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The creator of the transandrophobe transfem joke flag doesn’t even use this blog anymore, it’s also a fairly old post, and transmascs are still purposefully seeking it out and throwing tantrums about how mean it is to make a joke like that while viciously defending the creator of the actual term “transandrophobe” for admitting to having a fetish for forcing trans women to detransition and become men, and “consensual transphobia” towards trans women.

The creator of the term “transandrophobe”: I have a fetish for forcing trans women to detransition and become men, and generally for being “consensually transphobic” towards them. I also think trans women are horrible bigots who are constantly targeting trans men and are oppressive. 

Transmascs: 

Trans women, jokingly: Lol, yea, I’m totally transandrophobic because I want you to treat me as a human. You got me, transandrophobic transfem pride I guess!

Transmascs: 

#have you considered therapy? i promise you can benefit from it #we have not even posted on this blog in a while #mod rose #transmisogyny

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Trans lesbian, trans girl, and transfem Honey Swamp icons!

#this request is so right #monster high #honey swamp #mh honey #trans #trans pride #transfeminine #trans woman #trans lesbian #trans lesbian pride #pride icons #icons #lgbt #lgbt pride #mod rose

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i just stumbled upon ur blog and im in love!! the flags yall make r so pretty!! 🥺🥺 i hope u guys have a wonderful day!

Thank you! 

#ask #anonymous #mod rose

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No hate but like about the transmisandrist flag: I can't help but feel you're painting transmascs as a whole as the main perpatraitor of transmisogyny when from what I know it's Terfs and Cis folks, like I read the tags and understand you're apparently joking but even so, it's painting transmascs as a group in a bad light and in my opinion playing right into terfs hands, we need solidarity not to be at eachothers throats. Not to be one oppressed group making jokes at another's expense, with that kind of logic a group of native americans would be allowed to make a racist joke about a group of black people, there's a massive difference between reclamation and just working for our oppressors, even on accident. For example, for the trans lesbian mod, all gender aside, howd you feel if a gay man made a "useless lesbian" joke? It's very much in the same vein, but anyways, thank you for your time, I hope you hear my opinion

A trans woman being accused of being a “transmisandrist” for just existing as a trans woman, and taking this and making a joke about it is not in any way even remotely on par with outright racism and lesbophobia. The flag compiles things that transmascs do to trans women to label us as transmisandrist, ie literally just existing as trans women and expecting to be treated as people, and making a joke out of the idea that trans women wanting to not be hurt by transmascs is somehow actually bigoted. The flag is literally “for when youre tma and youre an evil transmisandrist or transandrophobe because ummmm youre tma and dont like transmisogyny thats all that qualifies someone as being bigoted towards trans men apparently”. This is in no way comparable to a nonblack person being racist, nor is it even comparable to “useless lesbian” jokes. These two examples are just mockery of Black people and lesbians. This flag is a mockery of the idea that trans women are “transmisandrists” for wanting to be treated as human, not a mockery of trans men.

The idea that this is “working for our oppressors” (t/rfs in this case) is absolutely wrong. No, trans women joking about the way trans men mistreat them is not helping t/rfs in any way. The notes have literally been full of t/rfs vehemently defending trans men and being vile about trans women. If you think t/rfs saw that post and thought poorly of trans men, you’re dead wrong. Every single one of them has been defending them and praising them. You are not the object of t/rf hatred, despite the fact that you are an object of transphobic hatred. There is a major difference.

Furthermore, the idea that transmascs (both binary and nonbinary - mlm and wlw) are not a main perpetrator of transmisogyny could not be more false. Transmascs are absolutely one of the main perpetrators of transmisogyny, both online and in person, all tme trans people are. They are probably the most prevalent and most dangerous transmisogynists, because unlike cis people, they are inside the community and have an immense amount of leverage against transfems because of it. If a cis woman says “Trans women are predatory and scary, they try to infiltrate our cis women’s spaces and force us out so they can have a dickhaver only space. They’re so oppressive and they aren’t even that oppressed compared to us”, most trans people will recognize it as transmisogyny. If a transmasc says the exact same thing, it’s excused and even praised because they are also trans, and “you're painting transmascs as a whole as the main perpatraitor of transmisogyny when from what I know it's T/rfs and Cis folks”. Transmascs constantly traumatize and endanger transfems, just like t/rfs and cis people, but they do it while hiding behind the fact that they’re also trans and so they get away with it. Tme trans people often don’t care about the bigoted feelings of a cis person towards a trans woman, but they obsessively cater to the bigoted feelings of a transmasc (or other tme trans person) towards a trans woman. Tme trans people are still absolutely capable of transmisogyny, and often are transmisogynistic, and trans women have every right to talk about transmisogyny in the lgbt community without being accused of bigotry. Which, ironically, is exactly what the flag was talking about.

#this was a very long response. i hope this all explains it #ask #anonymous #mod rose #transmisogyny

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How does this blog have more than one moderator when it's clearly not a shared blog or it would have an envelope in place of the message/ask button?

You are aware that you can ask questions in a normal way, right? It used to be shared via allowing multiple members to have it on their account, but we stopped because we were constantly needing to message people to ask for them to delete their reblogs since they broke our dni, as well as having people ask to message us. It was stressful to have the others leave the blog and then come back later, especially because it all requires a computer, and they are usually inactive and are just mods so that they can post if they want to. Also, one mod deactivated her account due to r/dfems attacking her so it would not work anyways. They just have my login information because we are friends and I trust them. There was no need to be rude.

#ask #anonymous #mod rose

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What are your thoughts on xenogenders?

We support them.

