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jikook in season's greetings spot #2

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Could Jimin and JK have been covering for JK and Taehyung when they said Jimin bit JK because JK wouldn't put him down? Delusional, but sure, maybe.

Could they have been covering for JK and his secret baby mama when they said that? Plausible, possibly.

Did JK (or even Jimin) ever say or insinuate that either of those things ever happened? The simple answer is no.

And that's it. That's all we really need to know in this situation. All this talk about whether they were lying is kind of pointless because no one will ever know (unless we see baby JK pop up). The only things that were obvious to me from the little clip I saw are:

That's a hickey not a "bite mark." (which, how is this not the real talking point lol? like how is this not the argument point for those who don't believe Jimin and JK? It's a bit easier to argue that it wasn't a romantic bite than it is to argue against Jimin and JK's own words. But I get it, it's SO obviously a hickey...)

JK said Jimin did it.

Jimin said Jimin did it.

Jin was making all types of faces trying to contain his laughter.

Big Hit decided it was interesting/inoffensive enough to leave it in the video.

For some reason, people only call Jimin and JK liars when they're talking about things they do together. Otherwise they are little angel babies who poop flummery tarts. I've always chosen to take Jimin and JK at their word when it concerns their relationship with each other and with the other members. Not because I think they're sacred souls who can't lie, but because their public actions track very closely with their public words.

If a person's knee-jerk reaction to Jimin and JK's story is that they are lying/insincere/etc. but only when it comes to things like this, that person needs to ask themselves why they see Jimin as a threat to how they perceive JK 🙃

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I might I talk about the biting.

I have a lot of thoughts about it. It won't be like my typical posts though

#kookmin #sorry if you came for language explanations

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Not the biggest clown of them all coming with this take. You wrote a 24-page essay in my inbox because you thought you were anonymous only to fail at your attempt to harass me..I have to laugh

Instead of recognizing anything is possible, you came to my inbox to waste your time and mine, which is something only a narcissist with ratlike tendencies would do

Serendipity is not about jikook or yoonmin!? Why would namjoon (and the other writers) sit down and write about jikook or yoonmin? Y’all over analyze everything but what about the many times jikook bro-zoned each other, I’ve lost count on how many times Jm has called jk his “dongsaeng” which literally translates to little brother. Y’all ignore all of that and only concentrate on things that feed ur delusional fantasy. Jimin and jk are close and they have their inside jokes (the u are me and I’m you thing) but does that mean they’re in a romantic relationship. No. I really thought taekookers were delusional, but this…🤐 there are so things I could write that should debunk all of this shit y’all are deep int but Ain’t doing that. I’m just wondering, if they’re really together then why didn’t they purchase apartments near each other like jm and nj? Cause that is possible and if they’re together than they should’ve thought of that as partners right? And the fact that y’all think they live together when jk didn’t even have a pillow for himself in his OWN apartment lmao. go touch some grass, nah literally 😰

is it crack you smoke?

#i can't believe it's jikook of all things that has these keyboard warriors typing manifestos lmaoooo

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@bts0408 so you felt the need to send this in my ask box too for what reason exactly?

There are so many things wrong with this dumbass comment that it's actually legitimately unhinged that you felt the need to type this out

Hahahaha. Sorry I just came across your blog and saw the Serendipity thing being for Yoonmin and had to laugh. If Joon found it difficult to write about VMin's friendship for Friends cuz it's just too personal; why would anyone think that Joon would even consider writing about Yoonmin? Aaaaand the fact that there are other writers on board for that track. The reach is simply....

lmaoooo

#Me: serendipity was not written for any couple. This dumbass: *types a dissertation about something I didn't even say*

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Serendipity is not about jikook or yoonmin!? Why would namjoon (and the other writers) sit down and write about jikook or yoonmin? Y’all over analyze everything but what about the many times jikook bro-zoned each other, I’ve lost count on how many times Jm has called jk his “dongsaeng” which literally translates to little brother. Y’all ignore all of that and only concentrate on things that feed ur delusional fantasy. Jimin and jk are close and they have their inside jokes (the u are me and I’m you thing) but does that mean they’re in a romantic relationship. No. I really thought taekookers were delusional, but this…🤐 there are so things I could write that should debunk all of this shit y’all are deep int but Ain’t doing that. I’m just wondering, if they’re really together then why didn’t they purchase apartments near each other like jm and nj? Cause that is possible and if they’re together than they should’ve thought of that as partners right? And the fact that y’all think they live together when jk didn’t even have a pillow for himself in his OWN apartment lmao. go touch some grass, nah literally 😰

is it crack you smoke?

