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forever in awe of people who pay attention. people who wait for you while you tie your shoes while the others have walked away. when they continue listening intently while the rest of the group stopped listening. noticing your moments of silence when everyone else hasn’t. “this made me think of you” noticing things you never even noticed about yourself. people who say “text me when you get home safe.” people who make you laugh until you cry. childhood friends who keep in touch. people with genuine intentions. people who are soft when the world has given them every opportunity to turn hard. the “let’s get ice cream” at 3am friend. the turn up the music in the car and sing friend. people whose actions match their words. people who make the world feel less chaotic. kindred spirits. the trustworthy and honest. hard workers. good listeners. clear communicators. people who love you for who you are. people who don’t ask you to be anything other than yourself. people who choose you. people who stay.

#quotes i love

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emotional processing is so funny because sometimes you’ll be violently sobbing on your bedroom floor over something that happened 4 years ago and then you’ll just. get up and make coffee. and go to the grocery store. and take all this fundamental sadness for a walk. and ponder the cosmic experiences of humanity while eating a sandwich. and that’s healing.

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wanting to talk to people is so fucking embarrassing. literally hi it's me again I wanted to have a conversation with you because I think you're fun to talk to. oh god you can just fucking kill me if you want sorry

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we could…idk….hold hands through the shark tunnel at the aquarium 🥺

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i say "godspeed, soldier" way too much for someone who puts their faith in neither god nor the military

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It is what it is *throws up*

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"You're mine" thanks fuck me so hard I can't walk

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It seems that your weird matches my weird. We should kiss. I mean we should fuck. I mean we should be friends.

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go outside & listen to the birds sing & smile at strangers. there’s a good chance it will heal you

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A perfect partner doesn’t exist, a right one does. Someone who’ll move mountains with you and go through difficulties without letting each other go.

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wanna chill with you at 1am and talk about how pretty your eyes look today

#goals

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come get snuggled idiot

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I actually think your fingers would be more comfortable if they were deep inside me

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i simply do not have enough tattoos

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