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People be gasping when they know i watch porn before they know what genre i watch.

#porn #spicy #lol #people

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its always "youre cute" and never "you have betwitched me body and soul and i love, love, love you."

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found family trope: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

found family trope but they’re misfits, outcasts, and criminals: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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I put 'passion' in my Tumblr search bar today. There's a lot of touching there. It's the first day of your school, Health class, a lot wetter than usual.

#passion

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Jane Austen really said ‘I respect the “I can fix him” movement but that’s just not me. He’ll fix himself if knows what’s good for him’ and that’s why her works are still calling the shots today.

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A relatable guide to set of events a girl goes through when she has a crush :

Pov : you have seen him/her online

Stare at his/her picture for at least 5 minutes where she figures out if they have dimples, hairstyle, hair color, eye color, lips, beard or mostache, makeup (if they use or not), face shape, clothes, height, build, etc.

Assessing in head through that one single picture, the background, location, why would they be there, their thinking process why they chose the location to take a pic, the effort they put in taking the pic, the efforts they put in their hair, the pose, what are they giving? Cutie, hot guy with a body/girl with sexy abs, decent, attitude, enjoying life, sad poet, filters you used in the pic. (My tip is go for what's real.. but then again, your social life is no way to be alligned with a love intrest).

Figuring out your profile. If I don't know your name, I would go for Google lens and scroll obsessively till I see you. If name done, I would stop next at Insta. If you are private, beware soon you will be getting requests from her fake account, her friends' accounts, her relatives' account who don't even know that she knows their passwords and eventually her ex's.

If she gets into your account... 😈

Phase I :

Your bio. Doesn't matter you are German she is prepared to translate old Chinese even. Your age, your interests, your gender preferences, your favourite music, your favourite books, movies, artists, your "thang". Scrolling DOOOOOWWNN to the first post 4 years back and she knows that you used to watch Doraemon till 12 and about your myopia.

Phase II :

Your stories. Insta is a hub baby. Don't worry. she won't make it obvious, she will wait five minutes after you have uploaded something... Ok no, 3! She will slooooowly make her appearance in comments, will try to get an interaction but DISCRETELY. Would definitely greet you on mother's day. Watch out!

Phase III

Full Professional stalker mode on. Your friends. Your friend's friends and their boyfriends/girlfriends. Your ex/exes, and how much they broke you. Everyone you follow. Everyone you have ever mentioned in pics or stories and who they follow. And stalk _them_ to see how much you interact. Every pretty girl/boy you follow and scrolling down their feed counting every interaction and if you have ever complimented them (could it be more than friends?). Every person who constantly comments on/likes your posts. Is anyone clingy to you? Phase I-ing your mom, dad, siblings, dog and besties. No exceptions.

Phase IV :

You are crazy obsessed mode (when you should probably slide into dms but you would rather...) get to their tiktok, Snapchat, 8th grade Facebook Id! Put their primary school in g maps and read the only 2 reviews. Google their city and every "couples place" you can find there, definitely think about them at night in really inappropriate ways (and positions) and just... Baby get therapy.

#exposed #girls #obsessed #factsonly #crush tag #crush

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Not all men, but all women.

Not all men are pieces of shit, but all women have experience with men who are, and thats the problem

Not all men, but all women.

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men will have one bad encounter with a woman and turn into misogynists, and then turn around and have a hissy fit when a woman dares say she doesn't trust men, because 'not all men are like that'.

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Stop saying not all men if...

You begged a girl for nudes.

You saved a girls nudes without her permission.

You looked at nudes a girl sent to your friends without her knowledge/consent.

You asked out a girl multiple times no matter how many times she said no.

You had to convince a girl to have s*x with you.

You participated in “games” like slap as$ Friday.

You touched a girl/guy without their consent.

You threatened to k!ll yourself if a girl turned you down for a date/s*x.

You’ve told a woman to cover up for breastfeeding in public.

You pulled on a girls bra strap (idc how old you were at the time).

You’ve looked up a girls skirt/dress.

