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help with my sexuality?

I've always that I was bi or something along those lines but the thought of banging a guy always makes me ick am i in denial?

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Help with my sexuality

Hi, im 15 and identify as a cis woman and while I don’t use Reddit often Ive come here in a time of need I suppose, I’ve identified as pan since I was around 12 and for the fast few days I’ve started thinking more into it as I have a crush on a guy, while I’ve dated a few woman I haven’t really felt the butterfly crush feeling Ive gotten with the guys I’ve had crushes on- but while dating women in my past I’ve gotten this warm soft feeling that isn’t exactly that butterflyish feeling?? but I still have a desire for a relationship with a girl despite never feeling that knots in your stomach butterfly feeling, does this not count as attraction? Thank you, sorry that this is typed so all over the place- its just been on my mind for a while.

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is it normal for a gay man to be sexually attracted to vaginas but not women?

i (m/18) am gay and ive been out for about 5 or 6 years. my first ever boyfriend was a trans man and it never bothered me he had a vagina. now that me and him are no longer together i've been talking to other guys. both with penises and vaginas. but lately ive realized, yes i still find penises attractive, but i also find vaginas equally attractive? but im not sexually attracted to women? is that transphobic to think? am i gay? am i bi? am i something else? any help or anything would be highly appreciated

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Non-heterosexual people.

How would you feel if you found out there WAS something in the water causing you to be the way you are?

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I need help with my sexuality

I’m a 17 year old cis man, a few months ago i was admitted into a mental hospital and now that i’ve been discharged i’m trying to make sure i never return, part of this was discovering my personality, alongside with that my sexuality. I’ve gone back and forth on if i’m asexual, i find woman attractive yet find the idea of sexual intercourse unappealing and chore-like. At the same time i’m not comfortable with the idea of an open relationship. I think I want a relationship but minus the sex part. is this natural or am i just selfish?

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Is it possible to identify as 2 orientations?

Can someone be both asexual and demisexual at the same time? If yes, could u elaborate a little so it makes more sense to me. Thank u!

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Should I broaden my horizons?

I (m19) recently discovered that I’m finsexual (which basically means I’m attracted to feminine people, regardless of gender) thanks to this sub. I already knew this for years but was curious and wanted to put a label on it.

I am new to dating and have been searching for females, mtf, and non-binary people. As I am looking for a real relationship online it’s gonna be a while before I see any results, I know this.

I was wondering if I should include (for lack of better term) femboys in my search. I’ve been sexually attracted to them for a while and I’ve watched some porn focused around them. My only problem is I’m not sure if I can be romantically involved with a man, no matter how feminine.

I originally thought I couldn’t and I’m still leaning towards no, but I’ve learned a lot about myself in the past month. If it was just a hookup I wouldn’t be asking, but I’m looking for a real relationship. Any opinion/advice welcome. Ask me anything.

TL;DR I’m not sure if I should add femboys to my search of soulmate. I’m sexually attracted to them, but not sure about emotionally.

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I’m confused abt my sexuality

I’m a girl who have been with men and women but the last four to five years I lost all interest in men and only started dating women rn I’m in a relationship with a woman but somehow Im confused I watch porn with men in it and it turn me on and I started finding some men attractive but I can never imagine myself dating a man but it still confuses me

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confused

So for years I've been trying to figure out how to define myself sexually. I'm a 42 year old single father, I'm attracted to women physically, and enjoy sex with them. But lately, it hasn't been as good as could be and maybe that's partially due to the fighting I was having with partner is recently split with. But lately I've had sex with another man and had far more powerful ejaculations/orgasms. And my dick gets rock hard faster and lasts longer. I mean as soon as I start to suck a dick it's instant erection, but with women sometimes it takes a minute. But I'm not physically attracted to men at all, except for the dick. And always feel guilt afterwards. When I have sex with men, I tend to be the bottom and enjoy sucking dick and being fucked. With women there is no guilt and I enjoy the intercourse but feel regret about not being able to have the same feelings I get with sex with men.

Open to advice and suggestions and whatever else is offered. First time reaching out with this anywhere.

