littlebabycrybtch

[littlebabycrybtch]

god it blows my mind how pr/oshipp.ers are so caught up in the child r*pe fantasy defense squad shit they literally dont even Pretend to care that it triggers ppl anymore. like bro how can u FORGET that the concept of ped0philia is still deeply distressing to most of society and play victim when u throw it around EVERYWHERE like this.

'uu anti,s are selfish-' an,tis kinda just miss the days when we like regular well adjusted adults could look for like bdsm drawing references on google images and. hope to find adults and NOT drawings of 9 yr old girls getting railed every 4 or 5 clicks away. a.ntis miss when you could look at the hashtag for any teenage character on any website and not see porn on the first page. like. yall are either blind to it or pretending bc its so fucking badddd. this is inexcusable dude, its gotten well past a point of mass grooming and pretending its not that and playing it off like ur being harassed is just laughable. 

'uu im coping in private' yall are infecting every mainstream social media mam !! you are literally doing everything in your power to make sure everybody sees how loud and proud you are abt it!! but in case nobody has ever sat you down and explained; we are never going to live in a world where 15 yr old meat is gonna be universally accepted on the printing press just bc you keep convincing ppl its a human rights violation to tell you that what ur jerking off to is concerning and creating a community for it is causing social damages. literally like stop claiming you are a healthy good person if you want to live on a planet where this is accepted, thats. literally saying 'oh im not trying to cause harm but i do want the fetishization of children to be more commonplace and accepted' LIKE??? THEN YOU DO WANT TO CAUSE HARM BC THAT IS NOT A HEALTHY OR SAFE WORLD FOR MINORS ONE COULD EVER POSSIBLY LIVE IN LIKE IIIIIIIIII----- 

#anyways. sorry i dipped for 3 months. saw a sicko prank somebody with a link to a ped0 fanfic and got sick 2 my stomach lmao #rot bitch. disgusting as hell literally wtf is wrong with yall. 'uu its fiction' NORMAL PPL ARE SICKENED BY THE /THOUGHT/ OF SEXUALIZED KIDS #IS THE RPOBLEM YOU FUCKIN IDIOT LFMAO #HOW COULD U FORGET THAT!! HINT U DIDNT; U DONT FUCKING CARE BC UR EVIL #IF U ARENT GONNA STOP BEING A FREAK AT LEAST BE FUCKIN DECENT ENOUGH TO NOT SHAME THE PPL YOU TRAUMATIZE GODDD #like srsly all ALLLL fucking debates aside ik we can at least all agree; if you trigger ppl on purpose you deserve an ass beating #the FUCK is wrong with you #smfh #jesus christ #tw pedophilia ment/ // //

[littlebabycrybtch]

alls im saying is if you’re an allistic joking abt tone indicators it really better fucking mean that the next time somebody misunderstands your tone, you are mature, you are educated, you are understanding, you are as fucking cordial as can be about it, you dont use their mistake against them to mock them for internet clout, and the next time someone asks for your clarification, you give it to them straight instead of saying ‘nobody tell them’, or lie and trick them once again to publicly mock their misunderstanding for internet clout, and overall, if you say shit like ‘are you /j or /srs’, it better mean you’re going to make a better effort to be patient and kind with this. bc these were meant to be an >>>ACCESSABILITY TOOL<<< for neurodivergent ppl who struggle to understand tone and respond correctly, who have been en masse harassed and publicly mocked for YEARS now bc of the situations these interactions bring. and its frankly cruel that its become a joke to the point that it has, where using it unironically garners harassment as well, but. lol if i say that im the sensitive crazy r word tryna cringe on ur fuckin day bc ableism doesnt mean shit to faketivist clout chasers. so w/e idk man if nothing else, remember autistic ppl got strong hands from stimming and if i see you doing this shit and still being an ableist im kicking your fucking ass. “but it was just a joke!!” hm well maybe if you had said /j i wouldve known sry 🤔 now run bitch im gonna flap against your skull until you explode like a watermelon with rubber bands around it bc ableists have gotta fuckin die out already. honestly i cannot BELIEVE this shit. we are so Boldly and Blatantly disrespected and left behind while yall continue to chant progress lmfao ok

[littlebabycrybtch]

honestly no more tip toeing i feel like outright saying ‘if you think accusing total strangers of faking disorders without 100% solid evidence (ACTUAL CONFIRMED EVIDENCE, NOT YOUR STUPID FEELINGS OR HUNCHES) is literally Ever excusable or beneficial for anyone at all, stay the fuck away from me’ cuz yall this is getting fucking Ridiculous. you arent doctors, you’re full stop perpetuating ableism by encouraging the idea that you can ‘tell’ if someone is disabled or not just by looking, and in turn by acting like all disabled ppl are the exact same and experience it the same exact way. sit down with your tiktok phd ass lmfao u cant keep going off of 20 second videos ppl take of themselves and deciding ‘yes this is an accurate depiction of their entire daily lives that i can make deeply personal assumptions off of’. its . literally almost mind numbing how stupid it all is.... your ideas of mental illness are not educated they are literally just restrictive and club-mentality which is why you’re So eager to gatekeep, YOU are the ones looking at it like an elite membership rather than a community to help you. the distrust of other mentally ill ppl is cruelty, not woke or helpful, and definitely not smart. its literally so fuckign stupid my dudes. and whats worse is its doing 10x more damage than the issue ur getting all up in arms abt lmfao srsly the intruder alert act has been done over and over by So many communities and has been proven to be the worst and most detrimental stance nearly every time. stop focusing on keeping ‘~the wrong ppl~’ out and focus on how to make whats inside Thrive. fr the reason theres an influx of abled ppl accusing others of faking is bc OYU LITERALLY WONT STOP THROWING YOUR OWN GROUPS UNDER THE BUS AND STARTING THIS SHIT... YOU LITERALLY WONT STOP ACCUSSING PPL OF FAKIGN FOR BEING ‘TOO STEREOTYPICAL’, ‘NOT STEREOTYPICAL ENOUGH’, ‘TOO SELF VICTIMIZING’, ‘TOO OKAY WITH THEIR DISORDER’, ITS ....... SO........ STUPID LIKE I....... OH MY GOD shut UP already you fuckin dumbass you are making shit so much harder for everybody it literally makes me see red. ‘fake disorder cringe’ oh my god im going to give Every disorder faker therapy and NONE for you bc THATS the only explanation i can think of as to why you are acting like a territorial rabid fox over the idea of ppl getting help when theres a chance thye may not need it, but literally zero way for you to prove it. like literally i cant even Fathom this thought process and how backwards it is

