I haven’t seen any posts about this, but to the intersex people who identify as a gender they were not assigned at birth but consider themselves cis: you are COMPLETELY VALID in doing so.
AFAB intersex people who identify as cis men, you are valid.
AMAB intersex people who identify as cis women, you are valid.
Intersex people whose gender identities, regardless of assignment, don’t make sense to perisex people, you are all so valid and don’t need to explain yourselves.
It's common for trans and nonbinary people to feel like they're "faking it". Let me assure you, you are NOT faking anything. You would never fake something that makes your life harder. Even if your gender identity changes over time, that doesn't mean that your feelings aren't real or weren't ever real. You aren't faking anything by being yourself.
you are all incredible. your voice is lovely, and whether or not you want to change it is a personal choice that does not affect the validity of your gender. you do not have a “man’s voice”. no matter how deep your voice is, if you are a woman, you have a woman’s voice. and the same goes for any other gender.
-signed, a trans woman who doesn’t see this kind of positivity nearly often enough
reminder that trans people can be fat. trans people can like being fat. trans people can be confident and fat. trans people dont have to lose weight to pass or be more attractive.
if you're trans and fat i love you, our bodies are stunning, we dont have to conform to skinny people's standards. fat trans people are incredible and deserve the world.
i love my fat trans body.
thin people may reblog but dont say anything. transmeds, transphobes, and fatphobes DNI.
Alloaro people of color deserve much love & respect ❤️ you are not less worthy of existing than anyone else ❤️ you are a good part of this world ❤️ you are not “bad representation,” you are a person, I am glad you are learning more about yourself. You are worthy of care & support ❤️
high school is such a small part of your life. there’s so much more outside of it. whatever seems important now, you won’t even remember in five years. being a teenager is so hard, but there’s so much more than what you experience as a teenager. they aren’t the “best years of your life”. those are yet to come. you have a future away from whatever hardship you’re experiencing currently.
from a fellow neurodiverse & nonbinary & prospective convert lesbian:
happy lesbian lovers day! 💖
[ ID: The “I wish all…” Bugs Bunny meme reading: I wish all black lesbians, trans lesbians, asian lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, jewish lesbians, he/him lesbians, muslim lesbians, fat lesbians, neurodiverse lesbians, and disabled lesbians a very pleasant and safe lesbian visibility day. ]
Man is asked if he knows that his girlfriend is transgender. His passionate answer goes viral.
Jade Mcfarlane and her boyfriend, Tyler, responded to a commenter over at tiktok who suggested Mcfarlene’s boyfriend would have left Jade if he knew she was trans.
Jade decided to post Tyler’s wonderful response to the transphobic comments.
Tyler says:
“First off, I want to say trans women are real women. They’re completely valid in their femininity. And the fact that people think that just because someone’s trans and I found out — or anyone found out that their significant other is trans — that [this] would take away or diminish the love they have for them, [it’s] completely disgusting to me.”
Indy100 has more.
Video by jaydemcfarlane on tiktok. Photo from Instagram.
Dear trans women who don’t wear/aren’t good at makeup. It’s ok. Your ability to put some shiny dirt on your face doesn’t diminish your femininity. You are a beautiful girl, whether you can perfectly wing your eyeliner or still haven’t figured out how to properly apply blush.
i don’t know who needs to hear this, but here it goes: you don’t have to repeatedly and harshly punish yourself for every little thing you think you do wrong. you don’t have to diminish or eliminate your worth and dignity in order to become a better person and acknowledge your mistakes. please forgive yourself, please keep going and please, be flawed! perfection is unattainable.
Dark skinned Asian women deserve to be respected, deserve to feel loved and feel beautiful. You are worth so much, and your skin color doesn’t make you worth any less than anyone else.