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So I've really battled with myself about airing all the dirty laundry.
It's just not me and it doesn't align with my beliefs, but I also can't stand idly by and watch the same shit happen to other people without them knowing that they aren't alone.
Simblr is an absolute cesspool and it's time we've acknowledged it.
Ive been sexually harassed since day one
•People regularly commenting on my random posts asking for pics
•People sending me unsolicited pics
•When I came out I had an influx of people sending me graphic things they wanted to do to me
•As well as people telling me I should be raped and murdered REGULARLY
When I tried to open up about my mental health I got a ton of messages from people telling me that I should just kill myself.
When I finally came out of my shell and started to share some of the music stuff I was doing, everyone started calling me a rapist because of a song i covered.
When i said I would be taking a break because my mother was in the hospital. A ton of people sent me messages telling me they hoped she died. Someone even went as far as threatening to kill her themselves in a detailed message.
A good friend of mine (who was 16? At the time) posted something about black history month iirc and everyone started sending her slurs and telling her they were "going to lynch her ugly n***** ass". This happened for three weeks until she deleted her account.
When I showed support for her I started getting the same comments. Then, when I said I wasn't black, I was called racist.
Any time I made a non-white sim I was accused of cultural appropriation.
Any time I shared insights into my own culture I was also accused of cultural appropriation.
When I would hit out at the racism I've faced as a non-white person, I was told I was racist because I was taking the spotlight away from black people.
Any time I made a queer sim, guess what. Everyone was mad because I wasn't trans, ace, bi, pan, or even gay enough.
As someone that doesn't believe gender plays a part in love, and when I said I don't like labels, I was hounded and called homophobic because I didn't call myself pansexual. And then when I broke down and called myself bisexual, I was called transphoboic because I wasn't "attracted to other genders" which is very much so NOT the case, but no body was willing to hear that.
Two of my best judys can't even long on here without someone sending them a very violent transphoboic message.
Any spelling error I made, I got crucified for.
When I said I was dyslexic I got called stupid and r*******.
When I said I had autism, but was diagnosed with aspergers, because the doctors refused to update, I was called a nazi
When I refused to spread hate or say anything bad about people that were literally attacking me, I was called fake and accused of playing childish games
When I finally said I was being mistreated I was called petty, told I was childish yet again, and it was used as ammo that I'm not the "kumbya" person I claim to be
When I posted some of the awful messages I was receiving, I was told I had to take them down because they were triggering and that it wasn't fair to the person who sent them. Then when I just spoke about the messages I was receiving I was called a liar because I didn't have the "receipts".
Yet when I said I couldn't stand the toxicity of simblr, I was told it was because I was evil and that everybody was just "exposing" me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Why don't you want to come back?
maybe because i was bullied for three years when all i wanted to do was share my art maybe because anytime i expressed anything you guys told me to kill myself or called me slurs maybe because all my friends left because yall were doing the same shit to them and I've had enough. This community is toxic as fuck. I'm done.
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Are you ever coming back?
Eh, nobody really liked me being here anyway. Probably not unless a lotta shit changes, I might post art pieces here and there as inspo strikes, but most likely not like I used to. Most of my friends aren't really here anymore, and this new wave of simblr is just idk this used to be a safe space and it's just not anymore. I really hope you guys are still finding joy in it though <3
Thanks for the ask, and I'm sorry it was such a bummer of an answer :/
If you're interested though I do still run other blogs on here
@patronsaintofhomosandpain & @stgaybryelofhomo
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12 Maxis-Match-y eyebrows!
18 EA-like swatches each, some are slightly darker than EA’s to match a wider variety of skintones
All genders, T-E
Enabled for occult sims
Disabled for random
Some hand drawn & some edited EA brows
Custom thumbnails with picture, name and number for easy identification
Pack 01
DL (SimFileShare, merged & individual files)
Pack 02
DL (SimFileShare, merged & individual files)
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4 nose presets for female sims!
Nose Preset 01
T-E
Not enabled for random
Enabled for occult sims
DL (SimFileShare)
Nose Preset 02
T-E
Not enabled for random
Similar to 1, slightly pointier
Enabled for occult sims
DL (SimFileShare)
Nose Preset 03
T-E
Not enabled for random
Enabled for occult sims
DL (SimFileShare)
Nose Preset 04
T-E
Not enabled for random
Very versatile, my favorite one so far
Enabled for occult sims
DL (SimFileShare)
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A better version of the eye preset from my first post!