#tw ableism

[littlebabycrybtch]

footage of me tryna cope with seeing the words ‘tiktok teens faking disorders’ plastered on yet another youtube thumbnail, knowing that it is also kinda epic cringe fail of us to try and mass undiagnose strangers over social media as if not having a medical degree, a patient background, or exchanging a single word with somebody is enough for diagnostics just bc you have some 20 second vids of them, when a REAL doctor would instantly lose their license for doing that bc its horribly irresponsible and ignorant, but i cant call this behavior ableist bc everybody nowadays genuinely believes having a disorder gives them some magical radar abt it and makes them an expert on everyone ELSES experience with that disorder and not just their Own perspective, and at least 35% of the exact same ppl perpetuating this for supposedly anti-ableism reasons will 100% call my autistic ass the r word for it bc this is the performative and clearly self important tiktok brand of activism and not real activism and i just have to wait for them to realize the hard way that ‘nd community’ will always be a more beneficial focus than on trimming down smaller ‘[specific diagnosis] communities’, bc nts/ableds are the real universal problem for us and are gonna oppress us either way and the accusers are the ones making the problem worse but theyll only get it after they are eventually accused of faking by nts SOLELY bc of how THEY normalized this blind accusation behavior towards anybody who doesnt fit their restrictive predetermined ‘current medical science is set in stone’ mold they’re on, BC ALL OF THIS SHIT WAS VERY MUCH ALREADY DISCUSSED BY MY GENERATION AS ND TEENS, SO MANY YEARS AGO, AND WE SAW THE EFFECTS AND ALMOST UNANIMOUSLY AGREED THE RAMPANT ‘FAKER’ CALLOUT CULTURE IS RIDICULOUS AND HARMFUL AND WE MOVED TF ON, UNAWARE PPL WOULD EVER REVIVE IT, AND NOW IM GONNA HAVE TO WORRY ABT DEALING WITH ‘THATS NOT REAL UR FAKING’ AGAIN EVERY TIME I BEHAVE EVEN SLIGHTLY ~MORE AUTISTIC~ THAN USUAL TO THESE DUMBASS TWITTER-PHD RANDOS WHO DONT REALIZE BY RESTRICTING CERTAIN DISORDERS TO STEREOTYPES OR NATURALLY PERCIEVED BEHAVIOR AS THE ‘NECESSARY CRITERIA’ THEYRE LEGIT JUST MAKING ABLEISM 2 ELECTRIC BOOGALOO,

#tw ableism/ // #please . for the love of god like. use some deeper thought here #idk why ppl dont get how complex neurodivergency actually is and keep tryna segment it further and further but #we share experiences. we have things in common. sometimes we dont know the word for it. this Can be utterly fucking fine and benign #stop making it so restrictive lmfao you dont have to make it the specific diagnosis party it rly SHOULD be more like a 'nd' community #but that almost doesnt even exist anymore bc its ALL just specific diagnosis vibing now. dude. Dude.

[littlebabycrybtch]

hey i got an ~evil anti~ take thats gonna hit this shit out of the park;;; if you are a p3d0 artist where exactly do you get references 😶 like hey bud. how’d you learn how to draw that. you draw it like 3 times a week so how’d you uh. get so familiar w/ that. how do you know what that looks like. i mean you’re telling me not a single one of you bitch artists with thousands of twitter followers is using references hm??? you supposedly DONT fantasize about real kids or exploit them (which should imply you do NOT look at real cp or use real kids pictures for reference) but you’re somehow better than like 90% of professional artists who require real pictures and extensive anatomical practice????? thats fuckin interesting. hm. 

