Hi! You don't have to answer if you don't want to but do you have any advice on how to know if you're a system or not for confused people?
Answering this the best we can, but here’s what helped us!
This is also how we identify new headmates amd whose fronting, but we like to call them “Hey! This Isn’t Me!” moments. We try to figure out or identify moments where we’re doing things and have that “huh. this isn’t me, weird” feelings. The best way I can describe it is like? Not knowing your orientation or gender, you know something wrong/not correct but you don’t exactly know what. It’s like that, but for like, your sense of self. A lot of systems we’ve talked to when they didn’t realize they were a system remembered they had times where they didn’t feel like them and did things they normally wouldn’t do, no matter how small. With people who are trying to figure out if their a system or not we usually recommend trying to figure out if you have those moments.
And example I can give it it’s not clear is. You’re you, but sometime during the day you stop in a place you normally don’t go, like the kitchen, and you think “wow this feels off- i don’t feel the same/i feel like out of place“ for no particular reason, even if you have no other negative feeling at the time, or after realizing, it’s just kinda like, a weird nagging feelings something isn’t right. For us when we get that feeling we try to figure out who we are / narrow down who we could be, and that usually helps.
Other than that, like? Communication you know. Try to reach out to people internally and externally and see if you get any responses. It’s not a quick process for everyone! It takes time for a lot of people :)!!
outernaut is another term for a host, like someone who just takes care of irl shit and responsibilities. we said pseudo-outernaut on our (gore/june) introduction post because we don’t like.. actually take care of anything, it just looks like we do / seems like it to outsiders cuz we’re the bodies default peoples :P
Hello i used to abuse members in my System. In my source heavily and somewhat in The system. I have sense changed or try to But i fear they plan on finding a way to destroy me as a Alter or Replace me. or Torture me mentally as revenge. What should i do to escape System abuse and to help Them heal from what i did? note we can't leave each other's sides really we're stuck please respond asap - 🧑🏻👑😈✨
hey anon i get your having a rough time with your system and they’re treating you badly but please don’t dump stuff like this in our inbox. we aren’t capable mentally or emotionally to give you advice.
i’m basically the “persona” of the system! while i act a pseudo-outernaut, im basically just a bunch of fragments in a trenchcoat, or anyone who doesn’t want to be known or doesn’t know who they are! i go by the system collective pronouns (he/soul/it) and i ID as an aroace gay man, trans man, boy+ and some other xenogenders!!
some random funky stuff: my true sign is lepia (link), im a seer of light. im also faeborn/a changeling, have a cat synpath, and also space and dinosaurs are op and the best dont @ me.
Not our usually content but you know you’re around neurotypicals when people are complaining about trigger warnings ruining a game. It’s like saying “I don’t read food labels because I don’t need them so I think they should be removed” okay they aren’t for you shut up and go back to complaining about memes on Instagram redditor.