jewels1995

[jewels1995]

I normalize failure because that’s what makes me stronger

I learn to accept what’s not meant to be, because something greater is coming my way.

I learned loving yourself is the only way you’ll be happy in life.

I learned that my toughest battles aren’t my enemy, they make me not break me.

Inner peace, sanity, and privacy must always be protected don’t allow anyone to ruin those three things, don’t disrespect yourself.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

I’m happy that strangers get to see my writing idk who comes across it when I hashtag or people who keep scrolling because it’s just another post.

But it’s so therapeutic it makes me happy when at least one person notes my writing or run into my page.

So if you are one of those people thank you means a lot. Hopefully I can help at least a few people with my writing. I don’t just force myself to sit there and write, I write more in the moment.

I think that’s what makes me happy the most helping others.

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[jewels1995]

Your inner peace, sanity, and privacy must always remain sacred. If anyone ruins those three things. You are disrespecting yourself.

You see..

having that respect for yourself allows happiness within yourself. Don’t allow anyone or anything get in the way of any of those three. If all three of those are ruined you are allowing manipulation, unhappiness, and worthlessness in your life. It takes a strong individual like yourself to say enough is enough.

Don’t just preach about it or push it to aside, but actually practice what you preach. What they don’t know can’t hurt you, what they can’t control won’t hurt you. Why? Because once you master those three things nobody, absolutely nobody will fuck around with you. You aren’t fucking weak, you aren’t a puppet. Stay true to yourself and don’t allow anyone to ruin what is yours and nobody else’s.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

If the same energy isn’t being reciprocated it’s called manipulation

Read the following info to see what the fuck it means.

( MANIPULATION: to manage or influence skillfully, especially in an unfair manner: to manipulate people's feelings.)

(RECIPROCATE: to give back usually in kind or in quantity," reciprocate implies a mutual or equivalent exchange or a paying back of what one has received.)

Now that I put the fucking example of MANIPULATION & RECIPROCATE let’s get to the point.

If someone/something finds your breaking point. Congratulations you are fucked. Why are you allowing this? “I DON’T KNOW THIS AND THAT.” “I DON’T KNOW WHY I LET THIS PERSON DO THIS TO ME.”

bullshit.. I call bullshit do you hear yourself? You let the person do this to you because 1. YOU FUCKING ALLOW IT. 2. YOU ARE WAY TO COMFORTABLE TO SAY ANYTHING. 3. YOU NEED TO LEARN HOW THE FUCK TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.

You allow yourself to not receive the same energy or anything because you are so used to putting yourself down and putting effort beyond fucking words. You aren’t comfortable with yourself to say enough is enough. You aren’t reassuring yourself anything.

Why is that person/ situation enjoying your breaking point? BECAUSE YOU ALLOW IT AND IT’LL CONTINUE BEING THAT WAY BECAUSE THAT SITUATION OR PERSON KNOWS HOW TO MAKE OR BREAK YOU.

It’s never okay for YOU to put 110% and they put 0% I feel like more people need to realize mental abuse is real. It is fucking real and I am here to put it out there.

YOU GUYS OFTEN HEAR “YOU KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO PUSH MY BUTTONS.” Or “YOU ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY.” yeah... because that person/situation is literally fucking with your sanity. It’s not only fucking with your sanity but also controlling the way you feel. And somehow you get viewed as crazy and find yourself apologizing for the way you acted.

NEVER I REPEAT NEVER FUCKING APOLOGIZE FOR EXPLAINING HOW YOU FEEL. THE WAY YOU FEEL NOW SHOULD BE A WAKE UP CALL. DONT LET ANYONE MENTALLY ABUSE YOU, FUCK WITH YOUR SANITY OR CALL YOU CRAZY.