Eye Preset 4 V2
Remade from scratch
Upgraded to all ages and genders (seperate meshes for each in one .package. Now all your sims can have cat eyes!)
Works better with eyeliner than the previous version
Has a texture now, so no more messed up eyelids
Not enabled for random
Enabled for occult sims
DL (SimFileShare)
Mouth Preset 4
Inspired by my cat….
All genders, T-E
Not enabled for random
Enabled for occult sims
DL (SimFileShare)
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roman and greek nose presets by squeamishsims
hello a lovely anon asked for a greek nose preset and i decided to make a roman one too! these were created for male frame so look a lil funky on females (especially the roman one as shown above) and theyre far from perfect but !! hopefully theyre useful to somebody !
custom thumbnails
male/female teen +
download (sfs)
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2006 Preset Pack by squeamishsims
thank u so much for 12,000 followers which is insane i dont know what i’m doing here but ily all and honestly thank u so much for making simblr a lovely community to be a part of and i hope ur having a wonderful day and thank u so much for downloading all the dumb stuff i upload and following my stupid blog ❤
so here’s a face preset pack ive been working on for a while!! some are better than others but i hope u guys like them anyway or at least one or two of them! i tried to mase this pack from what ppl suggested n stuff so ! mwah
Lips - female/male teen + // (looks best on females, bit funky on males) Jaw - female/male teen + // uses some shadows from @faaeish​ ‘s structure skin details  for some extra shARpness!! ❤❤ Eyes 1 - female teen + // meant to be “droopy”  Eyes 2 - female/male teen + // monolid eyes ! // makes male brows go a lil funky but not too bad Nose 1 - female teen + // idk just wanted a big ol round nose for females tbh Nose 2 - female/male teen + // made for male faces but still looks ok on females! (”a nose that could build or break a wall” suggestion)
!!Under the read more are some gifs to show u how to make some of these presets to look how they look in the preview above! as well as the custom thumbnails to spot them.
DOWNLOAD (sfs)
(pls tag me if u use them id love to see!)
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Selkie Skinblend
Info;
for all ages & genders
custom thumbnail // 16 swatches
4 lip & 2 nose options // w/wo nose bridge freckles
eyelid free
2 slots: skin details — forehead, mouth crease
Download - SFS
Credits: @adelarsims // @nesurii // @sims3melancholic // @obscurus-sims
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Ahhh I cant believe Desy made it so far!! It was so fun to see this all unfold! Thank you! It was an honor and a privilege 🥹
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but for 2nd round, the rules determine two more contestants shall leave.
the leaderboard shows us that desdemona evangeline and draven harland are the ones with less points.
@morgynemberisagenderfluiddaddy thank you so much for one of the most dreadful contestants ever! desdemona showed a fiery character. i am her number one fan!
@bloomingkyras i am so sad to see our boy go!!! he had so much potential but the rules are the rules. thank you so much for sending him my way!
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@salemssimblr & @merofthefae yall are servinggg thanks for the tag!!!
LETS GET READYYY TOOOO RRRRRRUMMMMMMBLE
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Tag your friends, followers, family, pets.. idk No pressure!! 💋
@manjibunny @nanamikentoseyebags @chronic-claire-universe @softshuji @deskaisers @scaramood @hoeshi4444 @kenuis @k1sakis @ranscutedoll @satocidal @moonartemisia @ask-the-insect-hashira @strawberrystepmom AND EVERYONE WHO WANTS TO
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I LOVE YOUUUU!!!!! 💕
simblr gratitude day (so sorry i'm so late)
hi! omg i just logged in for the first time in a bit and i just saw some of u tagged me in your posts for the simblr appreciation day 🥹💕
okok, first to my moots 🫶 i really appreciate u all guys! u make this community such a great place to be in and it's a delight to have u around: thanks for ur edits, renders, cas pics, stories, lookbooks, sim dumps, challenges, ocs, builds. thank u for EVERYTHING, really.