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Hahahaha. Sorry I just came across your blog and saw the Serendipity thing being for Yoonmin and had to laugh. If Joon found it difficult to write about VMin's friendship for Friends cuz it's just too personal; why would anyone think that Joon would even consider writing about Yoonmin? Aaaaand the fact that there are other writers on board for that track. The reach is simply....

lmaoooo

#answered

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I asked you about goldenjapans because they abruptly left Tumblr and they were known to have some connections and know some actual real stuff. I sometimes wonder what happened.

ah

#answered

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Ooh I just found your blog and though I disagree with you on some areas I really like the way you've kept the conversation open to every view. I agree with you on the fact that jikook actually got together (if they are dating) much more recently. I actually think that they had a more casual relationship where neither wanted to completely commit to a full term relationship (because it is risky especially in their position) but had strong feelings for one another up until late 2019-early 2020. I feel like a lot of 2020 moments of theirs gets kinda overlooked because they're not as loud as something like rosebowl or gcf-t but like in 2020 they really just radiated a sort of domesticity and comfort especially In the soop or their gimbap vlive. It just felt like they had really settled in to one another's presence (don't get me started on how they've picked up some habits and tiks from one another in the past year). So they might have begun properly dating around lat year.I could be totally wrong but it's just the vibe I get.

curious about the things you disagree with

#answered #jikook #kookmin #jk jm km #bored and curious

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Excellent point, I want to see some too 👀

I'd love to have a discussion about so-called unpopular opinions on KM. I keep seeing anons being dismissed on "popular blogs" (I guess they're popular I'm not really spending much time on here anymore) and I'm not a huge fan of this mentality.

If anyone would like to share their "unpopular opinions" I hereby welcome you to do so. It feels silly doing this but I can't stand ppl who don't accept someone else's opinion just bc it's different from their own. Stop acting like you have the facts when we're all simply speculating. Did JK tell you that certain tattoos are intended to represent JM? Did he personally tell you that their Tokyo trip was a birthday present for JM? You can't possibly know any of that so why are you treating it as the truth? I'm very much a fan of speculating, it's fun and it doesn't harm anyone. But as soon as you start to label these things as facts with no room for doubt, it's becoming a problem. Do I believe KM are romantically involved? Yes. But do I run around claiming KM are in fact dating and there's no way I'm wrong? No, bc what do I know? I have no proof of that. So what's up with you guys telling others off for having different opinions? I don't get it.

Might delete parts of this later but this has been bothering me for a while.

#sign me up chief #one of the most rational posts I've seen on here

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Bringing this back but emphasizing that I don't ship. I obviously think something is going on with Jimin and JK. I'm just making it clear that while I think they have cute/entertaining/interesting moments, on my blog I am concerned with adding context that may (and often does) challenge a lot of shipping and anti-shipping beliefs. I am also open to having my ideas challenged when people don't feel the way I feel on things about Jimin and JK, in a respectful way of course.

My blog will continue to be a place where I can both add and gain perspective on issues/topics surrounding Jimin and JK.

Hi Guys -

For those of you who are new to my blog, I thought I’d just write a quick overview on the type of posts you can expect from me.

I like to use this blog as an outlet to express ideas in various subjects including philosophy and language through the lens of popular media with some rants sprinkled in here and there. While not a shipper myself, I mostly post about issues in shipping and major controversies surrounding it, and often use Jimin and Jeongguk as case studies. Also, I use an essay-style which, by default, means that my posts tend to be long and detailed (though there will be some short stuff here and there too.) 

Anyway, feel free to comment on my posts with your thoughts and opinions. I like to have respectful and honest discussions with people and definitely appreciate hearing other perspectives on controversial issues

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Note: I don’t entertain trolls and people who think they know my thoughts better that *I* do. Also don’t entertain condescension and passive-aggressives. But that’s it really. Happy reading!

#about

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@ohmyfairforest @nabis-jikookie As long as it's on topic I don't see the point in policing tags.

So.. did you all realize?