#and per the usual when i say anti. d udes. i mean what most regular ppl are 100% referring to yall with; anti p3d0 #fr stop playing dumb and miscommunicating on purpose to blur the line and manipulate. we mean anti p3d0 and always have #not anti ship or w/e the hell that means. thats just cringe culture my dude what the fuck lmao #ya stop liking cartoon characters having chemistry thats what im angry about!! not solely the specific exploitation loophole of children!! #fuck off lol do literally w/e the hell you want as long as you keep the kids out of it man #fr it makes me mad as hell bc there are so many well meaning people that have fallen into this dark shit #bc of how WILDLY manipulative the m/ap community is and how they try to gaslight and blatantly lie dude #ALMOST NOBODY IS OUT HERE REFERRING TOT HEMSELF AS ANTI MEANING ANYTHING MORE THAN ANTI P3D0!!! #YOU NEED TO FUCKING KNOW THIS!!! #THE ONLY PPL REFERRING TO ANTIS AS 'ANTI ANY SHIP THEY DONT LIKE' OR W/E ARE M.A/PS!!!!!!!! #THATS A HUGE FUCKING INTENTIONAL COMMUNICATION PROBLEM!!!! #seriously ppl who are pulling the cringe culture whiney shit dont typically call themselves anti at all they just. are like that w/o label #we honest 2 god gotta clear this up or its never going to be a fair fight bc ppl tryna focus on child safety are labelled bully lmao #tw pedophilia ment// / /

[littlebabycrybtch]

tbh i think we need to take the ‘its ok to make money off of ur artistic passions bc u need money to survive’ discussion a step further and remind ppl that monetizing your passions and not doing what you love for free doesnt take away from the passion at all. payment for it doesnt always have to be ‘to survive’, you deserve to be paid for your creation regardless, and you deserve to be paid Fairly like everyone else. artistry is not just a place to starve, its a place where we should encourage thriving. and you could be well off or even Wealthy and still demand you are paid for your services. thats not the same as the obscenely rich people you’re thinking of who have hardly had to lift a finger to get where they are, you are literally just asking back the work you put in. you’re allowed to recognize the value of your own labor, and request it be met. getting paid to do smth you genuinely love to do doesnt make it a hollow capitalistic endeavor, there is no pride in lowballing yourself just because you arent miserably slaving away at it. shaming ppl for recognizing their own talent and wanting compensation for it even if theyre happy in their job, or claiming that they cant be ~truly~ putting their heart into it with pure intentions if theyre profiting off of it, is basically implying that 1. natural human passion doesnt exist outside of incentive based rules which is dumb capitalism propaganda shit and Not true, our choices do not Have to revolve around money, but money is still something we need so if it ties in with our passions Hey power to ya, and 2. you’re heavily implying you dont see any value in art. so an artist whos not struggling means nothing to you huh. you wanna help them out because you pity them, not pay them fairly for the labor they did. they shouldnt ask for anything in return for their actual efforts, they dont deserve it for that, the only factor here is their outside means and Not the Work they are doing, which is apparently worthless to you on its own. ok. anyways

[littlebabycrybtch]

loving the internet progression where the meaning of “poor people deserve nice things” went from “poor people are also allowed to buy things like fast food, video games, and brand name items instead of eating gruel and sitting on the floor lest they spend their money frivolously” to like, “if you charge money for your labor youre classist bc i cant afford to pay for it” especially when it comes to art, books, and clothing

#IN OTHER WORDS !!!

[littlebabycrybtch]

i agree, and im not trying to call specifically you out on this but. this is sort of part of what i mean when i try to gently say, you dont need kids to know how they work, but should at least be educated on the parenting stuff before judging it bc. youtube kids literally has a feature for you to only let them watch your approved channels. you can literally prevent them from watching w/e they want or doing w/e they want on most of these apps and completely tailor their experience just by setting it up right. the ‘evil youtube kids’ stories you hear are from parents who dont use this feature, which are becoming less and less thanks to that. you should still supervise as often as you can but i mean, again we’re talking about how sometimes a parent ... literally Cant supervise their kid with 100% effort (bc they have many other tasks they physically have to complete for both of their sakes), and you Can set these devices up to where supervision can be made minimal. idk im not trying to be condescending but. i promise most parents care and think about this stuff you guys. ik theres a lot of shitty parents/caretakers out there but ... combatting that by just not trusting a single thing any of us do and never listening to our reasoning is so unnecessary and harmful. part of why im posting this even tho i know ppl dont love discussing parenting in a way that defends the parents is bc theres so much misinformation or assumptions made from a complete lack of concept that typically a parent wants their kid to be safe and happy even when genuinely cant dedicate all of their time to ensuring that. and thats disheartening like. im sorry but the way people presume parents automatically dont EVER think abt Any of this and arent exhausted from constantly weighing needs but instead being ‘lazy’ or ‘dumb’ when they rely on outer sources to help with their childcare just gets... so frustrating after a while. like, the idea that we’re just not trying hard enough and just out of sight is some perfect obvious solution thatll fix every problem, and that these things we do are obviously not necessary because of that... and how its Never allowed to be the case that we just... idk... Possibly DO know what we’re doing and that there IS more to the story............. :/ it gets old af ngl

ughh i hate starting niche shit that ik ppl will immediately reject without even considering it but. dude ngl the anti tablet thing with kids is becoming so exhausting. like PLEAASE fucking hear me out for a sec. theyre probably watching fucking cocomelon and elmo. bro. theyre learning numbers and shapes dude. why do you think thats harmful. genuinely ask yourself why on earth that would hurt them. children being entertained by childrens media or games literally designed to enrich their young minds is not fuckin bad. it exists for a reason. it is made for them. kid tablets arent the devil lmao.

im sorry but yall know parents like… ARENT legit superheroes and actually do inherently need to leave their child to their own devices from time to time just so they can complete other necessary tasks so they both survive right. you know demonizing every single instance of witnessing a parent taking care of themselves at what you perceive as even the slightest expense of their kid is not just an unattainable unrealistic standard, but just. downright Cruelty. seeing a kid with a tablet for 2 seconds and being like ‘wow i bet their parents make them do that for like 8 hours a day while they just sit there lifelessly :///’ is just… such a WILD leap. like no forreal why is this idea so ingrained. to be frank its this malicious ‘parents are lazy and terrible until proven hero’ mentality which is so fucking needlessly damaging. why do you literally think its automatically evil to let a kid watch educational yt kids in a stroller !! why is a parent expected to be their childs resource literally 24/7 when its obvious they literally cannot bc they have to be their own resource too !! ik sympathetic reasoning towards parents aint ppls strong suits and no you do not have to have your own kids to judge, but damn man yall could at least try to be Educated on raising kids b4 u spread this shit. 