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Weird question

So for about 2 years now I’ve been wondering about my sexuality and I don’t know if this is even a question about sexuality, but I have been wondering whether I’m aromantic or not. The reason I’m so confused is because I still feel sexually attracted to people, but I’ve never been actually romantically interested in someone. Is this a normal thing? Whenever I hear about aromantic people they’ve also been asexual. And when I talk to people , they tell me oh you just haven’t found the right person yet, but this doesn’t sit right with me for some reason.

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My penis is only 3 inches long

It is the source of my low self-esteem and lack of confidence. It makes me feel like a literal child. I don't even try to approach women because there's no point. Should I just accept this cruel fate?

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hi I'm new here

So I'm just a questioning confused porn addict M22 I have been addicted to porn since age of 15 and started fapping at 19, same year I changed from straight porn to gayporn. It is messing with my mind Now I'm confused it I'm straight or gay because of too much consumption of porn , i can't differ if I'm straight eventhough all my life I've only loved girls, but now I'm in the middle, trying so hard to figure out myself. They say if u go 90 days nofap/noporn it can help u know and figure out urself, sadly for me I can't get past a week now . My longest was 16 days. I'm trying, hope I figure myself out soon

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Need some help

Hi everyone, Im here because I dont know who I can talk about this with so maybe some of yall could help me I had sex w my girlfriend, but we didnt use condom I didnt came in her but she was afraid of she getting pregnant so she took a morningafter pill in order not to get preg She has been bleeding brown blood and her nips hurt a lot I want to know if these symtoms are normal and are part of the secondary symtoms of the pill Thanks

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What could be some ways to get parents on board for supporting evidence-based sex ed in schools?

Right now a significant barrier for having everyone get proper sex ed is tied to the perception parents have of it. Parents rally against it. Parents pull out their children from sex ed classes.

What could be some initiatives to basically get parents to be more sex positive so they help or at least do not interfere with the new generation getting proper sex ed?

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Sexuality help

I've just been thinking lately, and I'm a little unsure I know what sexual attraction feels like outside of a relationship. I have a partner I'm very attracted to, but I think it feels a lot different with her than with other people. Other people are just like, pretty or more like "I could tolerate it." and I also struggle with hypersexuality which makes things more complicated because of how I see things as a result. Is attraction to strangers supposed to be a dull, "I guess so" type deal most of the time? At least compared to a much stronger desire type thing in a relationship? My apologies if this doesn't really make sense. I'm just not entirely sure how to word it.

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I don't know what the heck I am and it's killing me

Okay, so I'm a girl and I'm 17 and I'm struggling with my sexuality.

So most girls I know are questioning if maybe they like women too, if they're bisexual/pansexual/or whatever. Well I am the complete opposite. I have no problem knowing I like women, I'm completely in love with women, in literally every way possible.

But my biggest confusion???? I like men or not?

I'm gonna tell you something really quick so maybe you'll be able to help me out.

When I was 3 I was raped till I was 8 and that was the ONLY experience I had with men. I still have a lot of problems because of this and sometimes I wonder if I don't like... humm everything about a man because of this trauma. I've been able to fall in almost love with a guy before but I don't feel sexually attracted to men.

My experience with women consists in one 'thing' I had with a friend that never went very far. She was really religious and after with kissed and touched a little, she'd tell me I was forcing her (which I wasn't) and asked me to stop, but then she started things all over again. For a really long time, I felt so guilty and never tried to do anything with anyone else. (I'm better now, I know she was feeling guilty and confused and I was there and it was easier to blame me).

Now, I feel like I can date a woman and have sex with them but with men it's like "I think I can date you but I don't want you to touch me and I don't want to touch you, either."

And before anyone asks or says. Yes, I did go to a therapist and it didn't help cuz I never felt really comfortable enough with them to talk about this and I know labels are not that important, but to me, they are. I just feel like I need them to know who I am.

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Does this sexuality have a name

Hi reddit I was wondering if my sexuality has a name. I consider myself bisexual but I dont feel a romantic atraction to boys. I know about aromanticism and asexualism but it's only on my gay side ao let me know if this sexuality has a name or a quicker way to explain to anyone who asks what my sexuality is. (15M)

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