You’ve taken inappropriate pictures of a girl without their consent.

You’ve threatened harm to a girl for turning you down for s*x/a date.

You’ve brushed off Womens/girls stories of sexually harassment/assault because it “happens to men too” or “it’s not all men”.

The fact that men don’t understand the lasting affects of these situations scares me.

The fact that men only bring up male victims to silence women’s stories scares me.

The fact that men refuse to listen to us scares me.

The fact that we can’t do something simple like walk home or go for a run scares me.

The fact that men pretend like it’s our fault scares me.

The fact that men don’t listen to the women in their lives scares me.

We need to do better.

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I remember my sister telling me about her male teacher who asked her if she was alright when she was crying in class. She was being bullied by a fellow girl. The teacher asked my sister to come to his class and after explaining the situation, he called the other girl to resolve the issue.

We all remember awesome teachers.

when i say not all men i specifically mean my teacher who let me cry during his class and pretended not to overhear my friends and i talking about the fact that i was having girl trouble™ actually it wasn’t even girl trouble™ it was unrequited crush™ trouble and i was just sitting there doing the practical assignment and crying and when i was done my friends and i asked him if we could leave and he said yeah so we went for a walk until i felt better and the next class we had he just casually asked if i was ok now

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“Text me when you get home safe”

“Call me when you get home”

“If I don’t text you by 11pm call me, if I don’t answer call the police”

Keys between fingers, escape route located, fast walk activated, headphones out, hair tucked in, head down, look busy, no eye contact, speed walk past open alleyways, bushes and gates.

How fast can I run with the shoes I have on? how fast can I walk with the things I’m holding?

Don’t leave at night alone, don’t dress in those kinds of clothes, don’t say no to a mans offers, but don’t not say no because it’s still your choice, don’t smile at him, but don’t not smile, don’t wear makeup, but don’t not wear makeup, don’t go out alone with a man, but don’t go out alone at all.

At this point women are expected to not breathe.

And you can say not all men, but for us its all men everywhere

In the bright sun or the dead of night, we aren’t safe.

We never are.

Even when we take every precaution, every safety step,

We still end up taken, murdered, sold in the sex trade, beaten or raped.

Sara eveard did everything right.

Bright clothes, busy streets, running shoes, passed CCTV camera, made her self seen.

And she still was taken and murdered.

By a police officer.

How do we stay safe when we can’t even walk down the road with our fearing, or planning an escape route just in case.

Do men when they go out at night hold there keys in between there fingers? Do they text there mates to call them if they aren’t home by a certain time?

Do men get told not to leave there drinks uncovered, or to not reject advances?

Women get murdered for saying no to men.

When does it stop? When is not ‘don’t rape women’ and instead it’s

“Educate your son not to rape”

When is it take no for no and not

“Well we can just negotiate”

When is enough dead women enough to show we aren’t safe ever.

Because it’s not all men

But it’s enough to make us fear being near all men.

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Men are the most tone deaf people ever. Either they have no empathy at all for specifically women or their social aptitude is so absymal they can’t seem to feel with anything. It’s almost as if women aren’t functional equal human beings with value and individuallity and they don’t see women as such, as human, or that they switch off the empathy and common sense switch when they encounter women because they don’t feel the NEED to. Because there’s no necessity for it and they know they could get away with most things throughout history. 

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Can every person who sees this on their dash please promise to show it to at least one man? I swear to god if I read or hear “not all men” one more fucking time, I will go apeshit. We know not every single man in existence has abused, harassed, assaulted, or otherwise hurt a woman. But I can guarantee that every single woman on the planet has been traumatized by a man on at least one occasion. If men as a whole could get the idea of accountability in their fucking pea brains, we might not have women making endless videos trying to explain why we collectively feel threatened by them.

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Men really be like "be my therapist and let me disrespect your boundaries while I can't even treat you decently".

don’t quote me on this, but i’ve watched some video essays on this. men are apparently “promised” a lot of things in society by the media growing up. so some of them just expect to be treated like kings? it’s mad weird. blame the patriarchy!