#ask #anonymous #mod rose

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Flag edits are on hold because the mod who makes them is not really going to be using this blog anymore, at least not for a while. You are still welcome to request icons and stimboards and we will get to them, however some may take a bit longer because I am injured and can't move much, my computer is not in my bedroom, and the other mods are busy. Apologies for the inconvenience.

#i do have a flag post that she had put in the drafts a while back that i may go ahead and post but im still deciding #mod rose

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camab nb twink flags!

these flags are for gay camab nbs who are twinks! these flags are exclusively for camab nonbinary people who are exclusively gay for men, or for men and other camab nbs. that includes gay transfems.

left to right: fem, neutral/general, masc

dont use them for yourself if youre not camab nb and exclusively gay for men (or men and other camab nbs if youre camab nb), or if you fit my dni.

#no one: me: what if i made another camab nb flag and like nothing else. what if #self care and self indulgence #mlm #mlm pride #gay #gay pride #gay mlm #camab nb #camab nb gay #camab trans #twink pride #twink #lgbt flags #lgbt #lgbt pride #mod jen

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transfem4transfem flag 💜

this flag is representative of all transfem4transfem relationships, made by a transfem for transfems! 

reblogging if you’re tme / not t4t is okay! you are welcome to make content with it if you’re tme / not t4t, just don’t identify with it 💜

large version without the symbol under the cut!

Keep reading

#not ours #t4t #transfem

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transfem4transmasc / transmasc4transfem flag 💜

this flag is representative of all transmasc4transfem relationships! that includes straight relationships, as well as gay, bi, and lesbian ones. 

this was made with feedback and opinions from transmascs in mind. thank you to everyone who helped me with this! 

reblogging if you’re not t4t is okay! you can also make content with it if you’re not t4t, just don’t identify with it 💜

large version without the symbol under the cut!

Keep reading

#not ours #t4t #transfem #transmasc

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Do u think pan people are valid?

i think narrowing down opinions on sexualities and genders to "do you think theyre valid" is nonsensical and meaningless. anyways, im not gonna go after random pan people or whatever, i dont care. but i do think its not worth the associations with the term to use pan instead of bi. if you arent a biphobe or transphobe and you believe pan and bi are the exact same, attraction regardless of gender, why keep using a term with a disturbing and horrific history and current bigoted use like that? like...pansexuality was coined by a horrific person to describe the attraction to all genders, as well as animals and children and corpses. it was later used to describe attraction to men, women, and trans people for the reason that it was used to describe attraction to everything. it was changed after outrage to be attraction to men, women, and nonbinary people specifically, like that helps, and now it sits at "its attraction to all genders" when bisexual is already that and you have to be extremely biphobic and greatly damage the bi community in order to make it seem different. you remember when people found out the creator of the lesbian flag was a t/rf, racist, anti butch, etc and everyone demanded people stop using it because of its problematic association? i dont understand why that isnt also applied to identifying with a term that is just a copy of another term and was coined by someone who was sexually predatory towards his daughter for being a lesbian, directly caused the r/pes of countless children to not be believed or to be believed that the children secretly consented, and literally coined the term itself to describe attraction to men and women, trans people (which was categorized separately), children, animals, and corpses. pansexuality was literally an umbrella term for people who were bisexual pedophiles, zoophiles, and necrophiles all at once. it was coined as an lgbt identity for that reason, it was used because of its usage as attraction to "men, women, and trans people" and the fact it was meant to describe attraction to "weird things most people arent attracted to" ie trans people.

tldr: im not gonna go bother pan people and dont care about this subject and wont talk about it unless asked about it, but since you did ask, i just dont think you should be using the term pansexual because all of its previous meanings were extremely disturbing, and its current meaning is literally just bisexual. i think people should try to really think about why they feel so attached to the pansexual label rather than bisexual if they understand that they mean the same thing

#ask #anonymous #biphobia #transphobia #pedophilia #bestiality mention #ask to tag #mod jen

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some assorted snake trans flags!

top row (left to right): corn snake, brazilian rainbow boa, plains hognose snake

bottom row: green tree python, formosan odd-scaled snake, ball python

these can be used by trans people regardless of cagab or gender!

#trans #trans pride #transfem #transfem pride #transfeminine #transmasc #transmasc pride #snakes #corn snake trans #brazilian rainbow boa trans #plains hognose snake trans #green tree python trans #formosan odd scaled snake trans #ball python trans #lgbt #lgbt pride #lgbt flags #mod jen

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What does camab mean /pos /gen

camab means coercively assigned male at birth. more about the term here, here, here, and here

#ask #anonymous #mod jen #also btw i dont know what those mean

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bi transfem flag 💕💖

free to use, but please credit me if you do! this flag is for transfems only!

#not ours #flags #trans #transfem #bi #bi transfem

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may i ask why the mods wont do bandori or revolutionary girl utena edits/stimboards/icons? i hope this doesnt come off as rude, im just wondering!

bandori contains the sexualization of minors and rgu contains that + antiblackness and is generally very uncomfortable for the black wlw mods

#ask #anonymous #mod jen #pedophilia #antiblackness #for the mentions

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(anon regarding how you defined the term regarding camab mlm only but not the one who sent the ask starting with "genuine question") oh ok!!! well i love your flags and am glad you've found a place to make ones that you can connect with on a personal level :D

thank you :)

#ask #anonymous #mod jen

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genuine question, why is the nancyboy flag description so specific? i’m a gay trans man for context and nancy is a derogatory term that’s been used against me and other effeminate gay men, so why specifically camab nonbinary gay?

just because i felt like it really, i want flags for myself that i can really connect with as a tma person. the flags are tma gay flags

#again the lighter one was also revamped using my gay transfem flag #ask #anonymous #mod jen