‘uu just handing them a tablet and ignoring them is gonna damage them’ my guys, you can give kids Plenty of attention and 1-on-1 time, but theyre autonomous human beings, after a certain point they actually Need to learn to entertain themselves and this happens sooner in life than you think. most infants learn how to self soothe a little by 6 months. sometimes ur kid might Prefer to watch smth than talk to you or w/e, and its honestly not a sign ur neglecting them. its a sign ur raising them with enough care that theyre starting to want to navigate on their own. independent play is Good. its Good for them to learn their own interests and what makes them happy. sometimes kids dont WANT your attention, or cant have it at the moment. or sometimes ur kid doesnt WANT to be at walmart, and they have the right to feel upset theyre somewhere against their will, but ofc u kinda have to buy them food so they live and shit. so distracting them with smth both educational and fun, long enough to get in, do what you need to do, and get out is… is not just ‘okay’, but a perfectly healthy and responsible thing to do in that situation, instead of letting them scream and be upset just to ‘prove’ you’re the boss while you don’t give them anything to cope with besides yourself, like its a good thing for them to not form any personal soothing skills. most parents are not Forcing a tablet on their kid, they offer it as an enriching solution to unavoidable situations where they cant be directly interacting, just like the purpose of any other toy, except this one has a much more engaging interface. and uh, lbr, you can neglect a kid with any method for this. seriously, nagging them to go play outside for 8 hours every time they annoy you can be just as neglectful for them, and make them feel just as ignored and rejected and under stimulated as it could be to leave them with a tablet for that long. and dont even get me Started on special needs kids who might need devices to cope even from a young age bc i just fuckin……… please fucking listen. im not exaggerating or playing devils advocate for fun here. the assumptions abt this are truly miserable.

tldr;;; there are not demons in the computer screens tryna rot childrens brains, ur ass grew up watching bill nye the science guy in classroom settings, ik its hard as hell to recognize flaws in such widely socially ingrained concepts but can you guys….. please just Try to be more understanding and think abt how u treat parents, and tbh how you view kids. its harmful to be so ignorant abt childrens needs and how their minds work. yall kinda act like when ur a parent it becomes a crime to still be a human person or smth like thats reasonable and not an incredibly cruel set up against them, and you act like kids are a one-size-fits-all love robot where its as simple as putting in the universal codes every day to raise them right. theyre literally just people and its a bit more complex than that

#also like sry for the screenshot idk how tf replies work anymore but if you want me to delete it i can

[littlebabycrybtch]

i got a genuinely hot take here but tbh idk how i feel about the phrasing of things like ‘its NOT HARD to not be racist/homophobic/ableist/etc.’ in reference to cancel culture bc................. yes, it is. that’s the point. bigotry is ingrained in every aspect of society, we are surrounded by it, you have to work your ass off every single day. its NECESSARY work, and having sympathy makes it a tiny bit easier to start off, but its So much more than that, its still back-breaking hard work. frankly, if you arent catching personal mistakes from time to time and feel like its so easy for you to avoid these things, you... probably just arent paying enough attention to your own actions, and are causing harm you dont recognize. i mean, saying its easy for you to avoid All of these affects of bigotry that you are constantly seeped in and exposed to just bc you’re educated, is like saying you’re avoiding being wet bc you’re in the shallow end of a pool.

we need to change the general narrative from ‘bigotry is inexcusable bc its so easy to not be a bigot!’ to smth closer to ‘bigotry is currently unavoidable but still inexcusable because its necessary to combat if we ever want anything to improve’. cuz tbr the rampant mindset that being a good person is this casual and natural attitude that comes from an inherent subconscious part of your soul thats already just There or else its not really Genuine tm, rather than recognizing ‘good’ as relying solely on the decision of you fighting and unworking hate and evil so deeply absorbed by current humanity that you have to accept even you are a product of it and that normalizing anti bigotry is going to take a long hard process........ its letting ppl be lazy af and avoid growth, contributing to the very real trend of ppl who, instead of trying to do better, just keep trying to manipulate and lower the standards of what good looks like. tbh, i sure fucking Hope avoiding bigotry isnt ‘easy’ for you. cuz it is Not ‘easy’ to not be a bigot. its hard. its easy as hell to be a bigot, its so fucking easy to go with the rest of society and benefit from the power you have over people, its sooo easy and comfortable to judge and reject any part of the world you feel is below you and you dont wanna deal with. its hard to go against that, and it takes an UNFATHOMABLE amount of time and effort. to not recognize that as difficult and register it as easy is unfortunately an immediate sign you are just not doing as much as you should be.

