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[kachulein]

i think we should remind musicians they can absolutely make up little stories for their songs btw. it doesn’t have to be about them at all. you can invent a guy and put him in situations to music. time honoured tradition in fact.

#q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

flip the rock to see what’s under it!

🌾🌷🌾🌷🌾🪨🌾🌷🌾🌷🌾

(make sure you put it back after, don’t want to disturb the wildlife.)

#this is so cute #<333 #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

Grumble grumble…

#oh fleiss kein preis #is something I'd say in my language in response to this😅 #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

I missed ALL of them omg. Can I join in for 4/21/24, 42124, palindrome day?

oh shit, it's 3/21/23, 32123, palindrome day

#q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

C o n g r a t s O n Y o u r T h e s i s ! I ' v e B e e n W e l l ~ J u s t T i r e d A L o t F r o m M y S t u d i e s H a h a T h a n k Y o u ~ I t I s G o o d T o B e B a c k H o m e O n T h i s B l o g ^ - ^

Aww thank you so much and I'm very happy to read you consider this blog your home!!🫶🏻 I'm glad you've been well although I also understand how stressful studying can be. May I ask what you're majoring in? :) I wish you good luck with your studies!!^-^

#ask #lovely anonies💕 #gay for jeongin anon

[kachulein]

Y a y y y y y ^ 2 Y o u S t i l l R e m e m b e r < 3 H o w H a v e Y o u B e e n ? ~

Of course, I do!! It's always been a pleasure talking to you. I've been okay, lots of things have happened, there were many ups and downs but I've finished and handed in my bachelor's thesis earlier this month and will be able to graduate uni this summer if I pass all of my exams. :) What about you?

#ask #lovely anonies💕 #gay for jeongin anon

[kachulein]

above all else a trans woman is a person. above all else a trans women is a woman who goes to the same grocery store as you and buys fruits in the same grocery cart as you and goes home and eats her dinner the same as you. above all else a trans woman is a woman who dresses like you do and talks the same way you do. above all else a trans woman is a woman who wants to be cared about the same way you want to be cared about and a trans woman is a woman who makes friends the same way you make friends. above all else you should care about trans women because they are people. treat her as such.

#this!!! #i will never understand why people are so keen on separation (of any sort) #for me people are just people #we're all human beings after all and everyone deserves to be treated with respect #idk why that's so hard for others #q: daydreaming✨️

[kachulein]

I ' m A l i v e H e h e S o r r y F o r G o i n g I f I ' m S t i l l R e m e m b e r e d H e r e ^ - ^

OH MY GOD GAY FOR JEONGIN ANON OF COURSE I STILL REMEMBER YOU🥺

I'm so happy to hear from you again!! I hope you're doing well~🥺

#lovely anonies💕 #gay for jeongin anon #ask

[kachulein]

Why I Prefer To Text Instead Of Talking

I don't have to think about body language

It allows for information processing time

If I'm confused by language, I can fact check

If I'm feeling overwhelmed, I don't have to reply

I feel less judged for how I communicate

I can organise my thoughts more easily

I feel more in control of what I am trying to say

Littlepuddins.ie

#yes!! #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

Here's a comic I made a few years ago, explaining autistic meltdowns and shutdowns in detail! They can be pretty different to what you might expect- I didnt even realise I was experiencing them for years. I thought they were panic attacks that just happened to last much longer than an average person's, or that I was very sensitive- newsflash, it was actually autism lol

#very helpful!! #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

#honestly never understood and will never understand why different generations are fighting with each other #as a gen z i don't have anything against millenials #and i won't let anyone bully me into generalising and disliking a whole group of people #just because some idiots make up problems to fight about #(i'm mainly talking about lighthearted stuff like the whole skinny jeans vs loose jeans etc. arguments) #q: daydreaming💫

