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you don’t have to be in a positive mindset every day. that’s not realistic. but i hope you can find more days where the sun shines a little brighter for you.

#positive suggestion #suggestions #soft suggestions

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-despite everything, there is still love

@arthoesunshine/ @artsheila/ @daisies-on-a-cup/ @gayarsonist / @hjarta/ @yunawinter on twitter/ @bakwaaas/ @death-born-aphrodite/ anon on gentleearth/ @classicnymph on twitter

#life #soft suggestions #suggestions

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Little things for when you’re not doing great:

peppermint tea in your favorite mug

watching your favorite tv show

reading a good book in the afternoon sunlight

enjoying the silence and natural sounds of your home

buying your favorite snacks and eating them all in one go

going to the library and checking out books on topics you’re interested in

buying a cheap bath bomb and bathing in water slightly too hot

buying a new plant

going for coffee at a local cafe

a new journal and a fresh pen

making lists of everything (especially things you love)

buying a new fruit at a fun grocer and giving it a try

used books stores

finding that perfect vintage sweater at the thrift store

petting a sleeping cat

standing in the grass, putting your face toward the clouds, and feeling the soft breeze

painting something with cheap art supplies (bonus points if it’s really bad and you frame it for the memories)

doing a load of laundry with all your favorite pieces

the first pages of your favorite book

wearing sweat pants all day

stardew valley

taking a walk around the park

knowing that there are so many thing in this world that you haven’t gotten the chance to fall in love with yet

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not all friendships are meant to last forever, but every day i am thankful that ours is still lasting

#friendship #soft suggestions #suggestions #platonic love

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i am not at fault for being soft. you are at fault for being mean.

#soft suggestions #suggestion #there is strength in being soft

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i saw this awhile ago and saved to share with everyone on here it might benefit :•)

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#soft suggestions #romantic love #suggestion

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You don’t need to know everything now. You don’t need to be perfect, unbelievably wise, or entirely healed right now. All you need is to just do your best. Growth and healing will come naturally with new experiences and relationships. Don’t try to rush your healing or let this goal completely consume your life. You are not an endless project for self improvement, you are a human being who will make mistakes and have new experiences and fail and try again and love a lot and laugh super hard and be a little scared of the uncertain or discouraged and kinda sad sometimes. Let yourself flourish and live— even if it means letting go a little.

#soft suggestions #suggestions #you are enough as you are #take your time

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You serve no one by draining yourself of all your energy, not yourself, not your friends and family and not your job/education. It takes so much longer to recharge and get well again, than if we take care of ourselves as we go. So please recharge, rest and listen to your limits and your needs. You and your well being is important. 🌸

#suggestions #soft suggestions #self care #be kind to yourself

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relapsing does not mean you’ve failed

#suggestion #soft suggestion #recovery is a journey

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Things that take time & many tries to get right:

learning to be a good friend/partner

healing from depression, failures or heartbreak

becoming amazing at an art or skill

overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image

overcoming the need to isolate yourself

changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones

making a real connection with someone

overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts

learning how to study effectively

finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core

quitting habits or addictions

leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself

getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake

treating yourself like you truly care about yourself

becoming the person you always wanted to be

#soft suggestions #suggestion #everything takes time #be patient with yourself #and be compassionate with yourself

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things that seem small can be really brave:

getting up in the morning

asking for help

stopping when you know you’ve pushed yourself too hard

admitting when you were in the wrong

forgiving yourself

making an effort even when you don’t have the motivation

reaching out to others when you feel alone

+ much more

#suggestions #soft suggestions #you are doing your best

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you’re not behind in life. you’re going at your own pace. it’s better to do things the right way with time than to rush things. don’t stress yourself out too much over a self-conceived timeline.

#soft suggestions #suggestion #life genuinely isn’t a race #just take things one day at a time

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@ people who don't celebrate christmas and are currently having christmas shoved down their throats

i hope whatever holiday you celebrate is fun and well!! and if you don’t celebrate any holidays this time of year, i hope your day is nice anyways!

#suggestion #soft suggestion #winter #not Christmas

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merry christmas

to you and especially...

to anyone who doesn’t have a home to go to,

to anyone who couldn’t afford presents,

to anyone who is missing a loved one,

to anyone who wishes they had more to be thankful for,

to anyone who feels completely alone,

to anyone who doesn’t know how to feel on the holidays.

i wish you a beautiful day that reminds you of the spirit of giving and loving and finding peace.

#Christmas #soft suggestion #suggestion

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There’s nothing more comforting than the warmth of you next to me full of love and life as we cheer each other on through our hardships.

#soft suggestions #suggestions #mine #love #platonic love #romantic love

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Reblog to put candy in your followers halloween buckets :)