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My Ways of Becoming a Responsible Adult

"Debes accipere ab homine susceptorum. Tu non fortuna mutata est in tempore, aut ventus, sed potest mutare te."

`Stop complaining and start working

-If you’re in a situation that made you felt hopeless, never play as a victim that is left with no choice instead, start thinking wider and ask yourself about the importance of the outcome, the experience and also the gift of knowledge after. There is 101 ways to start a fire but there is no way to laziness. Everything happens for a reason, a blessing or a lesson.

 `Stop Blaming other people

-Everything is meant to be. Things are sent to us to awaken us and to lead us to what is right. There is no person that should be blame to what we have experience in life. They may be one of the reasons why it happened but it is still dependent to our choice.

 `Take charge to our thoughts, Emotions and Words

-It is one step move to humankind but a major leap in our life. It has a huge contribution to help us to be responsible. We take responsibilities to what we think, what we feel and what we say and it develops maturity and a way to acknowledge our mistakes.

 `Saying “no” when needed

-Its not bad to turn down request and favor if you are being abused. Helping is not bad but parasitism is. Saying no is helpful to ourselves and the person who needed our help. He/She may overcome and will go out to his shell when he knows that no one can help him. The person needs to be independent because it is what he needs. Saying no is not bad you just wanted to let the person grow and stand on his own.

 `Budgeting

-It is essential how to budget your resource. When it’s time to live on your own it helps a lot as you already know how to distribute your resources fairly which is beneficial to us to survive for a living, lastly

`Make yourself happy

-It is the best way to repay yourself to the things that you’ve worked hard for. Treating yourself and living to the fullest is what satisfy us and made us realize that hardships are nothing compared to the joy it made after.

 It is best to start being responsible since you’re still young. What you learn when you are a kid will develop and that leads you to do what is right resulting to a responsible adult.

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 “MY SIGNIFICANT OTHER: Dear Significant Other”

"Dilige hominum hospites, vestra relationes cum familia et amicis".

Growing with you by my side is very important to me. You are my savior in my darkest day. My smile provider everyday. I just wanted you to know that y'all mean so much to me. The challenges of my adolescence is nothing when all of you beside me. We conquered our fears together and all of you are my hero. You guys pushed me to exceed my limits and y'all always there to support me to the things I do.

My family that always supporting me to the things I'm doing. If I am given a chance to pick my family I would still pick you. You guys are my Achilles heels. Your motivations and encouraging words is what drives me to do more. You accepted me for what I am and respect my views and perspective. As I grew up in a family like y'all I felt very lucky. You let me choose my path and helped me gain my confidence and it helped me to be someone I wanted to be.

My friends, my Landmines thank you so much for the honesty that I really love. I really enjoyed being with you guys, I experienced a lot and I even learn from all of you. I've learn that people wont always like you and thank you for all the honesty when talking to each other. You guys helped me to love myself more than anyone. You taught me that we may be different but still we can vibe to each other. Your actions towards me helped a lot in forming who am I today. You guys helped me handle my emotions and even to have good mental health you guys contributed a lot simply by being yourselves and I admired you all for that.

We are not an island that is naturally formed. We need the right person to mold us to what we wanted to be to be the person we must be.

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Newton's Third Law

"Nulla potest verecundiay quam odi."

Experience is the greatest teacher hence even if it's not good we should treasure every moment, accept it and love it because it's part of our life, but we can't deny that there are specific moments we wished to not remember it again and here are some of my embarrassing stories.

My cousin and I were classmates in 3rd grade. We are besties and partners in crime. We are always near each other and it's like we both share the same mind. One time, we agreed to prank our classmate that she is being possessed. She started acting really weird and it's my queue to make a scene. I think I'm a great actor who deserves an Oscar before because the moment I made a scene, some of our classmates started to freak out and some of them cried. After few minutes, the boys started to hold her until the room is crowded and lots of students in higher year came to watch. I was afraid to become deaf to all the counseling that might happen if we reveal that it's all fake. So my cousin decided to fake fainted and after that she acted like she was clueless and nothing happened. Now, we laughed when we remember it.

There was a dance practice for our performance back in 6th grade, because I got really thirsty I went to a store nearby to buy a soda. After paying, I heard a loud creak and the log where I'm standing broke, minutes after that I realized that I was being marinated in the dark awful water. I stayed there for many minutes because my brain can't process what's happening. Leaving my money in the dirty waters, I ran as fast as I could to go home and what's worse, my teacher saw me running and that memory still creeps me out until today.

I really love playing with my classmate and when was in 7th grade we played "habulan". We ran around the school ground and suddenly someone splashed water on me. At first I thought it was just a student trying to piss me off but when I went back to see who threw that bucket of water to me, only to find out it was the grade 9 teacher who happened to be watering his plant when I ran in that direction. It's funny to think when I went back to our classroom soaking wet but I burst out of laughter when I saw my classmates spraying water to one of my playmates for a reason that she fell inside the open water waste tank.

