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internallygrey · 3 years

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Good intentions are great. But good intentions do not excuse mistreatment, disrespect, and causing harm. Good intentions means that one intends to do good, and that includes taking responsibility for our actions when we make mistakes (and we all make mistakes because we’re human) and especially when our actions harm someone.

#mentalwellness #healing #mentalhealth #invalidation #you are valid #responsibility #being human #accountability #compassion #growth #awareness #self awareness #youmatter #breakthestigma #endthestigma #mentalhealthawareness

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internallygrey · 3 years

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Mental Health

To those who have high-functioning mental disorders, you are beautiful.

You are not an imposter when you are feeling less than 100, and your experiences are most definitely real and valid. You are not being inauthentic when you can't keep up that 100% all the time. You are human, and your experiences and struggles matter. You are more than your struggles, but your struggles are completely valid!❤️

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internallygrey · 3 years

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Healing

Forgive yourself for going back to the bad habits and feelings you thought were behind you. It's okay to have relapses or moments when you step back a little. You've still come so far, and healing isn't linear. It's only a few steps back compared to the many you took to get to where you are. Let yourself feel those feelings, and still hold your head up proud and tall❤️

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internallygrey · 3 years

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Self-love

Relationships of any kind take mutual effort, care and understanding. If those things aren't present, and you don't feel respected, it's okay to walk away from the places and people you've outgrown.

Not everyone will be capable of loving you the way you need to be loved, but you will always be worthy of love and good things❤️

#selflove #selfcare #selfworth #selfvalue #self validation #love yourself #mental health #mental health awareness #mental health wellness #affirmations #itsokaynottobeokay #growth #healing #youmatter #moving on #letting go #boundaries

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Growth

It is completely okay to outgrow people, and it's completely okay to surround yourself with people who are going to support you as well as help you grow. It's okay to outgrow places and things as well. Go where you can grow, heal, and be happy❤️

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Self-love

It takes a lot to stand up for yourself, regardless of the situation. If you stood up for yourself, I'm proud of you! You deserve to take up space and have your voice be heard❤️

#selflove #selfcare #standing up for myself #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mental health wellness #mentalwellness #self validation #selfworth #affirmations #growth #healing #youmatter #boundaries #communication

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internallygrey · 4 years

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This is still a learning process for me, but I can see that I've made a lot of progress. I'm learning more and more about myself each day, and I'm coming to love her more and more.

Sometimes I feel myself falling back, but the setbacks are shorter-lived than before, and I feel more confident in my ability to keep going and keep being myself. For that, I'm grateful.

Selfcare

This is totally still a process because I still struggle with a lot but that's okay. I'm learning to fall in love with my own opinions, my own interests, and myself. This journey to slowly finding my self worth and embrace it has become really enlightening.

I'm looking back and seeing all the steps I've taken. I'm looking back and I can see such a large gap between how I felt then and now. I'm making progress and that's enough to make me happy❤️

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Healing

If you walked away from people and places that were no longer healthy for you, even when it was difficult, consider it a win. It might still be difficult. Healing is a messy path. But life grows again after fires, and the sun shines again after a storm. I'm proud of you and I hope you become proud of yourself, too!

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Boundaries

If you've set boundaries and have already communicated them with someone but you still feel unsafe around them and their actions, it's okay to choose you. Their behavioral response is their own. You don't deserve that and it's not your fault. Your safety and wellbeing is just as important. What matters is you tried your best❤️

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Crying is not a sign of weakness. Showing your emotions is not a sign of weakness. In a society that wants people to bottle up their emotions and constantly look presentable, crying is a sign of strength.

It's powerful. It's a war cry. It's an act of self-love. It's the release of negative feelings in the most natural way.

To cry is to be human.

Now I had seen the grief of the two strongest people I knew. And somehow, crying made them seem even stronger to me. It was better to cry than to suck it up and go around conjuring hate in your heart.

— Silas House, Eli the Good

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Boundaries

It's okay to choose yourself. Don't let people force you to be okay with their harmful behavior. You can understand where someone is coming from and still hold them accountable. It is an act of self-love and in the best scenario, both parties will grow.

