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ihavefeelingsand6 months agoText

MORNINGS ARE MINE. I HAVE SAID THIS MULTIPLE TIMES TO MY FAMILY. IF THEY WANT ME TO BE NICE THEY LEAVE ME AN HOUR IN THE MORNING WHERE IM THE ONLY ONE UP. AND THEN MY STEPBROTHER HAS THE AUDACITY TO *DRAG* HIMSELF OUT OF BED AT 5. I HATE EVERYTHING.

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ihavefeelingsand6 months agoText

letters-to-lgbt-kids:

My dear lgbt+ kids,

I see the phrase 鈥渢ouch-starved gays鈥 quite a lot on tumblr and I absolutely get that it鈥檚 a relatable joke - but here鈥檚 a serious note on that topic:

So many of us know that hunger. I鈥檓 not necessarily talking about a hunger for sex here. There鈥檚 nothing shameful about desiring a sexual relationship but it鈥檚 often more than that: a desire for emotional connection, for tenderness and gentleness, for affection.

It鈥檚 not only the fact that being openly affectionate with your partner in public can be dangerous - even a silent thought in the safety of your own bed can feel so dangerous that we try to bury it. There鈥檚 so much shame surrounding queer affection, shame that is deeply ingrained in our brains and hearts.

This desperate hunger for affection can lead to unhealthy decisions. It can make you blind to red flags and warning sings, can lead you to date and/or sleep with people who are not good for you.

Manipulative people, abusive people, they often seek out affection-starved partners. You may have heard about the manipulation technique 鈥渓ove-bombing鈥 before: drowning a person in affection in order to create dependency. They seek out people who crave love and satisfy their craving, just to gain power over them.

This letter is simply a quick reminder to be careful who you let it, even (or especially) when you鈥檙e desperate to let someone in.

You deserve to find people who feel genuine love and affection for you - and don鈥檛 just see you as easy prey.

With all my love,
Your Tumblr Mom

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ihavefeelingsand6 months agoText

i fuckign hate babysitting my girlfriend

her: i don鈥檛 wanna go out and eat with my family

me: then don鈥檛

her: i fought with my stepmom and now i feel guilty for staying home. also i wanna go out to eat because there鈥檚 no food at home

me: damn you probably shoulda worked the 鈥渘o food at home鈥 part into your pros and cons list

her: my family doesn鈥檛 care about me because they didn鈥檛 make me come

me: if they really didn鈥檛 care they wouldntve told you they were leaving

her: that鈥檚 bad parenting and it reminds me of my abusive childhood which i will now go into a detailed description of for five minutes

me: *literally can鈥檛 anymore, because yeah i care about her but it鈥檚 frustrating to deal with this shit all the time*

i feel like every time something goes wrong in her life she comes straight to me about everything (including bottled emotions that have been stored for years!!) and i鈥檓 not a fucking therapist!!! i don鈥檛 have the energy to make this shit work anymore!!!!! but i suck at saying no so i can鈥檛 stop doing this shit!!!!!!

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

being in college level classes in high school is crazy bc everyone tells you to try your hardest at everything and get a planner and manage your time

meanwhile you have no time to manage, you鈥檙e terrified you鈥檒l fail an assessment and you鈥檙e probably also juggling a job and several activities (7 if you鈥檙e me) and it鈥檚 hell on earth

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

me: *sobbing and mindlessly scrolling through tumblr*

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

this is a genuine cry for help someone please tell me to go to sleep

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

so today my brother z was literally hit by a car and he鈥檚 okay, he was in and out of the hospital in 3 hours but i was talking about it to my brother j and-

me: dude it鈥檚 crazy, i can鈥檛 even wrap my head around what it would be like to be hit by a car

j: you KNOW i had a LUNG COLLAPSE and i was in the HOSPITAL for FIVE DAYS and i looked like a HEROIN ADDICT the pain was IMMEASURABLE

like dude. that happened several years ago. z was hit five hours ago. can you put your ego aside and not be the center of attention for five goddamn seconds

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

mental-health-recovery:

You鈥檙e not reading this by accident.

Everything is going to be okay.

Breathe and remember that you鈥檝e been in this place before.

You鈥檝e been this uncomfortable, anxious and scared, and you survived.

Close your eyes and feel the universe within you making a way for you right now.

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

if only my dad realized that hours on end of homework every night was a fault of the school system and not of my supposed bad character

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

me: ugh i don鈥檛 wanna go to school it makes me sad and stressed

my girlfriend: hey at least i鈥檒l be there! :)

me to me: the fact that you will be present at school does not change the fact that the stress from classes will be insurmountable and cause a deep depression in me that will make me want to go to bed and never wake up

me: heh, i guess…

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ihavefeelingsand7 months agoText

my brother can absolutely go fuck himself

internet鈥檚 out. my younger brother T is kinda pissy about it. i run upstairs to my older brother J just to double check that unplugging the router will reset it. he gets pissed immediately like 鈥渕y internet is fine, i bet it鈥檚 just something you did to your device.鈥 no, fuck you.

now he鈥檚 storming downstairs, checks with T鈥檚 computer and concludes that his internet is down. he resets the router and goes back to the computer. thinking he has gone back upstairs, i begin venting to T about how i didn鈥檛 ask J to help, i was only checking to make sure i was doing the right thing. J comes back around the corner, pissed as ever, and goes off on me again for having talked about him behind his back. i get that i shouldn鈥檛 have, but fuck off. there was no need to explode. he gets the last say too, 鈥渨ait until people are gone before you talk about them behind their back鈥 said as he was going up the stairs.

he needs fucking therapy but has decided to 鈥渞oll with it鈥. jesus fuck. all i was asking is clarification but he needs to do everything because he鈥檚 the only one who does anything in this house. fuck off you video game addicted incel. there鈥檚 a reason you stay home all day - nobody wants to be around you because you鈥檙e a disgusting piece of shit.

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