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the idea that restrooms, locker rooms, etc need to be single-sex spaces in order for women to be safe is patriarchy's way of signalling to men & boys that society doesn't expect them to behave themselves around women. it is directly antifeminist. it would be antifeminist even if trans people did not exist. a feminist society would demand that women should be safe in all spaces even when there are men there.

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It's going to be a few more weeks from when the job I just left issues its last paycheck until the next job starts issuing paychecks. I'll have to examine what recurring expenses are necessities and which are luxuries.

*sighs and hits the "order more bromelain" button on the Amazon app*

Priorities.

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At some point in your life, you were taught that being slightly annoying is an unforgivable sin. Maybe it was by your parents or a teacher or a friend or a bully or an older sibling. But someone taught you that being slightly annoying is a crime punishable by death.

You must unlearn this.

You must accept that all people will be annoying at some point or another in their lives, maybe all of their lives, and that this is okay. It is okay for strangers on the bus, it is okay for children in the grocery store, it is okay for people on social media, and it is okay for you.

If you ever want to truly love your fellow humans, if you ever want to truly love yourself, you must have forgiveness for being annoying.

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i have the opposite of that “everyone is an npc” mentality people have embraced where i’m instead like. the person next to me in line has someone they can’t wait to go home to, the person picking up their mail has felt devastation before, everyone in this grocery store is doing their sunday shopping, maybe the person that just honked at me is having the worst day of their life, my neighbor has doctors appointments and favorite foods and a song they can’t stand to hear anymore… you are all fully realized complex people and that is overwhelming me on a spiritual level…

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invitation.

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I was inspired by 60s psychedelic posters, Coca Cola, and this poster from 1967.

Since I’ve moved, I have had so much more time to work on my art, so this summer I’m going to be pushing out more.

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thinking about this picture from 1975 taken in san fran on this day period

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Miss Congeniality (2000) dir. Donald Petrie

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M'rahz Nunh, M'naago's father, was only 23 when he became a nunh. In his early days, he couldn't please any of the other women, but with that lesson, he quickly honed his sensitivity to the needs of others. At 50, he now proves an effective leader.

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laios’ shirt fighting for it’s life

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I should have been a pair of ragged claws Scuttling across the floors of silent seas. rolling like a hot dog on the ocean floor

https://fb.watch/mjDHL25iin/?mibextid=Nif5oz

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Uh Oh, The One Other Guy Having The Same Problem As You Got Zero Replies To His Post On Reddit That He Made 5 Years Ago

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odin is like “when thor was born the sun shone bright upon his beautiful face. i found loki on the sidewalk outside a taco bell”

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the circus was in town that day 🤡

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if they don’t make sci-fi like this i don’t want it

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BRIAN MURPHY YOU GOTTA HONOR THE COCK. YOU SIMPLY MUST HONOR THE COCK