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So I’ve seen so much ragging on Baxter calling himself a rebel or a bad boy, and it hurts me! ( I know most of it is in jest, its okay!) But I wanted to explain how he really IS what he claims to be, even though may just seem like a privileged individual

(I really had to reduce this from an essay to fit tumblrs character limit, I am talking like a 2k word essay, so its condensed but covers my points lol also please keep in mind I have taken canon information and given my interpretation of the information to this)

Lets look at the definition of a Bad Bay archetype – a cultural archetype often defined as a male who behaves badly, especially within societal norms. Qualities associated with this archetype is confidence, independence and/or assertiveness (though there are the negative connotations such as manipulation, dishonesty or a lack of consideration for others, but we are not focusing on those as these do not reflect Baxter)

And what is a rebel? At its core, it is a person who resist any authority, control, or tradition. Rebels like to change up the status quo, refusing to conform to societal pressures and controlling figures.

So lets look at Baxter Alexander Ward’s life:

Brought up in wealth

Was sheltered and raised with certain values

Parents were controlling and dictated a lot of his life

Was never treated like a child, but as an adult his whole life

More than likely taught to think himself above everyone (which he confirms)

Raised with very bigoted, misogynistic, homophobic and just cruel morals and notions  

If we look at those specific points, where does the Bad Boy archetype fit first?

By the time he reaches 19 years of age, he wants to be able to make connections outside of the circle of money he was raised in

Though he keeps up appearances for his parents, he tends to thumb his parents way of life, not wanting to become the same type of people they are

Rather than endorse their way of thinking, he becomes more open and accepting

(this boy might have mighty expectations for himself, but for others, he will never expect more than they can provide)

He is the very thing his parents do no approve off; Pansexual, accepting of others, opposite to what they want

By the time he is 19 years old, he is already snubbing his parents and their values, wanting to move outside of their circle of life and live his own life. There is the understanding that he was already sleeping around in high school, and considering his partners would be of all genders, the rumors circulating him would affect the image of the family, which his parents would not approve off. His visual looks, moving heavily into the black/ white monochrome and more alternative fit outside the expectations of what his family would expect of him. He dresses as he pleases, not as someone else would want him to.

These may seem like little actions, little acts of rebelling against his family, but these are MASSIVE in the context of his life. To flip the entire narrative that he learnt from his parents, and continues to do so in every way that he is able to. Sure, he gets a fake ID to just get a car to sight see in and get booze for himself to drink when out for dinner or even at home. But these acts are against what his parents expect or event want of him, what their social circle would expect of him, and as such, he fits the Bad Boy narrative within THAT social circle. And that is what matters in this context.

So, of course, this feeds into the rebel label. Going against everything he was taught, becoming the opposite person his parents expected of him. Resisting the control that his parents try and enforce on him and finding ways to escape the grip of expectation. I repeat myself a lot here but its that constant push back on what his parents expected of him, the morals, the views, the way he should handle himself and what they wanted of him. Baxter's rebellion is deep,y rooted in a sincere desire for authenticity, change and self-discovery, making him a truly compelling character.

Baxter at 19 years old was the Bad Boy Rebel of his families social circle. From the outside he just seems like a typical rich kid that was a bit strange, but from the inside, that’s where the rebelling sat.

Baxter at 24 is the man that continued in that path of rebellion. He further cut himself away from what his parents wanted, stood on his own two feet and tried to become the type of person he could be proud of. He separated himself from their morals, their visions, their actions. His mother who held charities to make connections and get a tax kick back? He does it to actually help people and does it almost pro-bono, no expectation to gain anything further from it. His father who holds a franchise and makes money from others manual labor? He takes the labor from others and takes it on himself to ensure that the day that they have (be it wedding or birthday or another event entirely) goes swimmingly and they have less stress than where they started.

Baxter continues to be a Rebel and Bad Boy as he grows and matures, as he continues to shun the way he grew up and becomes a better person for it.

There are probably other key points I have missed, but these are the ones that stood out to me, cementing the idea that Baxter Alexander Ward is a through and through

Rebellious Bad Boy

Thank you for coming to my (slightly unhinged) TED (tumblr) Talk.

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not "baxter is a pathetic loser posing at being a cool bad boy", not "baxter is a legit bad boy considering his social circle" but a secret fucking third thing

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Anyone know of a fan fiction that shows Baxter and mc/you at their wedding? Like maybe baxter planning it and mc/you helping. Kind of like with cove and mc's wedding

#baxter ward #our life baxter #our life #dating sim #fanfic #fanfiction #ao3 fanfic

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Neeed

BAXTER CUSTOM PLUSHIES!!!

I ordered Step3 and Step4 Baxter from @cocopines (Twitter ~ Carrd) a while ago and they're finally in my hands!!! 💖💕💖💕😭

Super happy about how they turned out, like you have NO IDEA!!!!

I love to just keep petting and smushing them sdfghjkl

And come on, JUST LOOK AT HOW THEY TURNED OUT

Please consider commissioning her for your custom doll plushies!! She has other reviews and examples listed on her Carrd as well. From the experience, I do think she's super sweet and a joy to converse with so please don't be afraid to reach out and ask her anything about the plush comms 💖

10000/100 would fully recommend ✨✨✨✨✨

Bonus (I got them clothes wwww)

a more violent bonus below (I promise you I love Baxter so much. No dolls were harmed in the making of the video-)

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19yo baxter my worstie <33 (pls i love him sm)

my moot @maybeanartist02 told me that baxter reacts in a pretty interesting way if you tell him that you volunteer and this is one of the things he says. pls his reaction is everything, it's so fun skfhskjfshsdfjs just when i think i know everything about baxter ward i learn 5 new things in one playthrough,,,

i've been thinking about this line for days so i had to get it out of my system somehow (o/////o " ) this started out as a simple doodle omg

clothes ref i found on pinterest below!

i'm sorry but im an eye shirt hater. i don't like (to draw) it,,

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"If you want to be with me, then you should actually be with me."

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Baxter w my mc Cecilia (or Cici for short).

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just saw a quote on pinterest that says "technically I'm single, but my heart is taken by someone I can't call my own."

yeah. you can see where this is going

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And then Baxter said

"Sorry Darling"

With his voice

i wasn't prepared

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Oh to live in the world of Our Life B&A and have two moms that are insanely supportive and caring and a great big sister and cousin and two childhood best friends (and by extension their families) that adore me and also have two ride or die friends and also get to date Baxter Ward for one summer, get my heart broken because he has commitment issues, only to reunite five years later by accident because he’s the wedding planner for my friend’s brother’s wedding and despite how hard he tries to distance himself, he can’t forget our time together and he eventually admits his feelings and decides to commit this time around and we ballroom dance whenever we feel like it~

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My other Baxter shitposts:

1. 2. 3. 4.

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Want

Our bisexual romcom visual novel Trouble Comes Twice is now available on itchio! 🥳 Starring twin protagonists, four different romance options, and over 40 unique CG illustrations - Trouble Comes Twice promises hours of fun, romance, and just the right amount of drama.

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Baxter🖤🤍

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'Huh....? It's morning already...?'

Sleepy Baxter is so cute.... my pookie fr

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fears

okay i never thought i’d actually like a lovers to weird exes to lovers story but i adore his DLC a lot 😭

been a while since i’ve done anything for this series… laughs nervously

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He's so beautiful

Just... something that I noticed while looking at Baxter's massive wardrobe collection.

He sure is more committed to his pockets than to the people in his life, huh.

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