I know it’ll seem and feel hard to let go. But stop doing this to yourself. You have a choice every single day. Do it and let go. NEVER LOOK BACK

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[jewels1995]

YOUR MIND IS YOUR BIGGEST CRITIC. . . NO ONE FUCKING ELSE BUT YOU

Our minds can often kill us and make decisions that aren’t worth it. impulsive ones too of course. Don’t beat yourself over it. Sometimes we are often our biggest critic and shit talker within ourselves because only you know you best for you. You need to fucking read that again “ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU.”

Imagine repeating the same fucking problem you have or decision you made over and over? It’ll fuck with your head. Instead of thinking “WHAT CAN I DO BETTER NEXT TIME?” Or “HOW CAN I MAKE BETTER DECISIONS?”

Would you rather have the easy way out? Or make the better decisions for yourself. Can’t you see? You are better than what you think others view of you. Sometimes you have to cut the bullshit and discipline yourself. Pep talk yourself and say “LISTEN I AM HERE TODAY TO TRY AND BE BETTER FOR MYSELF, MAKE BETTER DECISIONS FOR MYSELF BECAUSE I CAN FUCKING DO THIS.”

Instead of finding faults within yourself. Accept the fact you fucked up sorry not sorry to say this but YOU FUCKED UP. Allow yourself to understand and acknowledged YOU messed up because of a certain choice you made. YOU made that impulsive decision. YOU are the only one in control.

Sometimes you are the problem and you need to find it, so you can fix it and accept yourself because you are capable of so fucking much. I feel like once you understand yourself better, things actually get fucking better. But I guess you’ll never know unless you try.. are you fucking ready to try? Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You got this don’t just preach... but practice what you preach.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

You ever have those days where nothing happened to you.

Absolutely nothing..

You just have zero motivation?

Zero energy

Zero explanation where you just don’t feel like doing absolutely fucking anything?

You know what? You don’t need to explain yourself to fucking anyone.

Why? Because you are allowed to have those days. Sometimes it’s okay not to be okay. Don’t doubt yourself, don’t assume you are a failure. And absolutely don’t fucking think anything is wrong with you because you are feeling some type of way.

Listen to me. IT’S OKAY NOT TO FEEL OKAY SOMETIMES. START TELLING YOURSELF EVERYTHING IS OKAY WITH ME. TODAY IS JUST NOT MY DAY BUT I AM HERE TRYING. I AM HERE TODAY TO REMIND MYSELF, NOBODY ELSE THAT TODAY IS ABOUT ME EVEN IF I DON’T HAVE ENERGY FOR SHIT.

Tomorrow is a new day. how I feel today is how fucking amazing I’ll feel tomorrow it’s a pre-fucking boost to greatness and I am fucking great just not today. BUT FUCKING TOMORROW!

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

Acceptance

I think the hardest pill to swallow is accepting.

Sometimes you don’t have control over situations you wish went different or you could change.

What you can control is what you will do next time to make a certain situation different, and make better decisions.

I think if we all had our shit together we’d have a perfect world. But what you don’t realize is, you don’t have to worry about the whole fucking world. You need to realize you have your own journey and path and the only world you need to worry about it yours.

What may not seem perfect is actually perfect for you, it may not seem like it right away but it’ll in some way shape who you’ll be. Don’t ever compare yourself to anyone, absolutely fucking no one. It doesn’t make you better it’ll only make you feel like you need to accomplish shit quicker which is motivation but move at your own paste, you’ll get there.

If you are reading this

Accept the fact that you will accomplish what you want. Accept that who you are today is okay, you are still growing. Accept the fact that being yourself is the most perfect thing.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

CHANGES... IT GOES A LITTLE SOMETHING LIKE THIS.

Ask yourself why are you in the same position and keep telling yourself things will change?

Why do you even bother re-posting quotes other people post and caption it “preach” and go on with the same negativity you got in your life?

Practice what you preach even if you start off small, I’m telling you it’ll be so worth it! Who gives a fuck about what people think. Only care about what you think! Piss people off! Do something you’ve never even imagined doing! Find yourself and explore options. Life is so fucking beautiful, to even waste it on things and people who aren’t going to hold your hand when you are way the fuck down. Those people won’t be there but you will.