Jikook tag is full of 'ask' posts where anons continuously bother jikook accounts or insecure shippers just seek consolattion from others?

I'd really like to see cute gifs, edits etc. on this tag. Discussing something is okay but i wish it could stay on every individual's blog. Because sharing them with jikook tag will only aggravate the topic with more people involving themself with the topic/discussion -usually without even knowing what's going on.

Unless it's necessary, let's not share ask posts on jikook tag? I don't want to sound rude or offend anyone. I hope no one misunderstands. I just think keeping asks in blogs and not bringing them up into jikook tag will help all of us from unnecessary drama.

Wouldn't it be amazing?

Scrolling down jikook tag without seeing numbers of haters or insecure shippers bothering jikook accounts? Just a safe and cute place for us...

I hope you all understand the sentiment here and help each other making this place better.

I love you all :)

#also just @ folks #if I don't want to read something I just skip over it #Figured everyone else would do the same

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I hope people are not out here thinking I don't think Serendipity is Jimin and JK's special song when they both said it's one of their favorites and constantly reference it... Friends/couple/whatever the song is clearly special to them.

I think sometimes folks don't actually read what I write and instead start making assumptions and theories about what I've said. Please don't take anything from my posts beyond what I actually say in them.

This has been happening a lot and it just goes back to my point about taking things at face value and not overanalyzing things. When we overanalyze things, we start making stuff up out of nowhere and seeing what we want to see instead of the facts.

#this isn't @ anyone specific #trust I would just @ if it was

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last anon again, sorry i haven't worded my message in the best way you didn't hurt my feelings at all don't worry !! i totally understand your pov and have no problem with it, sorry if i sounded like i was being defensive. I actually have no idea what Serendipity is all about. I do personally feel it could be about jikook, i think it kinda fits, but i'm aware it's mostly speculations, like it could be about a total different story !

No worries! Even if I don’t think that way, I actually do kind of get how, with Serendipity specifically, people could feel that way. It’s not like some of the strange theories I’ve seen (see the Jikook is covering for Taekook/Jikook stuff legally married if you want to know what I mean). There’s also a lot of very weird Yoonmin theories that no one ever talk about for some reason when toxic shipping culture comes up but... 🤐

But yeah, it's all good

#no worries anon 😎 #answered #Anonymous

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not saying Serendipity is about jikook cause even tho there's some coincidences in the end we don't know but IF jikook are a couple like a lot of us suspect i think that wouldn't be surprising at all that a song is referring to them? like a prev anon said it could be a great source of inspiration cause it would be a beautiful story. it wouldn't be about a "ship", ofc rm doesn't write about ships!, but we're talking ab a potential real couple, so i don't get why it's unlikely to be ab them then?

If you think it’s about them, by all means feel free to. My post wasn’t intended to convince anyone of my POV. I just had gotten some asks about it and wanted to clarify my position. Please don’t take anything I’ve said or will say the wrong way. I don’t usually intend to hurt feelings and will make it very clear when I do In terms of your question though, I really answered it in my post. It just makes no logical sense to me for it to be written about them (willing to eat my words if one day the writers come out and say it is.) Sure it’s a beautiful sentiment but I’ve always been more of a person who tries not to analyze things beyond what I can see and hear with my own senses. Or I try to rationalize/give context to an occurrence so that things don’t get out of control. This is because, typically beyond that, we get into peoples’ fantasies of what they want to be true which is what I see a lot with things like Taekook. Not saying I haven’t slipped up and overanalyzed something to be more fantastical once or twice (I’m human, I make mistakes 😅), just that I try not to. I'm also NOT saying that’s the case with how people view Serendipity, I’m just giving my own reasons for looking at it from a logical approach rather than a “it would be cute/romantic/right of out a story book if...” approach. The latter just leaves too much guess work and seems more like someone is wishing 2 people were together rather than accepting that they may or may not be and not getting too emotionally invested either way. Plus, I’ve seen this latter way go very bad before and leave people either actively hating one of the members for no reason, forcing the issue and making members uncomfortable, or even getting so emotionally invested in 2 people they don’t know they actually get depressed when consider any prospect that what they made up in their head may not be real. And that’s scary to me   As for my use of the word “ship,” I used it there not in a condescending manner but as short for ‘relationship’. I’m not a person that makes a big deal out of that type of terminology because it’s irrelevant for my purposes with this blog

