Holywell Cemetery, Oxford, UK (November 2020)
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so so tired of people saying “if x was actually traumatized then they wouldn’t do y”
genuinely. shut the fuck up. trauma survivors have so many different responses to what they’ve experienced. enjoying BDSM does not invalidate sexual trauma. enjoying religious practices does not invalidate religious trauma. enjoying spending time with family members does not invalidate familial trauma. holy shit I can’t believe I have to explain this to people???
for some people it’s… literally a coping mechanism.
I am so angry
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poem i wrote a while ago about growing up with trauma.
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