midnightmillie

[midnightmillie]

Don't ever fall for the "if you really loved me you'd be there for me in any way I ask you to 24/7" guilt trip. Because if THEY really loved YOU, then they wouldn't be trying to manipulate or pressure you into sacrificing your mental health in order to be there for them. Then your own mental health would be a priority of equal importance.

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hey, I posted this a long time ago and many people in the reblogs were concerned about the difference between someone loving you wholeheartedly and someone obsessing over you. glad people pointed it out. i think this post was meant to sort of point out the difference between someone having solely attraction and someone really wanting to get to know you and love every detail about you.

while its super easy to romanticize that kind of ‘i want to know everything about you’ love its super important to stay in grounded relationships where all parties have their own lives and interests. obviously if you feel suffocated in a relationship then there is something not quite right and you can either try and work on it OR you exit it.

hope y’all have a wonderful day

date someone who is interested in you. i don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. i mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. someone who wants to read every word you write. someone who wants to hear every note of your favourite song, or watch every scene of your favourite movie. someone who wants to find every scar on your body, and learn where they came from. someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. there is a difference between attraction and interest. find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.

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Right, hello all and I hope you’re having a good day! I ‘made’ this post a long time ago and like a complete dickhead I didn’t credit it. It’s labeled as unknown quote from Instagram, but still have somewhat original link

With this said please stop coming for me regarding its content and how ‘obsessive’ it may sound to some of you. I firmly believe that the quote can be interpreted beautifully and remind some of us that we should strive to be around supportive people and have nurturing relationships instead of staying around with someone who doesn’t really want to deeply know us as a person.

Furthermore, I don’t think that the sentences are meant to be interpreted as a combination. Each of them is supposed to represent the same thing, just with different words/examples - someone will come along who will truly find most things you do interesting and cherish you for them.

Bye now, I hope you are all having a lovely day.

date someone who is interested in you. i don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. i mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. someone who wants to read every word you write. someone who wants to hear every note of your favourite song, or watch every scene of your favourite movie. someone who wants to find every scar on your body, and learn where they came from. someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. there is a difference between attraction and interest. find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.

#repost

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[ARTICLE] Moonbyul does everything that she likes, even though it might not match the style of a girl group.

MAMAMOO members each have their own charms. With the difference in their looks and styles. On stage, they look like 4 soloist divas performing on one stage.

Moonbyul is MAMAMOO’s main rapper. With all the 4 members each having their own charms, Moonbyul has her own solid stand of her charms. Moonbyul’s charms includes coolness. She likes to hear praises about her being cool more than her being pretty.

On a program, she was known to have a greasy character. This terms is used for both genders to express their cringiness. Moonbyul perfectly suit the ‘greasy’ gestures as well as ments, often gaining laughters from her members.

This is not usually seen in femininity, her character is also a rare one amongst female artists especially in idols. Moonbyul’s character attracts her female fans. Whether is her being cool or greasy, she doesn’t hide that charm of hers.

Many international fans often used the word ‘Androgyne’ to describe her. It’s not a word that many knows about in Korea. Androgyne is a non-binary gender identity associated with androgyny, it has a gender which is simultaneously feminine and masculine, Moonbyul have never declared her identity, it should be only seen as a persona of her character as an idol.

There’s a consistency to her coolness and that’s doing things that she likes. Her recent solo release 'Eclipse’ is a hip hop song infused with future sounds. It’s a genre similar to male idols like TVXQ. The dance is matched with urban dance steps that she usually likes.

She mentioned in an interview with MMTG on youtube saying “I don’t want a line dividing masculine and feminine in music. It’s not a problem when women do it as well.”

KPOP is an industry that involves lots of capital. During plannings, they usually go for 'safe’ choices to reduce risk (of losing money). For a long time, female groups are made according to “male gaze”. As the history of KPOP goes by, the patriarchal gender stereotypes have further strengthen. This criticism is often heard in KPOP.

There are, of course people who are not afraid to attack. When the timing and luck are right, the turning point of industry begins mainly with these people. In the end, a singer who is being buried in the 'scene’ is the one creating a new trend. The reason why KPOP is really interesting is because you can see the differences at the media level.

Moonbyul does what she likes and does well in it, regardless of whether it fits or does not fit the classic girl group’s standards. Looking at that, I’ve released that KPOP is indeed interesting.

trans by lunaestrellados

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Dude this one customer was like MY SON HAS TO GET A JOB AND STOP MOOCHING OFF MY MONEY. And I was like “how old is he?” And she was like “17” and I was like. Holy shit you’re a freak! Lmao. Like teens can get jobs sure but he’s still a child you’re responsible for acting like he’s mooching off you when it’s YOUR responsibility to take care of him. What a fucking freak I hate capitalism lmao

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me as a kid: eats irregularly, gets stressed, scared and depressed every day of the week, gets eaten up by anxiety, dissociates for weeks, has crazy dangerous ideas of how to cope, self harms, gets abused by toxic friends, falls into obsessions to have meaning in life

my parents: literally do not notice a single thing

me: neglected? me? excuse me but I am ToughTM  and do not REQUIRE ATTENTION

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I go crazy because here isn’t where I want to be.

Arctic Monkeys, R u mine? (via music-and-quotes)

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Amy: Are you drunk already?

Laurie: Not already - at last.

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that scene in little women when jo is talking about how there is more to a women’s life than marriage because women have souls as well as hearts. but then pauses at the end and says “...but i’m so lonely” in pure anguish.

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....i think that...we should all just consume media that reminds us that love connects us all. that reminds us that love is the foundation for which we live and survive on. that remind us that love is eveywhere, and that letting it in, letting it take root in your chest and letting it bloom, is something you can do. that reminds us that we can make everything love, if we just let it. that reminds us that family is whoever you want it to be, family is who you pick. that reminds us that love is everything you want it to be, if you let it be.

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my childhood, or, as i like to call it, the general abyss with one or two memories attached to it

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Some ppl say comedy is dead cause of “political correctness” but like john mulaney did an entire bit on captchas and bo burnham did an entire bit on not being able to fit ur hand inside a pringles can so really anything is possible as long as ur actually funny

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[midnightmillie]

im not being funny but artistry will save your life. music, painting, pottery, writing, carving, weaving, the act of creating will save you.

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fuck all internalized misogyny except for misery business by paramore