Want to know why? Because only when you have it good they are there. But when shit goes bad? Where are they at? That’s why you have to do it for yourself and nobody else.

YOU ARE A BADASS.

YOU ARE WORTH IT.

YOU CAN DO IT.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

I’m my biggest critic, biggest competitor. It’s me against me and nobody else.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

BREAKING POINT

We all have our breaking point. It doesn’t mean you are overly sensitive so don’t allow anyone to tell you otherwise. They don’t know how you feel ONLY YOU DO.

A breaking point should be viewed as “I’ve had fucking enough!”

I AM BEYOND BOTHERED BY IT

I AM DONE WITH THIS SITUATION

I AM DONE.

Don’t allow the breaking point to break you or continue to let it break you. YOU FUCKING BREAK IT. CONTROL IT. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.

If someone or something is constantly bothering you and you allow it to keep bothering you, you are allowing that breaking point control you.

Are you really done? Or are you going to continue to let whatever is breaking you , break you? We often don’t realize our breaking point is the main core of the way we reflect ourselves.

They say “Self control is the key.” But not everyone is the same so not everyone can relate. You need to be one strong mother fucker to control yourself and not allow something/someone to hit your breaking point. Are you ready to be in control? I THINK THE FUCK YES YOU ARE.

REMEMBER IF YOU REACH YOUR BREAKING POINT DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT QUESTION YOURSELF. YOU ARE NOT CRAZY. YOU ARE NOT OVERLY SENSITIVE. YOU ARE NON OF THOSE THINGS.

You are just simply someone who doesn’t need to explain themselves just let go of what is hitting your breaking point.

Thank me later...

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

DO YOU EVER SEE A PATTERN OF UNHAPPINESS? BUT YOU ARE SO USED TO THE SAME ROUTINE?

You decide not to change the routine because you aren’t used to good things happening in your life. You feel as if it’s all you know. The hardest part for you is when you try new things, and it tends to set you back and realize you are allowing unhappiness into your cycle and daily routine. There is no-one to blame but yourself correct? Because you tell yourself that right? The pattern or situation you may feel every time you feel that way feels heavy on you more than you realize. The self doubt begins and you start telling yourself “Can things get any worse?”

Well yess things can get worst...

Even after all that negative thinking about yourself the worst parts you think about yourself, start to become the best parts. It always begins with you and ends with you never forget that.

A cycle of unhappiness can be a never ending cycle if you allow certain things in your life, start to limit the worst things even if you just try. No matter how fucking hard it is. You need to control what is making you unhappy, don’t let it control you. BECAUSE YOU CONTROL IT! THAT FUCKING PATTERN OF UNHAPPINESS NEEDS TO BE BROKEN BECAUSE IT’S NOT YOU AND IT NEVER WILL BE YOU.

Change the routine.. Did you forget who the fuck you are? Did you forget how much potential you have to be happy. what is stopping you? YOU ARE IN CONTROL. YOU ARE IN FUCKING CONTROL JUST INCASE YOU NEEDED TO READ THAT AGAIN. I AM GOING TO STOP FEELING SORRY FOR MYSELF AND I NEED TO TELL MYSELF “I AM HERE TODAY, TOMORROW AND EVERYDAY TRYING.”

If you want it bad.. if you want to be happy so bad and want to leave unhappiness behind you. TRY.. TRY.. TRY!!! Go out and get it don’t let this just motivate you, if you want this so bad for yourself allow it and go out and get it!

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[jewels1995]

Once you claim your inner peace and your conscious is clear..

You finally succeed or accomplished something huge for yourself. Have yourself together, life is just going great. Just the way you’ve always wanted ...be prepared.

You will be attacked. People will feel entitled to what you’ve accomplished. They’ll never know the hard work you’ve put into yourself and what you love to do.

