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why is the most relatable teenager in this book the alien

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I still feel romantic attraction so growing up was super confusing. Was I straight? was I Gay? was I pan? I still got those mushy feelings but I didnt want to actually makeout or have sex or anything and it was super frustrating. Thinking about that made me recoil. Discovering the term Asexual in my mid 20's was like a huge "OH! Thats me!" moment

Can I just say, uh, I’m pretty sure noticing you’re asexual is harder than noticing you’re gay, straight, pan or otherwise. Like, I just read someone’s desciption of hitting puberty and, like, there’s nothing like that. There’s no sudden ‘boob’ moment, no sudden ‘fuck, I’d fuck that’ moment, not sudden anything. You just, like, plod on through life as usual going ‘oooh, that’s pretty, I’d like that hair’ or ‘oooooh, they’re nice, I’d like to be close to them’ but there’s no like, ‘oh, someone would want to fuck that but I don’t’, you know? You just- you don’t notice, you don’t realise everyone else has ‘had a moment’ but you haven’t, you just- keep going as you always have.

And then, much much later, you start to wonder why people are getting so caught up in drama for romance or sex, like, why bother? It’s not worth it, they’re not worth it, why are you doing stupid things for something that’s so- and then you wonder if there’s something wrong with you, start mentally over compensating. Like ‘uh, okay, um, who should I date? Who can I stand to date? Who could I stand to fuck?’ like- it’s not, it’s not something you want, but you want to fit in, to be normal.

Sometimes you don’t even know that you’re doing it.

Sometimes you don’t even know asexual’s a thing.

I dunno, I guess, I just feel like, uh, people should understand more?

idk sorry thank you for listening to me

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@ori-nai store: OrisResinDesigns

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My sister has made some lovely Asexual inspired keyrings which are for sale on both mine and her Etsy stores!

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Sisters store: OrisResinDesigns

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My sister is making and selling pretty resin dream/sun catchers and keyrings!

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My sister is making cool resin keyrings/keychains and selling them on her Etsy store!

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My lovely Sister over @ori-nai has been making and selling super cute keyrings~ 

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