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kirasgettingreckless · 8 months
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THE PERSON WHO PREVIOUSLY OWNED THIS ACCOUNT WAS AN ABUSER. They have moved to new accounts which is why I was able to secure this username to make this post.
PLEASE GET IN CONTACT IF YOU HAVE ALSO BEEN ABUSED BY THIS USER, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
They will have smeared you and destroyed your public image by lying about you to people and then playing the victim IMMEDIATELY any time their own actions are questioned. Please see DARVO for an exact roadmap of their tactics.
Being abused does not give them the right to abuse other people.
Also if you have dated any of their "alters" then I have some very bad news for you. We witnessed them move from singlet to "system" and then use this alleged system to manipulate and abuse some VERY vulnerable people and real systems.
The previous owner of this account almost exclusively used aliases and changed their gender and sexuality regularly to manipulate their latest targets.
This person has been caught inventing stories of abuse so that they can play the victim, and they have lied about sexual abuse. As far as I understand this was done because they were bored.
They have even pretended to be other people using alt accounts to mess with their victims, to make their victims hate people and think they are hated when in reality they are not. It is part of the abusers isolation tactics.
Friends of this person, please open your damn eyes. They're not being constantly victimized by everyone around them, they're fucking abusing people then smearing them and playing the victim first. If something seems off to you then please PLEASE pay attention to the red flags and maybe you can save yourself some of the pain that they have put us and many others through.
Do you not think it's strange how they move from partner to partner with less than no time in between them? Their next victim is already won over by the time the old victim is thrown away. The old victim is left miserable and abused, and wondering what they did wrong and why nothing was good enough. The old victim has now become the new "worst thing" to happen in the abuser's life, which the abuser will exaggerate and lie about to farm pity from their next victims so that the abuser can establish their position as the victim so that they cannot be held accountable for anything they do. This is how they treat people they claim to love. If you thought it's strange how they keep getting into abusive relationships… they're not. Their victims are normal people when they meets them, the same as you or I. Everything is exaggerated so that people will continue feeding them the attention they crave. If you know this person and you think this post is full of lies then please test them, talk to their exes. You will find they are nothing like the abuser said they were, and they cannot resist the urge to farm pity so they will have told you things. Nothing they say can be taken at face value. They want you to beg and plead with them, they want you to think they can be saved so you will keep pouring your care and affection into them, and then when they are bored of you they will turn on you next.
Again, being abused does not give someone the right to abuse others. Personal responsibility is still a thing, no matter how bad you claim your home life is.
If you are friends with this person and their other friends are weird around you then it means you also have likely already been smeared and lied about. Be careful everyone, nobody deserves to get punished for liking or loving someone in their life.
The tags may seem random but these are where the person in question used to post and hang out the most. If you recognize the account name then this post is for you.
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