‘but being nice and thoughtful comes so easy for me, i cant imagine how awful id feel if i were being mean! how do people do that!’ i hate to make you feel this way but. being nice and thoughtful isnt Enough. its like the first little baby step. again, you’re standing in the shallow end and imagining you’re in the lifeguards chair. you have not created a bubble to exist in, you are still surrounded by hate. and you actually need to get USED to feeling guilty for being ‘mean’, so you can process it better and recognize it more often. bc you, like everybody else, are going to cause harm from time to time. you already have, and will in the future. your intentions can be as nice as possible, you will still hurt people, and i cannot stress enough that its probably not gonna be in ways that you can brush off as a little understandable oopsie. constant vigilance is hard, if not nearly impossible, but yea, THATS what you’re supposed to be striving for if you want total harm reduction. so occasionally, you’ll probably slip up and do things that are so damaging, you feel truly evil and disgusted with yourself when you realize how awful that thing was, that thing you viewed as okay and harmless and put out into the world so nonchalantly. good isnt a thing you are or can become, its a thing you do. theres a lot of different ways to do it and it is ok to occasionally ‘take breaks’, but i mean. you can’t just do it a little bit and then totally stop and try to claim it’s still part of you. you have to Keep doing it. its not easy to avoid bigotry, and its even harder to face it. the reason people should be doing it anyways is because its necessary.

[littlebabycrybtch]

me: [gives 2 yr old nephew his tablet in stroller]

rando in same walmart aisle with overactive imagination who probably thinks melatonin gummies are child abuse: oh my goddd... he must be so fucking miserable... thats so evil and neglectful.... i bet they just go home and lock him in a closet with a tablet, one corn chip, and a dirty blanket as old as the cold war instead of ever engaging with him.... they dont care abt his happiness at all.... hes gonna grow up with no brain cells....

me, having woken up at 6, no breakfast bc i barely squeezed making his eggs in b4 he demanded we build a lego castle, already dealt with a diaper blowout, 2 tantrums, a booboo and a box of crayons in the toilet, trying to find the frozen chicken nuggets that both of us are going to have for dinner later: hey buddy hows it goin.

tablet: [ 🎵 ~ Abc, 123, be nice and eat your veggies, cows go moo and medicine is good, your feelings are important, lets dance ~ 🎵 ] 

him: :)))))))

ughh i hate starting niche shit that ik ppl will immediately reject without even considering it but. dude ngl the anti tablet thing with kids is becoming so exhausting. like PLEAASE fucking hear me out for a sec. theyre probably watching fucking cocomelon and elmo. bro. theyre learning numbers and shapes dude. why do you think thats harmful. genuinely ask yourself why on earth that would hurt them. children being entertained by childrens media or games literally designed to enrich their young minds is not fuckin bad. it exists for a reason. it is made for them. kid tablets arent the devil lmao.

im sorry but yall know parents like… ARENT legit superheroes and actually do inherently need to leave their child to their own devices from time to time just so they can complete other necessary tasks so they both survive right. you know demonizing every single instance of witnessing a parent taking care of themselves at what you perceive as even the slightest expense of their kid is not just an unattainable unrealistic standard, but just. downright Cruelty. seeing a kid with a tablet for 2 seconds and being like ‘wow i bet their parents make them do that for like 8 hours a day while they just sit there lifelessly :///’ is just… such a WILD leap. like no forreal why is this idea so ingrained. to be frank its this malicious ‘parents are lazy and terrible until proven hero’ mentality which is so fucking needlessly damaging. why do you literally think its automatically evil to let a kid watch educational yt kids in a stroller !! why is a parent expected to be their childs resource literally 24/7 when its obvious they literally cannot bc they have to be their own resource too !! ik sympathetic reasoning towards parents aint ppls strong suits and no you do not have to have your own kids to judge, but damn man yall could at least try to be Educated on raising kids b4 u spread this shit. 

‘uu just handing them a tablet and ignoring them is gonna damage them’ my guys, you can give kids Plenty of attention and 1-on-1 time, but theyre autonomous human beings, after a certain point they actually Need to learn to entertain themselves and this happens sooner in life than you think. most infants learn how to self soothe a little by 6 months. sometimes ur kid might Prefer to watch smth than talk to you or w/e, and its honestly not a sign ur neglecting them. its a sign ur raising them with enough care that theyre starting to want to navigate on their own. independent play is Good. its Good for them to learn their own interests and what makes them happy. sometimes kids dont WANT your attention, or cant have it at the moment. or sometimes ur kid doesnt WANT to be at walmart, and they have the right to feel upset theyre somewhere against their will, but ofc u kinda have to buy them food so they live and shit. so distracting them with smth both educational and fun, long enough to get in, do what you need to do, and get out is… is not just ‘okay’, but a perfectly healthy and responsible thing to do in that situation, instead of letting them scream and be upset just to ‘prove’ you’re the boss while you don’t give them anything to cope with besides yourself, like its a good thing for them to not form any personal soothing skills. most parents are not Forcing a tablet on their kid, they offer it as an enriching solution to unavoidable situations where they cant be directly interacting, just like the purpose of any other toy, except this one has a much more engaging interface. and uh, lbr, you can neglect a kid with any method for this. seriously, nagging them to go play outside for 8 hours every time they annoy you can be just as neglectful for them, and make them feel just as ignored and rejected and under stimulated as it could be to leave them with a tablet for that long. and dont even get me Started on special needs kids who might need devices to cope even from a young age bc i just fuckin……… please fucking listen. im not exaggerating or playing devils advocate for fun here. the assumptions abt this are truly miserable.

