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Tag a quality blog, You’re it! Quality doesn’t means that you have a lot of followers, or a lot of messages. It means that you’re nice to other people, and you deserve to be happy. If you get this message, someone is telling you that they love you as you are, and they don’t care how many followers you have. Send this to 15 blogs who deserve it. If you break the chain, nothing will happen. But it’s just good to let someone know that you love them. :)

💕 right back at you, love

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me, posting stuff for over 7 different fandoms at random all on the same blog:

#and then hardly being active for weeks only to post fifty things on the same day #couldn't be meee

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“how could you be so stupid” well you know what. its really not that hard

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just found out that right wingers got so mad at wikipedia for providing objective information and being unbiased to their cause that they…made…a conservative version…. of wikipedia……huh….?????

#i #what #plagg tag

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u cant spell website without. bestie :)

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i love rain. i love it when it drizzles and there's little pitter-patter on my window. i love when it's such heavy rain to the point i can't see anything outside. i love when it makes puddles. i love the sky right before and after it rains, when it's cloudy and it looks like it's out of a fantasy book and the smell of rain is still lingering. i love thunderstorms too. when there's lightning and it randomly lights up my room at night. i love absolutely everything about rain.

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ah yes. the classic "I can't sleep because it will be tomorrow in an instant and tomorrow requires things of me and I Simply Do Not Vibe With That". so I'll go through said tomorrow on 2 hours of sleep. very smart and once again no lessons will be learned

#i -

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i miss being able to take the battery of my phone out and just hold it

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mutuals you would give anything to sit under a big rainbow gym class parachute with 

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Astronomy I-

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I don't know how else to explain it. If someone says something to me that initially hits as horribly transphobic, I'm going to be hurt. However, if, after I confront them about it, they go "Oh no! Jesus no, that's nowhere near what I intended to say, I mean X" - well, I now feel a hell of a lot better. I like knowing people aren't actually trying to hurt me.

So yeah - knowing someone's intent can drastically alter the impact, especially if the impact was negative. It can literally fix a horrible case of miscommunication that could've resulted in a permanent rift in a friendship.

But I've been in communities where trying to have the second half of that conversation is "abuse" and "invalidating their pain".

No! It's actually a really fucking important part of communication! And to silence that second half of the interaction results in no one learning anything, no one healing, and everyone remaining hurt.

Person 1 remains offended, thinking their friend meant to say something transphobic. Person 2 remains hurt because now everyone thinks they're transphobic.

The pain of being misinterpreted is not and should not be dismissed, and fuck anyone who tries to do so to me in the future.

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My new method to avoid eye contact is a low cut top and a push-up bra.

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yeah

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why is being alive so… like this

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i want to be someone’s comfort person. their go to. their favorite. i want to be someone’s number one.

#vi yes u will shut up

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me: I will do things when I am less tired

me: *never becomes less tired*

me: oh no