#jikook #kookmin #jk jm km #answered #Anonymous

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about serendipity i also believe its not written for jikook,(lmao i cant believe people thinks its for yoonmin , like ofcourse u can believe wt u want but why? coz yoonmin told u know i know a common phrase or yoongi's haircolour in a era so he'll be the blue mold mentioned , like seriously ?) serendipity was from love urself era n when u go through lyrics u can see similarities b/w DNA. so its not written for a ship but for their concept (meeting b/w 2 people , not a coincidence , destiny) 1

(cont) 2) the only thing with serendipity is jikook made it their song. ofcourse " im u , ur me " , jimin gifting Jk a cat lamp in a run n saying " everyone im tricolour cat " , " im u , u r me " , jk blushing in that vlive when JM sings serendipity , jk singing serendipity as fav song n all heavy flirting infront of 1000s of people etc etc. so atleast for me serendipity was not written for any ship , its another beautiful song by namjoon BUT jikook , to make us their third wheel , made it their song.

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@rachelca1 not sure if this was directed toward me but yes this is what I’m saying. In the above, I wasn’t making an argument on whether the song is their song (it totally is and anyone who tries to say it’s a group thing to always say 너는 나 나는 너 all the time is probably lying to themselves) I’m making a point that I don’t think it’s written for them. That’s 2 different things to me. In fact, I said on another post like a day ago that I think they took the song and made it their own.

Serendipity

Warning: long. Don't come into my inbox or replies just to tell me it's long. I prefer to only have a friendly dialogue about this and maybe learn something I don't know about Serendipity.

I know there's the element of RM saying he'd written it based on a friend's relationship, and people seem to/can take that in different ways.

The first way is that he was using 'based on a friend' as an excuse the same way people say 'asking for a friend' when they're really asking for themselves. The reason why I'm entertaining this is because idols who write music do this all the time. They cover for their own experiences by pretending that those experiences are someone else's. Another similar thing idols do is say that something (usually a song they wrote or a certain performance) is 'for the fans'/dedicated to the fans when really it's for their significant other. Both these things are extremely common (and in fact, if you believe any two idols are dating, it makes more sense to accept this idea than the one I'll discuss in the next paragraph.) I mention this was because RM could have totally written this song about his own experience with someone and just transposed it onto someone else. There's also the fact that RM wasn't the only or even main writer on the published version of the song, so other writers could have been writing from their experiences as well.

The second way is that he meant what he said: the song was based on a friend's relationship. Who that friend is we may never know but, many people (particularly Jikook shippers/supporters/what have you) think that this friend is Jimin and that the relationship in question is Jimin and JK. The idea being that it fits with the common narrative of Jikook's 'love story' and that the song was given to Jimin to perform. On the other hand, the "friend" could very well be Slow Rabbit himself lol since he's credited as the main writer (if I'm not mistaken) and, again, songwriters tend to write music about themselves (this falls in line with the first way of looking at things, thus making it even more plausible.)

As for what I think, I tend to fall into the first camp, and there's a couple reasons for this -

First, the first way is just so much more common than the second way that logic would just dictate that it's likely written from the songwriter's perspective and RM's using his friend as a guise. Please keep in mind that I'm not 100% on this because I'm not sure what else the writers have said about the process of writing Serendipity, I'm just going on that one statement from RM.

Second, I don't even know when Serendipity was written. You could say it was written for Love Yourself Her and thus was written in the months before the album's release, but sometimes songs written years and years ago get revamped and released on new albums. I'm not saying it wasn't written in 2017, I just don't know that it was. I'm using 2017 as a marker because that's when I noticed Jimin and JK like that.

To segue off of that point, and, this is purely speculation based on what I've seen with my eyes/heard with my ears (that is, not theories on what might have happened), Jimin and JK didn't seem too different to me until Jimin's birthday 2017/Tokyo at the very earliest (though I mainly feel like 2018 was really the time they seemed to take what seemed like a mutual crush further than I've seen with typical friendships.) Because of this, it's even harder for me to see how Serendipity could be about them. The timing just doesn't add up. I say this as no offense to anyone who thinks they've only ever been just friends and no offense to anyone who thinks they started dating in 2015. (full offense to anyone who seriously thinks they somehow got legally married in 2017 though. like how?)

Anyway, I'm curious about what other people think or if I'm missing something.