tldr;;; there are not demons in the computer screens tryna rot childrens brains, ur ass grew up watching bill nye the science guy in classroom settings, ik its hard as hell to recognize flaws in such widely socially ingrained concepts but can you guys….. please just Try to be more understanding and think abt how u treat parents, and tbh how you view kids. its harmful to be so ignorant abt childrens needs and how their minds work. yall kinda act like when ur a parent it becomes a crime to still be a human person or smth like thats reasonable and not an incredibly cruel set up against them, and you act like kids are a one-size-fits-all love robot where its as simple as putting in the universal codes every day to raise them right. theyre literally just people and its a bit more complex than that

[littlebabycrybtch]

ughh i hate starting niche shit that ik ppl will immediately reject without even considering it but. dude ngl the anti tablet thing with kids is becoming so exhausting. like PLEAASE fucking hear me out for a sec. theyre probably watching fucking cocomelon and elmo. bro. theyre learning numbers and shapes dude. why do you think thats harmful. genuinely ask yourself why on earth that would hurt them. children being entertained by childrens media or games literally designed to enrich their young minds is not fuckin bad. it exists for a reason. it is made for them. kid tablets arent the devil lmao.

im sorry but yall know parents like... ARENT legit superheroes and actually do inherently need to leave their child to their own devices from time to time just so they can complete other necessary tasks so they both survive right. you know demonizing every single instance of witnessing a parent taking care of themselves at what you perceive as even the slightest expense of their kid is not just an unattainable unrealistic standard, but just. downright Cruelty. seeing a kid with a tablet for 2 seconds and being like ‘wow i bet their parents make them do that for like 8 hours a day while they just sit there lifelessly :///’ is just... such a WILD leap. like no forreal why is this idea so ingrained. to be frank its this malicious ‘parents are lazy and terrible until proven hero’ mentality which is so fucking needlessly damaging. why do you literally think its automatically evil to let a kid watch educational yt kids in a stroller !! why is a parent expected to be their childs resource literally 24/7 when its obvious they literally cannot bc they have to be their own resource too !! ik sympathetic reasoning towards parents aint ppls strong suits and no you do not have to have your own kids to judge, but damn man yall could at least try to be Educated on raising kids b4 u spread this shit. 

‘uu just handing them a tablet and ignoring them is gonna damage them’ my guys, you can give kids Plenty of attention and 1-on-1 time, but theyre autonomous human beings, after a certain point they actually Need to learn to entertain themselves and this happens sooner in life than you think. most infants learn how to self soothe a little by 6 months. sometimes ur kid might Prefer to watch smth than talk to you or w/e, and its honestly not a sign ur neglecting them. its a sign ur raising them with enough care that theyre starting to want to navigate on their own. independent play is Good. its Good for them to learn their own interests and what makes them happy. sometimes kids dont WANT your attention, or cant have it at the moment. or sometimes ur kid doesnt WANT to be at walmart, and they have the right to feel upset theyre somewhere against their will, but ofc u kinda have to buy them food so they live and shit. so distracting them with smth both educational and fun, long enough to get in, do what you need to do, and get out is... is not just ‘okay’, but a perfectly healthy and responsible thing to do in that situation, instead of letting them scream and be upset just to ‘prove’ you’re the boss while you don’t give them anything to cope with besides yourself, like its a good thing for them to not form any personal soothing skills. most parents are not Forcing a tablet on their kid, they offer it as an enriching solution to unavoidable situations where they cant be directly interacting, just like the purpose of any other toy, except this one has a much more engaging interface. and uh, lbr, you can neglect a kid with any method for this. seriously, nagging them to go play outside for 8 hours every time they annoy you can be just as neglectful for them, and make them feel just as ignored and rejected and under stimulated as it could be to leave them with a tablet for that long. and dont even get me Started on special needs kids who might need devices to cope even from a young age bc i just fuckin......... please fucking listen. im not exaggerating or playing devils advocate for fun here. the assumptions abt this are truly miserable.

tldr;;; there are not demons in the computer screens tryna rot childrens brains, ur ass grew up watching bill nye the science guy in classroom settings, ik its hard as hell to recognize flaws in such widely socially ingrained concepts but can you guys..... please just Try to be more understanding and think abt how u treat parents, and tbh how you view kids. its harmful to be so ignorant abt childrens needs and how their minds work. yall kinda act like when ur a parent it becomes a crime to still be a human person or smth like thats reasonable and not an incredibly cruel set up against them, and you act like kids are a one-size-fits-all love robot where its as simple as putting in the universal codes every day to raise them right. theyre literally just people and its a bit more complex than that

#anywayz im p sure ive brought this up b4 and am repeating myself but idc man it destroys me

[littlebabycrybtch]

duuude exclus stay so weird af lmfao. ik ive brought this pattern up b4 but that one brand of exclus that ignores dnis and like CONSTANTLY crosses boundaries with aspecs to try and forcibly be around them legitimately just waiting for them to get uncomfortable when they realize oh this is actually a person that doesnt respect them.... like straight up sitting there all proud of their shitty ruse pretending to not Recognize we don’t want them near us and that the reason is bc they literally hate us first, and thinking they are being SLICK abt this creepy tormenting shit when they try to casually enter our space, and even openly admitting after being asked that the reason they might ignore our plea for them to leave us alone is bc they just dont give enough of a shit abt our feelings (even tho they do bc theyre. actively trying to hurt them every opportunity they can), and they STILL think its not fuckin batshit crazy to treat us like animals theyre poking with a stick.... it just has this like... distinctly obsessed, unhinged, sibling playing the ‘im-not-touching-you’ game feeling to it. bro thats...... srsly weird and manipulative behavior lol. ffs we’re straight up no-mercy punching bags cuz we dont wanna fuck, like thats so unfathomably unrelatable to them as if they . never spend Any time happy with their identity when not having sex or smth ??? and they feel like ppl going thru the same problems who are Different can justify this response ...... wtf..... and it blows my mind that all this retaliation is over us requesting we keep getting the support from the community we’ve been a part of for decades. its legit punishment for asking for Continued Help.

