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Quick reminder since apparently it bears reminding in both directions: if bigoted people, closed-minded people overall, or your own internalized insecurities misinterpret a queer person’s message in a way that hurts/endangers you, yeah, it sucks, but it’s not the fault of the queer person in question, nor should it be a reason for them to silence themselves. They’re probably as hurt/pissed as you are that someone misinterpreted and misused their message to do harm.

Of course sadly there’ll still be queer people that actually DO mean harm and dismissal to other queer people – I ain’t speaking for those and it’s not the best way to ensure their and others’ wellbeing imo. I’m just saying – not all people will be like that. That’s what I want to believe. So hopefully let’s not put everyone in the same bag, keep supporting each other, WHILE allowing each other to advocate for our own visibility, without having to self-erase or self-censor to accomodate to what haters might say.

It’ll be tougher this way, maybe, because humans seem to like to draw extreme conclusions very quick, but I don’t believe there’s any better way for us all to be alright and stay alright on the long run.

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i have a very specific problem, which is that i thought a league of their own and yellowjackets were the same show. they are not.

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ALYCIA DEBNAM-CAREY via Instagram, June 21st 2023

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Just realized that the reason I love making friends on tumblr is because it’s exactly how you make friends on the playground as a six year old. No, I don’t know their name but they love mermaids too and built this awesome sand castle. No, I don’t know their age but their imaginary cheetah is friends with mine. You like this show? You like this character?? You can sing the theme song really loud??? Here is a flower crown. Here is a juice box. You can share my time and I might never see you again but part of you stays in my soul forever. In my mind we’re still on the swing set and the sky is blue and nothing will ever be wrong again.

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boobies make everything better

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#ALOTO + ao3 tags : Gretson Edition (Pt 2)

#a league of their own

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Happy October everyone I'm back on my "From Trish Park's perspective, The Haunting of Hill House is a romcom in which the other characters happen to be acting absolutely bonkers" bullshit again

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guy in a band @ his gf: hey I wrote you a song…..kinda nervous

stacy: aww no it’s okay let’s hear it :)

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there is no way to hate myself into becoming a person i like.

there is no way to shame myself into a better life.

i can’t motivate myself to heal in the same ways i encouraged my own destruction.

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botanical gardens deserve to be a more popular place for dates😤

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Best boy

(via)

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being on tumblr desktop version is so fucking funny like girl i’m bloggin’

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you are the only luscious, funny, hot as hell, baby that i need

#i miss them #wayhaught #wearp

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#ronance #stranger things

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stranger things + quotes (steve, robin, eddie & nancy)

#stranger things

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how do the people walk around their house

barefoot

socks

sandals / chanclas / flip flops

shoes (wtf is wrong with you)

#barefoot always