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#gosh i hate that every feminist movement has a group of women that are terfs #this is not what true feminism is about #yall did not understand the assignment #but apart from the transphobia i guess i can understand why their movement is so... dare i say 'extreme' #like i'm also a feminist but i don't hate men and i don't want to generalise all men as bad #generalisations like that won't bring us further or unite us - they only divide even more #and i know that a lot of men also generalise women but i don't want to stoop to that level #differentiation is important imo #but anyway #i can understand why they created 4B because when you're living in a society in which you are oppressed to that extent #it's imo not unreasonable to respond with extreme measures #something more laidback like my mindset on all of this is easier lived out in my country than in korea #(or so i suppose at least based on what i've read.. i've never been there to experience it first-hand ofc) #(but the numbers - such as the gender pay gap and domestic violence and sexual crimes rates etc. speak for themselves) #so yeah. #i hope that they can achieve something with this movement or with other feminist movements that may exist in south korea #because equality is so important #(also kinda raging at those men who brought up the argument with the military service) #(that's the same argument some of the men bring up in our country as well whenever we talk about a feminism and equality) #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

YANGYANG + THE TANK TOP // ON MY YOUTH JACKET BEHIND PT. 2

#aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh #liu yangyang #<333 #wayv #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

Roses are red, that much is true, but violets are purple, not fucking blue.

#i love this #but yeah it was so funny to find out that the colour blue used to be 'unknown' #we knew that homer compared the sea with wine but i still wonder what they said about the sky #i think i read it somewhere but i forgot #it's just a funny concept to think that they didn't have a name for blue yet #bc the colour doesn't occur as much in nature as others #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

I don't know the person who said this but I once read in a youtube comment that a girl was about to end her life but a suicide prevention ad came on the radio right at that moment. She called and the woman talking to her was very reassuring. She also told her something that helped her push through. She told the girl to wait another 24 hours and in every hour, she should try to find one good thing (like feeling the sunshine on your skin, playing with your pet, whatever small happiness there could be) and write that down. Then, when the 24 hours were up, look at the list of things worth living for and do it again the next day. The girl, now woman, said she's been doing this for years and is now married with children and living a happier life.

As someone who has been living with severe suicidal ideation my entire life I wanna tell you all something, you don’t have to stay alive for yourself. People will say it’s a bad idea to live for external things because they’re temporary, and it’s true living for yourself is ideal but if you’re not to that point yet that’s ok too. 

I’ve lived for my dog for the past 4 years, before that I lived for my snakes, before that I lived for my cat. You can live for whatever needs you and whatever matters to you. Live for your best friend, live for your plants, live for your pets, live for your animal crossing town. Live for whatever keeps you alive and the day will come when you can live for yourself.

#i also agree that you don't need to live for yourself if you can't #it doesn't matter what keeps you going the important thing is that it is helping you push through #i've been living with suicidal ideation since i was 13 years old and most days i have to fight these thoughts #it's hard to live for myself because i don't want to be here and i don't want to be alive but i'm here now #even though my anxious ambivalent attachment makes it hard for me to believe that anyone really cares about me #(major trust issues and such) #i want to try to believe what friends have told me and that they truly would miss me if i were gone #so i keep telling myself that i don't want to hurt the people who care about me #anxiety/fear of death also helps but fears can be worked through so it shouldn't be my only lifeline #i also try to cling onto the hope that life indeed can get better #only because i've struggled until now doesn't mean it can't get better #and wouldn't it be sad if i weren't there anymore to experience better days? #my favourite groups and the content they're releasing helps too! i can tell myself that i need to keep going so i can see them live someday #i can say i need to keep going because i don't want to be away from my two cats that i love vvv much #just take a moment to think; think about the things and people you love; your interests and/or hobbies #think about all the things that could make life worth living for you #it may be raining right now but the sun will shine again #maybe not tomorrow or next week but the sun is still there; hiding behind the clouds and ready to come back #keep hoping for change and for better days and distance yourself from the things that drag you down #kachu rambles #q: daydreaming💫

[kachulein]

You can only reblog this today.

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240303 Yeonjun’s Tweet

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#he's literally so cute and pretty i'm gonna SCREAM #choi yeonjun #tomorrow x together #q: daydreaming💫