this shit is disturbingly pathetic behavior lmao, like!!!! give it UP already ur doing it repeatedly like ppl arent gonna catch on bc ur so absorbed in the ‘i can do w/e i want’ entitled victim complex mentality. u make real activists cringe lsdls dont be sneaky and try to genuinely act like there should be Nothing wrong to me with the unnecessarily malice you hold over my identity........ yall they literally are so far gone abt us they dont recognize how ABNORMAL and like... UNREALISTIC CARTOONY VILLAIN it is to expect anyone besides worthless lil aspecs to willingly stick around w ppl who hate them, like its just So Obvious we deserve to be hated that even We should agree with it and just Let them hate us bc Everyone should anyways why would we even THink we deserve more than that and Dare ask for it .... lksdflsd god that is SO .... SO UNBELIEVABLE THAT HUMANS OPERATE LIKE THIS I 😶 ggjgjg DUDE dont try to sit there and trick me into thinking ur this regular benign friend to my face when u dont even support my basic autonomy !! and ffs dont be so twitter-brained and detached from reality u actually think cishetties love aspexies and we’re in cahoots w/ each other lmfaoglfkjgkfdljgdfg thats.... seriously fucken sad. its so fuckn. sad to think abt how far Backwards from history that is. like. u should literally kinda just grow tf up and stop tryna make being a piece of shit to everybody a charming internet personality like thatll be around 10 yrs from now when everyone in ur friend group is either doing bare minimum harm reduction and getting over their whiny cringe feels that mean nothing or theyre getting called out 4 bastarditis but. if nothing else. ik yall cant read but damn cmon kids u can handle a dni, you should rly stop being weird abt boundaries out of spite !! ppl can see you!! thnxs 💖 back up out of my face girl this isnt high school ok kick the virgin is very much a WEIRD game to be playin in a progressive part of society tryna talk abt sex politics with nuance, do better now or do better later when nobody falls for ur fake supremely cruel bullshit anymore, ur choice 🤷🏻‍♀️

[littlebabycrybtch]

why do people get so offended when someone says shit like “i hit pro shippers with my car”? like obviously theyre not really hitting anyone with their car, so why are you mad if its just pretend? do you think their words have impact even if theyre not actually literally hitting you with a car? even if theyre only pretending to? even if its fictional it can hurt and effect real people? so you agree, fiction effects reality?

#good addition

[littlebabycrybtch]

why do people get so offended when someone says shit like “i hit pro shippers with my car”? like obviously theyre not really hitting anyone with their car, so why are you mad if its just pretend? do you think their words have impact even if theyre not actually literally hitting you with a car? even if theyre only pretending to? even if its fictional it can hurt and effect real people? so you agree, fiction effects reality?

#😶😶😶😶😶😶😶

[littlebabycrybtch]

bro how do grown adults still argue abt if you’re allowed to call somebody ugly or not and WHY are they so whiny and evasive about being asked to do the bare minimum work to be a decent person. ‘[subject being called ugly] is Problematic im talking specifically abt THEM not calling other ppl with this trait personally ugly 😒 stop being so sensitiveee’ ok how do you not get that it doesnt matter who ur talking abt but what you are saying and thinking. have you considered your bad thoughts just. matter bc they are bad. like the mere concept is literally the problem. why are you so in your own world abt this. my concern is that you legit just are Not body positive if u will make fun of ppls bodies and think certain traits are ugly and deserve mockery, that is not okay, it deserves consequences bc thats fucking stupid and shitty of you, having that ingrained WILL cause problems and hurt ppl without you recognizing it, and you should do better. 

its not just about nobody ‘deserving’ body shaming on a personal level, which is fucking true, but its more that YOU shouldnt body shame, and YOU should do better at sympathetic reasoning, because the impact of YOUR everyday behaviors is probably worse than you realize if you’re so comfortable defending being this nonchalantly corrupt. like... why is your focus always on other peoples reactions, and not on your own actions. how do you legit believe your toxic thoughts and behaviors cant have any potential consequences outside of 1v1 interactions. bro idc how you try to justify your times of immorality, idc if ur discussing the devil incarnate, if your comments arent relevant to anything ‘problematic’ and are instead jabs and jokes about big noses, acne, thinning hair, fat rolls, crooked teeth, strabismus, dark circles, extra body hair, bone structure, aesthetic choices, the way a person smiles, the way they pose, the way their body fucking exists, idc who its about!!!! i care abt you. i care abt the fact that you actually think this way. you are openly admitting you actually find this stuff ugly, have >accepted< it, and are okay with voicing this attitude any time you think you can get away with it. you’re even putting it alongside discussions of justice and harm reduction as a ‘gotcha’ moment for your foes, like ‘ugly=bad’ is so ingrained in you its just an obvious thing to joke about and in your mind its as personally important and beneficial for your cause to get to make that joke as it is talking about the harm someone has done at face value. that speaks volumes. its N o t about who you say it to. its wrong for You to personally believe in, uphold, and VOICE toxic beauty standards in ANY way. beauty standards are filled with racism, fatphobia, classism, ableism, sexism, and every other fucking -ism- and -phobia imaginable, plus just generalized toxic judgment that doesnt belong in your personality. you shouldnt be okay with that. thats wrong of you. you need to take accountability and be responsible, cant be good >sometimes< when its convenient and itll get you praise, you need to unlearn this shit. you need to stop trying to trade in decent behavior for indecent behavior. its not a prize booth. you’re attempting this whole ‘good person’ thing for the wrong reasons.