I have a lot of embarrassing moment in grade 9 and one of it is this. I am listening to music through my earphones and it's on its full volume. Feeling the music and living the best of my life and minding my own business, trying to act cool. Whe I suddenly opened my eyes and looked to the people around me as they parted when I walked towards their direction. It's weird because the crowd parted and I was the only person walking in the center. I continued walking until I've heard different beat and when I paid attention to where that beat came from I've analyze that it's not from the song. I looked back just to see teachers in their car trying pass but they can't simply because I'm blocking the way. The people's faces made it worse. Its like they're watching a comedy skit.

During my 10th grade I was appointed as YES-O secretary. We were all invited to an event specifically, a congress who happened that me and my friends were selected to represent the school. It's lunch break and since we were done eating, me and my friends decided to go to the comfort room just to wash our hands. As we entered the room, we started talking ang laughing. If I'm not mistaken, we were talking about heroes from a mobile game and also to the attractive person on the event. We started teasing each other and laughing not minding where we are at the moment. We are only taken back to reality when we heard a knock from the door. It felt like a slap to my face knowing what we said and our voice is too modulated. The knocks continued and we remain silent not knowing what to do. One of my friends decided to take the risk and opened it, both of them looked mortified and I started shaking. As I peek outside, it was the time I hated my ignorance. There are teachers, hotel staff and a lot of students waiting for us. We bowed to show respect and to show our apologies also to hide our faces. We said sorry to everyone there. When I got to see their reaction they didn't look annoyed and irritated to what have we done and the inconvenience we've caused but they look amused and some were entertained and some can't even hold their laughter. We went back to our seat and began to act normal again.

Even if we don't admit it, all of us became a clown in some point of our lives. It's good to be embarrassed as it help us develop ourselves and we can understand the thing that may happen because of our silly actions. Because of these moments, I truly believe that in every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.

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Who am I?

I was once a wonderer, a dreamer and curious little kid.

"Quis sum ego. Ego in me. Ego mihi esse similis. Itaque opus est ut nemo me aliquem. Quod ultimum mysterium sui proprium est".

Living in a small town of Tupi, South Cotabato, I wonder how it feels being a full grown adult? Is it that good fulfilling and spoiling yourself and living the life you dreamed for? Or is it bad because of the responsibilities given to you? As a kid, it's pretty normal for me to wonder about these things, to think what should I do in order to achieve it, creating situations in my head, to think of the things I should encounter but everything changed as I age. I am Mark Bryan Andrei R. Simpao, 16 years old and still curious about my future.

I came from a quite famous clan, my great-grandmother is well known for owning farms at the province, my grandmother is a politician and my grandfather is from a military family. While on the mother's side they are all busy making money from their businesses. Our clan may be wealthy but I do think we're an exemption, My parents are both lowly businessperson. When I was a kid, my mom would bring me to our food business at Koronadal City. Interacting to other people is my pastime as a child, later on, it became my forte. Talkative, loud and genuine kid that's how people describes me as I can't stop my mouth when words start to come out.

Growing up, I came to love fantasy books and movies. I believe the unbelievable which motivates me to strive hard in life. Watching and reading Harry Potter is what I love to do when I'm too exhausted. Since I really love reading and I'm very vocal, I've been chosen as an editorial writer back in sixth grade. Luckily, I won as a 4th placer in the individual competition of the said contest.

I studied at Balite Elementary School which is the nearest school from our house. There, I've experienced a lot of things I've never experienced before. It's really hard at first living in a place you're not familiar with the dialect, but having friends in school, I slowly mastered it. When I was in my Junior years of high school I've met my best friends. We are friends for almost 4 years already and we all have the same attitudes, likes and dislikes.

As a person I wanted to know the dislike of a person more than the things he likes as it helps me to peacefully dwell with them. I also have a lot of dislikes as well, I hate machiavellian and narcissist as I don't like when people are so full of themselves. It irritates me when things don't go well. Most of the time I'm a bit grumpy and I'm thankful that I'm surrounded by people who understand me. People who are ready to slap you when you go overboard and will drag you back to reality.

I've experienced a lot in life. I've learnt from my mistakes and I never regretted it. There is one thing that I always remember, it's not bad to commit mistake but it's lame to execute it again and not learning from it. Even when you felt helpless just continue to look above and see that sun sets and rises again. There is always a tomorrow to change not another day to be wasted. It also helped me to realized what profession I should choose. I may be a student now but soon you'll call me Atty. I am Mark Bryan Andrei R. Simpao, still a wonderer, a dreamer and a curious human being.

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