It’s okay to distance yourself from anyone. Some will understand why you did it and others will assume you “switched up.” Because you decided to prioritize something for yourself.

DON’T EVER FEEL LIKE YOU OWE ANYONE AN EXPLANATION FOR DOING WHAT IS BEST FOR YOU. YOU REMAIN YOU AND NEVER FORGET TO BE BERY OBSERVANT OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS. IF SOMETHING OR SOMEONE DOESN’T BENEFIT YOU, LET GO AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO.

I AM PROUD OF YOU. BE PROUD OF YOURSELF.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

I really want to go on a safari tour in Africa and go to France.

To see both amazing environments, I think it would be an ideal 26th birthday present coming up.

But... I’m afraid of airplanes. I always think about the worst case scenarios, it’s crazy how I freak out even when the fasten your seatbelt light comes on. It’s always been that way and I’m not sure why. I’m from California imagine a 17 hour flight to Africa and an 11 hour flight to France?

I really need to get out of my travel comfort zone and face my fears. I’m ready and hopefully I can travel soon. drinking coffee on a rooftop watching the Eiffel Tower at night, p.s I don’t even drink coffee but when I think of France I think coffee for some odd reason. Also take a glimpse of beauty watching the lions, giraffes and more in Africa sounds dreamy. It’s a must before I leave this earth one day. Ugh... if only we could be at our favorite places in a blink of an eye.

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[jewels1995]

LOSING YOURSELF / COMFORT ZONE

I believe.. actually I fucking know losing yourself is the worst.

Sometimes we lose ourselves without even realizing. Repeating the same cycle, it turns into our worst comfort zone.

Our comfort zone can either be the best or worst. Sometimes our comfort zone doesn’t allow us to give our full potential to a project you want to finish or accomplish a goal you have.

Don’t allow yourself to repeat the same cycle, get the fuck out of your comfort zone and find what your purpose is. Even if you just try.

NOTHING I REPEAT NOTHING SHOULD SCARE YOU MORE THAN LOSING YOURSELF BECAUSE WITHOUT BEING YOU. THERE’S NO PURPOSE. YOU NEED TO FIND IT. CLAIM IT FOR YOURSELF. FIND THAT COMFORT ZONE THAT IS WORTH IT. BECAUSE YOU ARE WORTH IT.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

WHY ME?

To you from why: certain things happen to you because I know you can handle it, and capable of so much more.

Sometimes we often ask ourselves when bad things happen. “Why me?”

It may seem very frustrating, you also start to doubt yourself. It drives you to stop believing in yourself.

But it’s YOU. It’s always been you and always will be. It’s you because it’ll make you stronger, doesn’t seem that way right away but sooner or later you’ll understand.

We often put ourselves in situations that aren’t the best ones. What do you expect? Asking yourself “why me?” You put yourself in those situations is why.

There are situations where we know aren’t going to have a good outcome, and situations we aren’t in control of.

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[jewels1995]

Stop forcing connections with someone who isn’t ready or on the same page you are

Because you care a little too much or maybe because you are a little “too nice.” STOP HAVING THAT MINDSET.

Stop allowing yourself to be manipulated into believing that “things will be different this time.”

“MAYBE IF I... WHAT IF THIS TIME.” Is complete bullshit.

You can easily manipulate yourself and that’s not okay. You need a level of connection you deserve don’t settle for something that has no worth.

-Jewels1995

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[jewels1995]

Be selfish

Today

Tomorrow and always.

Once you learn to be selfish nobody and I mean absolutely no fucking one will step allover you.

Give yourself that opportunity you deserve without any hesitations.

Don’t be afraid to get yourself out of a situation with something or someone. If you are afraid of it, I think it’s fucking time to get out your comfort zone and say “NO.” I AM LEAVING THIS TODAY, NOT TOMORROW.. TODAY.

You are entitled to your own life nobody else. Nobody can stop you so keep going. Keep fucking going and don’t stop.

-Jewels1995

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