for the love of god, if you consider yourself an activist, or even just a decent person, practice looking outside yourself more. when you spout this shit, in your mind you are hurting one person, the person you are trying to hurt. but what you’re actually blatantly saying is “i find these traits ugly, if i ever told you i dont, i was lying to you. i only pretend i dont think these traits are ugly to other ppl because >they< are probably a nice person, so i dont wanna hurt their feelings or w/e. cuz i mean obviously like everyone else i DO think its ugly deep down and just act like im progressive abt it, but i wont be real and admit that its actually ugly unless you Deserve(TM) my true feelings on it!! ill only revoke my kind pity lies the second somebody gives me an opportunity :/// im only hurting this one person even though im making fun of them for a trait others have, and are already mocked for having rampantly which is Why i find it ugly, thus contributing to the stigma. not only that, other people in ur space that you thought you could trust are gonna agree and laugh with me about this. im being nice!! this will not hurt anybody i dont want it to!! i am woke’ yeah anyways you are not immune to propaganda reaction image blah blah blah grow up and do better on a personal level please thanx this act is getting old

[littlebabycrybtch]

dkjsdfjsd im seeing the kink at pride discourse yet again and. instead of being Super Annoyed that nobody realizes both pride events that are 18+ and sexual, Along with plenty of pride events that are ‘’’’family friendly’’’’, already exist and have existed for plenty of years. i reach a certain point and then my anger just kinda fades away bc yall if anything comes out of this discourse like Anything that would historically matter or affect me or other lgbtq+ ppl later it will literally prob just be a slight uptick in how clearly pride event planners will indicate for participants if its an 18+ event or not. thats all that this repetitive shit will amount to. eventually ppl will calm down and simply Continue making the spaces in pride communities where they feel safe and comfortable like they always have, without feeling threatened by other spaces bc that type of diversity and inclusivity is quite literally how the four plus letter acronym community has Always worked down to its very roots. its not ‘make everything acceptable for every single person’ bc thats not rly possible in any group, and its definitely fucking not ‘kick ppl who dont like it my way to the curb with nothing’ but simply. ‘find my space here or make my own’. 

like. there are points made that having your ‘type’ of sex be met with violence for centuries means you Need a space to be openly unapologetically free about it and not stifled to feel truly supported. there are. also points with ‘sfw’ pride needing to exist for lgbtq+ youth attending, sexual assault victims, aspecs etc. but uh can i be real. if you have any basic sympathetic reasoning you know regardless of identity people are just people first, consent is consent and some lgbtq+ ppl just. are for w/e reason or no reason at all, not at pride for kink stuff and are not comfortable around it and are still there for necessary support, and for other people that might be the only reason they go and the type of support they are seeking. you both deserve support. you dont just stop being oppressed for your identity the second yall arent in the mood for the exact same environments so. seek out your environment. its not like. we’re gonna call a vote here and the need for ’’’sexy’’’’ or ‘’’’sexless’’’ pride events will go away once we pick the better one tm. you arent forced to go to either one, it merely existing is not a horrible thing, they both exist literally so yall can find which ones are for you. @ literally Every Single Individual Person in the lgbtq+ community please take this daily reminder that this community is not like a big brother mansion it is an apartment complex with plenty of rooms available for w/e you need to cope with rejection from cisheteronormative society, we are together with distinction. it is not all about you and no matter how all encompassing smth tries to be sometimes what the community does will not revolve around you and your groups but you can literally just seek out any space here tailored for your needs and it either already exists or you can make it exist. this is a natural progression, literally nothing is gonna just Halt the creation of accessibility, no matter how hard you try to suppress another side of it. inclusivitiy is not a threat, its a promise !

[littlebabycrybtch]

also real talk ever since the ‘misgendering problematic ppl is still transphobic’ post got 120,000+ notes and its half filled with slimy t/erf idiot brain rot ive realized how incredibly rewarding it is to just come here, drop an opinion that i know is right and could help struggling people, and then i leave till i got someone else to defend. if you wonder why i dont respond to most comments even nice ones its bc i literally use this blog like im opening a door to a room full of chaos, shouting ‘be nice’ with a megaphone, and then discreetly shutting the door and going outside for a smoke while ignoring the muffled sounds of everyone inside yelling at each other. ‘uhhh well if u dont put up with 100 ppl regurgitating the same flawed annoying cruel bullshit arguments on ur posts thinking it will suddenly manipulate you into seeing them as the good person all along that means UR RUNNING AWAY BC U KNOW UR WRONG’ thats such a cool hypothetical comment too bad i wont see it tho</3 g*tekeeping anybody from lgbtq+ besides like ped0s is inherently bad of you and not what the community is founded in or meant to be xoxo