pls go visit their blogs and check their stuff, they're incredibly talented :D
@void-imp @alelelesimz @buttertrait @boobpancakes @vicciouxs @lucidicer @rottengurlz @m0ckest @superflare @squea @madfeary @lonvely @bibliosims @lilypixels @fizzytoo @liliumsims @latte-trait @raiiny-bay @stinkrascal @walkiie @simmingonthelow @radical-sims @adair-the-bard @agena87 @diwns @barbieaiden @morgynemberisagenderfluiddaddy @sweetbeagaming @luvbugtrait @soju-vibe @valenthario @birdietrait
aww love u guys and everything u make, thanks for inspiring me sm with what u create, kisses and hugs to u 🫂💕🫶
shoutout to all the cc creators that are a constant in my game. thanks for ur amazing content AND for making my sims look pretty and hot, u make making simmies much more enjoyable 💕
here's a quick list so u can go check their stuff:
@yooniesim @simstrouble @evellsims @johnnysimmer @lamatisse @squea @sammi-xox @saruin @nucrests @rheallsim @okruee @nesurii @northernsiberiawinds @pralinesims @simandy @ratboysims @vibrantpixels @pyxiidis
and thanks to everyone who follows me and everyone who has ever liked and/or reblogged my content, especially those who leave nice tags! it really means a lot to me to know people like what i make 🫂
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Babies ~
When you randomly make your ocs as babies and your friends hold a gun to your head and convince you to make a series uwu
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Guys!! My bestie wrote this sick ass fic. READ IT!!!
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Self-Confidence Boost // Ittorou Modern AU
Itto’s silent.
Itto is never silent and that has Gorou’s heart hammering in his chest harder than the first time he’d told the Oni he loved him. Is he upset? No, he doubts it. They’d never really talked about having kids together, but Itto had mentioned a few times he wanted a big family. Sure it was a bit early, and they were a tad young (Gorou was only a freshman in university after all), but would that really be so bad it’d upset his boyfriend into silence?
“Itto?” He spoke in a whisper, taking a step towards where his boyfriend was perched at the edge of their bed. He wormed his way in between Itto’s thighs, taking his face into his hands and gently forcing him to look at him. Red orbs swam with unshed tears and what looked like a mix of both fear and sadness. Gorou feels his heart sink immediately. “What’s going on in that head of yours, baby?” He murmurs, wrapping his arms around the Oni’s neck to bring him closer.
Itto complies and wraps his own arms around Gorou’s waist.
“What if I’m a bad dad?”
If Gorou didn’t have enhanced hearing, he probably never would have caught the question, but he does and he can physically feel his heart breaking. “You won’t be.”
“But what if I am?” Itto wasn’t dumb, he knew what people said about him; that he was too brash and loud, that he was nothing more than a high school dropout. They weren’t wrong.
Gorou sighs lightly and leans down to press a kiss to the top of the Oni’s head.
“Itto, you won’t be. I’ve seen how you are with Daisuke. Yes, you can be a little rough, but that kid adores you. He really looks up to you.” Gently, Gorou runs his hands through his boyfriend’s white hair. “You can see it in the way he mimics you and the way he hangs onto every word you say.” Sometimes that wasn’t the best idea, but it hopefully got his point across.
“Yeah, but-”
“No buts. Will you be perfect? No, but no parent is. We'll figure this out together, okay?" He smiles softly as he feels his boyfriend nod against his chest. "You've got a lot of love to give too. Our kid will never know how it feels to go without. You'll do amazing."
Gorou has all the faith in the world in Itto; knew he'll be an even better father than he thought. "Kids always love the 'fun parent' which means you're already the favorite parent."
It's hard to miss the shake of his shoulders and the way Gorou's chest grew warm at the puff of warm breath that came from a quiet laugh.
"You always know what to say," comes a response that’s currently being muffled.
"Only when it comes to you."
"I love you," Itto whispers, then presses a kiss to his chest.
"I love you too, Itto."
There’s another kiss to his chest, then another a little lower.
Gorou squirms lightly as his boyfriend works his way down his body, stopping when he reaches his stomach.
One wouldn't be able to tell at first glance, but someone who knew Gorou's body as well as he did could notice the way it curved slightly, abs softer than they usually were.
His thumbs brush against the exposed skin right above his hips as he presses a kiss right above his navel. Then he presses another and another, causing Gorou to erupt into a fit of laughter.
"Itto, stop," the brunette gasps out as he begins to try and playfully push the Oni away, but Itto holds onto him tight and continues to pepper kisses onto his stomach.
Regardless of if he believes him or not, Itto really was going to be an amazing father and he'll happily believe in him enough for the both of them.
After all, he'll realize eventually.
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Hi ~ 🫡
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💜🦇💜🦇💜🦇💜
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holy FUCK love love love
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Thank you @simandy for letting me test out your cc! 💕💕 I had fun playing around with it, and I hope I served any justice 😭😭 (there's a reason I don't post my sims lol)
And thank you to the other creators that I've used to make these sims. @saruin @ssspringroll @kikuruacchi @madlensims @trillyke @pyxiidis @obscurus-sim @northernsiberiawinds @simbience @sewersims @evellsims
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