’s experiences or embody someone else’s dream. you’re alive to live in this version of the world that belongs to nobody but you, and you’re important because of it.
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