#selfcare #selflove #mental health #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentalwellness #boundaries #accountability #toxic #trauma #compassion #itsokaynottobeokay #understanding #communication #kindness #growth #healing

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Boundaries

Some people won't appreciate what you do for them. Some people won't meet you at the same energy. Don't let that stop you from being you. You can be kind, loving and supportive of others, and still keep some space between you and some others. Your boundaries matter.

#boundaries #self love #self care #kindness #compassion #mental health #you matter #mentalhealthawareness #emotionalhealth #breakthestigma #endthestigma #stopthestigma #yourenotalone #endstigma #stigmafree #itsokaytotalk #itsokaynottobeokay #trauma

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internallygrey · 4 years

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I have seen zero people talking about this on Tumblr so it's time for me to change that.

OTOME FANS ON TWITTER ARE MAD AT AKSYS GAMES.

Why, you ask?

BECAUSE PLAYERS HAVE COMPILED A LIST OF +600 ERRORS FOUND IN COLLAR X MALICE UNLIMITED AND TO THIS DAY AKSYS GAMES HAS STAYED SILENT ABOUT IT.

People have been bringing their attention to this list (you can find the excel listing all the errors with screenshots on Twitter) since day 1 and even sent it to their email for days until Aksys answered some of them saying that they will work on a patch.

That's it. No apology to the people who spent 50$ on the game, no public announcement, no tweets or posts talking about it. We are currently spamming them to announce the patch publicly so that they can't act as if it was never promised to us.

But they still promote the game. That, and the Piofiore preorders. And people comment on those preorder announcements saying they won't buy the game because of the CxMU issue.

CxMU was released in Europe after it was released in USA, and I left a comment in one of Aksys Europe Store's tweets saying that they had the nerve to promote the release of something with 0 quality. And they answered that all complains regarding that should go to Aksys Games USA, that they only sell the games in Europe.

And bear in mind that this has happened before. Many times. Just look for posts talking about the localisation of Norn9 from years ago.

And they even release ports with the same errors as the original release (CxM and C:R Switch ports of PSVita localisations).

CONCLUSION: IF YOU ARE PLANNING ON BUYING CXMU, PIOFIORE, CAFE ENCHANTE OR ANY FUTURE OTOME RELEASES FROM AKSYS GAMES, BEAR IN MIND YOU MIGHT SPEND 50$ ON THIS:

Screenshot of one of the errors listed in the Excel compilation, originally uploaded by @APPLEJUSTICE on Twitter. Yes, THAT WHOLE SENTENCE IN RED is written EXACTLY LIKE THAT IN THE GAME. A game that is 50$.

Please reblog so that people on Tumblr know what's going on!!!

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Self-love

It hurts when they aren't open to listening to/understanding what you have to say, but it's not your fault that they're doing that. It hurts but not everyone deserves your explanation, especially if they aren't open to it. You don't need their validation, you can have yours❤️

#self love #self care #communication #letting go #self validation #validation #moving on #growth #mental health #loveyourself

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Girls: Wear What Makes You Happy

I can wear a tank top on a hot day and not be considered a "slut." If wearing a tank top makes me happy, I'll wear it. Slutshaming for showing some shoulder and arms is not okay. Assuming that because someone wears a tank top, they're trying to seem more sexually appealing is harmful thinking. And to say it's because I'm "a girl" is all the more harmful.

Stop shaming girls and their bodies when what they're wearing is very much harmless.

#beautiful girls #womenempowerment #beautiful women #style #clothes #no means no #unlearn #social standards #selfworth #self love #self care #self esteem

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Selfcare

This is totally still a process because I still struggle with a lot but that's okay. I'm learning to fall in love with my own opinions, my own interests, and myself. This journey to slowly finding my self worth and embrace it has become really enlightening.

I'm looking back and seeing all the steps I've taken. I'm looking back and I can see such a large gap between how I felt then and now. I'm making progress and that's enough to make me happy❤️

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internallygrey · 4 years

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Healing

Sometimes I'll share a great moment with a friend and I'll think to myself, "do I really deserve this?" because of all the times I was misled. And of course I do. Everyone deserves to be happy. But I'll still cry bittersweet tears. Bitter because I'm still healing. Sweet because I'm healing.

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